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‫ﺑﮕﻴﺮﺩ ﻣﺠﺒﻮﺭ ﺍﺳﺖ ﻗﺒ ًﻼ ﺑﻪ ﺍﺯﺩﻭﺍﺝ‬ ‫ﻧﺎﻣﺰﺩﻯ‪ ،‬ﻋﻘﺪﻛﻨﺎﻥ‪ ،‬ﻋﺮﻭﺳﻰ ﻭ ﻃﻼﻕ‬ ‫ﺩﺭﺑﺎﺭﻩ ﻣﺮﺍﺳﻢ ﻧﺎﻣﺰﺩﻯ ﻭ‬
‫ﻣﺮﺩ ﺩﻳﮕﺮﻯ ﺩﺭﺁﻳﺪ‪ ،‬ﻳﻚ ﺷﺐ ﺭﺍ ﺑﺎ ﺍﻭ‬ ‫ﺩﺭ ﺍﻳﺮﺍﻥ ﺩﻳﺮﻭﺯ‬ ‫ﻋﺮﻭﺳﻰ‬
‫ﺑﮕﺬﺭﺍﻧﺪ ﻭ ﺳﭙﺲ ﻣﻄﻠﻘﻪ ﺷﻮﺩ‪ .‬ﺑﻌﻀﻴﻬﺎ‬
‫ﺍﺷﺘﺒﺎﻫﺎً ﮔﻔﺘﻪﺍﻧﺪ ﻛﻪ ﭘﺲ ﺍﺯ ﺍﻭﻟﻴﻦ‬ ‫ﺑﻪ ﺍﻳﻦ ﻣﻮﺿﻮﻉ ﻛﺴﺐ ﻧﻤﺎﻳﻢ‪ .‬ﻣﻦ ﻣﺪﺕ ﺷﺶ ﻣﺎﻩ ﺩﺭ‬ ‫ﺳﺎﻟﻴﺎﻥ ﺳﺎﻝ ﺩﺭ ﻳﻚ ﺷﻬﺮ ﺍﻳﺮﺍﻥ ﺳﻜﻮﻧﺖ ﻧﻤﺎﻳﺪ‬ ‫ﺍﺷﺎﺭﻩ‪:‬‬ ‫ﻣﺮﺍﺳﻢ ﺯﻧﺎﺷﻮﻳﻰ ﺩﺭ ﺍﻳﺮﺍﻥ ﺍﺯ ﻧﻈﺮ‬
‫ﻃﻼﻕ ﺯﻥ ﺑﺎﻳﺪ ﺍﻳﻦ ﺁﺯﻣﺎﻳﺶ ﻋﺠﻴﺐ‬ ‫ﻗﺴﻤﺘﻰ ﺍﺯ ﺧﺎﻧﺔ ﺍﻳﻦ ﻣﺮﺩ ﺳﺎﻟﻤﻨﺪ ﻣﻬﺮﺑﺎﻥ ﺯﻧﺪﮔﻰ‬ ‫ﺑﺪﻭﻥ ﺁﻥ ﻛﻪ ﺣﺘﻰ ﻳﻚ ﺑﺎﺭ ﻣﻮﻓﻖ ﺑﻪ ﺩﻳﺪﺍﺭ ﺭﺧﺴﺎﺭ‬ ‫ﺁﻧﭽﻪ ﻣﻰﺧﻮﺍﻧﻴﺪ ﺑﺨﺸﻰ ﺍﺯ ﺳﻔﺮﻧﺎﻣﺔ ﮔﺎﺳﭙﺎﺭ‬ ‫ﺍﺭﻭﭘﺎﺋﻰﻫﺎ ﺑﺴﻴﺎﺭ ﺟﺎﻟﺐ ﻭ ﺷﮕﻔﺖﺍﻧﮕﻴﺰ‬
‫ﻛﺮﺩﻡ‪ .‬ﺍﻭ ﻣﻄﺎﺑﻖ ﻋﺎﺩﺍﺕ ﻭ ﺭﺳﻮﻡ ﻓﺮﺍﻧﺴﻮﻳﺎﻥ ﻛﻪ ﺑﻪ‬ ‫ﺯﻥ ﺍﻳﺮﺍﻧﻰ ﺷﺪﻩ ﺑﺎﺷﺪ‪ .‬ﻳﻚ ﺍﻗﺎﻣﺖ ﻃﻮﻻﻧﻰ‪ ،‬ﻫﻤﺮﺍﻩ‬ ‫ﺩﺭﻭﻭﻳﻞ ﻓﺮﺍﻧﺴﻮﻯ ﺍﺳﺖ ﻛﻪ ﺩﺭ ﻋﻬﺪ ﺳﻠﻄﻨﺖ‬ ‫ﺍﺳﺖ‪ .‬ﻣﺮﺍﺳﻤﻰ ﻛﻪ ﻗﺒﻞ ﺍﺯ ﻋﺮﻭﺳﻰ‬
‫ﺭﺍ ﭘﺸﺖﺳﺮ ﺑﮕﺬﺍﺭﺩ‪.‬‬ ‫ﺁﻧﻬﺎ ﺧﻮ ﮔﺮﻓﺘﻪ ﻭ ﭘﺬﻳﺮﻓﺘﻪ ﺑﻮﺩ‪ ،‬ﺭﻓﺘﺎﺭ ﻣﻰﻧﻤﻮﺩ ﻭ ﻛﻤﺘﺮ‬ ‫ﺑﺎ ﻛﻴﻔﻴﺎﺕ ﻛﺎﻣ ًﻼ ﻭﻳﮋﻩ ﻻﺯﻡ ﺍﺳﺖ ﺗﺎ ﺍﺟﺎﺯﺓ ﻭﺭﻭﺩ ﺑﻪ‬ ‫ﻓﺘﺤﻌﻠﻰﺷﺎﻩ ﻗﺎﺟﺎﺭ ﺑﻪ ﻣﺪﺕ ﺳﻪ ﺳﺎﻝ ﺩﺭ ﺍﻳﺮﺍﻥ‬ ‫ﻭ ﺣﻴﻦ ﺁﻥ ﻭ ﺑﻌﺪﺍً ﺻﻮﺭﺕ ﻣﻰﮔﻴﺮﺩ‬
‫ﺍﻳﻦ ﻣﻮﺍﺭﺩ ﺩﺭ ﻭﺍﻗﻊ ﺑﺴﻴﺎﺭ ﻧﺎﺩﺭﻧﺪ‬ ‫ﺭﻭﺯﻯ ﺑﻮﺩ ﻛﻪ ﻣﺮﺍ ﻧﺰﺩ ﺑﺎﻧﻮﺍﻥ ﺧﺎﻧﻮﺍﺩﻩﺍﺵ ﻧﺒﺮﺩ‪ .‬ﺍﻳﻦ‬ ‫ﺑﻌﻀﻰ ﺣﺮﻣﺴﺮﺍﻫﺎ‪ ،‬ﻛﻪ ﺗﻨﻬﺎ ﻣﻜﺎﻥ ﺑﺮﺍﻯ ﺁﺷﻨﺎﻳﻰ ﺑﺎ‬ ‫ﻣﻰﺯﻳﺴﺖ ﻭ ﻣﺸﻬﻮﺩﺍﺕ ﺧﻮﺩ ﺭﺍ ﺩﺭ ﺳﻔﺮﻧﺎﻣﻪﺍﻯ ﻧﻮﺷﺘﻪ‬ ‫ﺁﻥﻗﺪﺭ ﺷﮕﺮﻑ ﺍﺳﺖ ﻛﻪ ﻧﻤﻰﺗﻮﺍﻥ ﺁﻥ‬
‫ﻭﻟﻰ ﺑﻌﻀﻰ ﺍﻭﻗﺎﺕ ﺑﻪ ﺧﺼﻮﺹ ﺩﺭ‬ ‫ﺍﺣﺘﺮﺍﻡ ﻛﻪ ﺍﺑﺘﺪﺍ ﺍﺯ ﺭﻭﻯ ﻧﺰﺍﻛﺖ ﺑﻮﺩ ﻣﻨﺠﺮ ﺑﻪ ﻋﺎﺩﺕ‬ ‫ﺟﻨﺲ ﻟﻄﻴﻒ ﺍﺳﺖ‪ ،‬ﺑﻪ ﺩﺳﺖ ﺁﻳﺪ‪ ...‬ﺩﺭ ﻣﺪﺕ ﺳﻪ‬ ‫ﻭ ﺍﻧﺘﺸﺎﺭ ﺩﺍﺩﻩ ﺍﺳﺖ‪.‬ﺩﺭﻭﻭﻳﻞ‪ ،‬ﺩﺭ ﻓﺮﺍﻧﺴﻪ ﺑﺎ ﺳﺮﺗﻴﭗ‬
‫ﺧﺎﻧﻮﺍﺩﻩ ﺑﺰﺭﮔﺎﻥ ﭘﻴﺶ ﻣﻰﺁﻳﺪ ﻭ ﺑﺮﺍﻯ‬ ‫ﮔﺮﺩﻳﺪ ﻭ ﺑﻌﺪﻫﺎ ﺁﺯﺍﺩ ﺑﻮﺩﻡ ﻛﻪ ﺁﻧﻬﺎ ﺭﺍ ﻫﻤﺎﻧﻨﺪ ﺯﻧﻬﺎﻯ‬ ‫ﺳﺎﻝ ﺍﻗﺎﻣﺘﻢ ﺩﺭ ﺍﻳﻦ ﻛﺸﻮﺭ‪ ،‬ﺑﻪ ﺳﺒﺐ ﺭﻭﺍﺑﻂ ﺑﺴﻴﺎﺭ‬ ‫ﻋﺴﻜﺮﺧﺎﻥ ﺍﻓﺸﺎﺭ ﺍﺭﻭﻣﻰ ﺳﻔﻴﺮ ﻓﻮﻕﺍﻟﻌﺎﺩﻩ ﺍﻳﺮﺍﻥ ﺩﺭ‬ ‫ﺭﺍ ﺑﻪ ﺳﻜﻮﺕ ﺑﺮﮔﺬﺍﺭ ﻧﻤﻮﺩ‪.‬‬
‫ﭘﻴﺸﮕﻴﺮﻯ ﺍﺯ ﻧﺘﺎﻳﺞ ﺳﻮء ﻭ ﻧﺎﺧﻮﺷﺎﻳﻨﺪ‬ ‫ﺍﺭﻭﭘﺎﻳﻰ ﻣﻼﻗﺎﺕ ﻧﻤﺎﻳﻢ ﻭ ﺑﺎ ﻭﺟﻮﺩ ﺣﺴﺎﺩﺕ ﺷﺮﻗﻰﻫﺎ‬ ‫ﺻﻤﻴﻤﺎﻧﻪﺍﻯ ﻛﻪ ﻣﻮﺟﺐ ﺗﺴﻬﻴﻼﺗﻰ ﺑﺮﺍﻯ ﺩﺧﻮﻝ‬ ‫ﺩﺭﺑﺎﺭ ﻧﺎﭘﻠﺌﻮﻥ ﺑﻨﺎﭘﺎﺭﺕ ﺁﺷﻨﺎ ﺷﺪ ﻭ ﺩﺭ ﺗﻬﺮﺍﻥ‪ ،‬ﺑﻪ ﻃﻮﺭﻯ‬ ‫ﺍﻭﻻً ﺑﺴﻴﺎﺭ ﻧﺎﺩﺭ ﺍﺳﺖ ﻛﻪ ﺩﻭ ﻃﺮﻑ‬
‫ﺁﻥ ﺷﻮﻫﺮ‪ ،‬ﺯﻥ ﺳﻪ ﻃﻼﻗﻪ ﺧﻮﺩ ﺭﺍ ﺑﻪ‬ ‫ﻛﻪ ﺑﺴﻴﺎﺭ ﻣﺸﻬﻮﺭ ﻭ ﻣﻌﺮﻭﻑ ﺍﺳﺖ ﻫﺮﮔﺰ ﺑﻪ ﻧﻈﺮﻡ ﻧﻴﺎﻣﺪ‬ ‫ﺩﺭ ﺑﻌﻀﻰ ﺣﺮﻣﺨﺎﻧﻪﻫﺎ )ﺑﻪ ﻭﻳﮋﻩ ﺣﺮﻡﻫﺎﻯ ﺧﺎﻧﻮﺍﺩﺓ‬ ‫ﻛﻪﺧﻮﺩﺵﻣﻰﻧﻮﻳﺴﺪ‪،‬ﻣﻴﻬﻤﺎﻥﻋﺴﻜﺮﺧﺎﻥﺑﻮﺩ‪»:‬ﻳﻚ‬ ‫ﺫﻳﻨﻔﻊ‪ ،‬ﺷﺨﺼﺎً ﺗﺮﺗﻴﺐ ﺯﻧﺎﺷﻮﻳﻰ‬
‫ﻳﻚ ﻏﻼﻡ ﻣﻰﺩﻫﺪ ﻭ ﻏﻼﻡ ﺩﺭ ﻣﻘﺎﺑﻞ‬ ‫ﻋﺴﻜﺮﺧﺎﻥ( ﮔﺮﺩﻳﺪ‪ ،‬ﺗﻮﺍﻧﺴﺘﻢ ﺷﻨﺎﺧﺖ ﺯﻳﺎﺩﻯ ﺭﺍﺟﻊ‬ ‫ﺍﺭﻭﭘﺎﻳﻰ ﺩﺭ ﻫﺮ ﻣﻘﺎﻡ ﻭ ﻣﻨﺼﺒﻰ ﻛﻪ ﺑﺎﺷﺪ ﻣﻤﻜﻦ ﺍﺳﺖ‬ ‫ﺧﻮﺩ ﺭﺍ ﺑﺪﻫﻨﺪ‪ .‬ﺍﻳﻦ ﺍﻣﺮ ﻫﻤﻴﺸﻪ‬
‫ﻣﺒﻠﻎ ﭘﻮﻟﻰ ﻣﺘﻌﻬﺪ ﻣﻰﺷﻮﺩ ﻛﻪ ﺷﺐ‬ ‫ﻛﻪ ﺑﺎﻋﺚ ﺑﺪﮔﻤﺎﻧﻰ ﺁﻧﻬﺎ ﺷﺪﻩ ﺑﺎﺷﻢ«‪.‬‬ ‫ﺗﻮﺳﻂ ﭘﻴﺮﺯﻧﻬﺎﻳﻰ ﻛﻪ ﺗﻘﺮﻳﺒﺎً ﻫﻴﭻ‬
‫ﺭﺍ ﺑﺎ ﺍﻳﻦ ﺯﻥ ﺩﺭ ﺣﻀﻮﺭ ﻋﺪﻩ ﺯﻳﺎﺩﻯ ﺍﺯ‬ ‫ﻣﺸﻐﻠﻪ ﺩﻳﮕﺮﻯ ﺟﺰ ﺍﻳﻦ ﻧﺪﺍﺭﻧﺪ‪ ،‬ﺍﻧﺠﺎﻡ‬
‫ﺩﻭﺳﺘﺎﻥ ﺑﮕﺬﺭﺍﻧﺪ ﻭ ﺭﻭﺯ ﺑﻌﺪ ﺍﻭ ﺭﺍ ﻃﻼﻕ‬ ‫ﭼﻮﻥ ﺑﺎ ﻟﻜﻪﻫﺎﻯ ﺧﻮﻥ ﻧﺸﺎﻧﻪ ﭘﺎﻛﺪﺍﻣﻨﻰ‬ ‫ﻧﺎﻟﻪ ﻭ ﮔﺮﻳﻪ ﻭ ﻓﺮﻳﺎﺩ ﺍﺳﺖ ﻛﻪ ﺷﻨﻴﺪﻩ‬ ‫ﻣﻘﺎﻭﻣﺖ ﻋﺮﻭﺱ ﺑﻪ ﻫﻤﺎﻥ ﺍﻧﺪﺍﺯﻩ ﺯﻳﺎﺩﺗﺮ‬ ‫ﺍﺣﺴﺎﺱ ﺧﻮﺷﺒﺨﺘﻰ ﻣﻰﻧﻤﺎﻳﻨﺪ‪ .‬ﺑﺎ‬
‫ﺑﺪﻫﺪ‪ .‬ﺍﻳﻦ ﻧﻮﻉ ﺯﻧﺎﺷﻮﻳﻴﻬﺎﻯ ﻳﻚ ﺷﺒﻪ‬ ‫ﺩﺧﺘﺮﺷﺎﻥ ﻣﻰﺑﺎﺷﺪ ﺁﻥ ﺭﺍ ﺑﺎ ﻏﺮﻭﺭ ﺍﺯ‬ ‫ﻣﻰﺷﻮﺩ‪ .‬ﺩﺭ ﺍﻳﻦ ﺣﺎﻝ ﻓﻮﺭﺍً ﻋﺮﻭﺱ ﺭﺍ ﺑﻪ‬ ‫ﻣﻰﺷﻮﺩ ﻭ ﺍﺯ ﺍﻳﻦﺭﻭ ﻋﺮﻭﺱ ﭼﻨﺎﻥ ﺩﺍﺩ‬ ‫ﻭﺟﻮﺩ ﺍﻳﻦ‪ ،‬ﭼﻨﺎﻧﭽﻪ ﺩﺧﺘﺮ ﺩﺭ ﻣﻮﺭﺩ‬ ‫ﻣﻰﮔﻴﺮﺩ‪.‬‬
‫ﺑﻪ ﺩﻭﺭ ﺍﺯ ﻫﺮﮔﻮﻧﻪ ﺗﺸﺮﻳﻔﺎﺗﻰ ﺻﻮﺭﺕ‬ ‫ﺍﻭ ﻣﻰﮔﻴﺮﻧﺪ‪ .‬ﺍﻳﻦ ﺁﺩﺍﺏ ﻛﻪ ﺍﺯ ﺩﻭﺭﺍﻥ‬ ‫ﻣﻨﺰﻝ ﭘﺪﺭ ﻭ ﻣﺎﺩﺭﺵ ﺑﺮﻣﻰﮔﺮﺩﺍﻧﻨﺪ‪ .‬ﻭﻟﻰ‬ ‫ﻭ ﻓﺮﻳﺎﺩﻯ ﺑﻪ ﺭﺍﻩ ﻣﻰﺍﻧﺪﺍﺯﺩ ﻛﻪ ﮔﻮﻳﻰ‬ ‫ﺗﻘﺎﺿﺎﻯ ﺧﻮﺩ ﭘﺎﻓﺸﺎﺭﻯ ﻛﻨﺪ ﻧﺎﻣﺰﺩ‬ ‫ﻫﻨﮕﺎﻣﻰ ﻛﻪ ﺩﺭ ﺧﺎﻧﻮﺍﺩﻩﺍﻯ ﺻﺤﺒﺖ‬
‫ﻣﻰﮔﻴﺮﺩ ﻭ ﺯﻥ ﻭ ﺷﻮﻫﺮ ﻗﺒﻠﻰ ﺁﺯﺍﺩﻧﺪ‬ ‫ﺑﺎﺳﺘﺎﻥ ﺑﺎﻗﻰ ﻣﺎﻧﺪﻩ‪ ،‬ﺩﺭ ﺳﺮﺍﺳﺮ ﺁﺳﻴﺎ‬ ‫ﺩﺭ ﭼﻨﻴﻦ ﻣﻮﺍﺭﺩﻯ ﺩﺍﻣﺎﺩ ﺑﺎﻳﺪ ﺍﺯ ﻣﻬﺮﻳﻪ‪،‬‬ ‫ﻣﻰﺧﻮﺍﻫﻨﺪ ﺍﻭ ﺭﺍ ﺧﻔﻪ ﻛﻨﻨﺪ‪ .‬ﻻﺯﻡ ﺑﻪ‬ ‫ﺗﻤﺎﻡ ﺁﻥﭼﻪ ﺭﺍ ﻛﻪ ﺍﻭ ﺧﻮﺍﺳﺘﻪ ﺍﺳﺖ‬ ‫ﺍﺯ ﺯﻥ ﺩﺍﺩﻥ ﭘﺴﺮﺷﺎﻥ ﺑﻪ ﻣﻴﺎﻥ ﻣﻰﺁﻳﺪ‬
‫ﺩﻭﺑﺎﺭﻩ ﺑﺎ ﻫﻢ ﺍﺯﺩﻭﺍﺝ ﻛﻨﻨﺪ ﻭﻟﻰ ﭘﻴﺶ ﺍﺯ‬ ‫ﻭ ﺣﺘﻰ ﺩﺭ ﺭﻭﺳﻴﻪ ﻫﻢ ﻣﺮﺳﻮﻡ ﺍﺳﺖ ﻭ‬ ‫ﺟﻮﺍﻫﺮﺍﺕ ﻭ ﺍﺷﻴﺎﻳﻰ ﻛﻪ ﺑﻪ ﻋﺮﻭﺱ ﺩﺍﺩﻩ‪،‬‬ ‫ﺗﺬﻛﺮ ﺍﺳﺖ ﻛﻪ ﺗﺮﻙ ﺧﺎﻧﻪ ﭘﺪﺭﻯ ﺑﻪ‬ ‫ﻣﻰﺩﻫﺪ ﻭﻟﻰ ﺩﺭ ﻣﻮﻗﻊ ﻭﺭﻭﺩ ﺑﻪ ﺣﺮﻣﺴﺮﺍ‬ ‫ﻣﺎﺩﺭ‪ ،‬ﻋﻤﻪ ﻭ ﺧﺎﻟﻪ ﻭ ﻳﺎ ﻳﻜﻰ ﺩﻳﮕﺮ ﺍﺯ‬
‫ﺳﻪ ﻣﺎﻩ ﻧﻤﻰﺗﻮﺍﻧﻨﺪ ﻫﻤﺒﺴﺘﺮ ﺷﻮﻧﺪ‪ .‬ﺍﻳﻦ‬ ‫ﻓﻘﻂ ﺑﺮﺧﻰ ﺍﻓﺮﺍﺩ ﻃﺒﻘﺎﺕ ﺑﺎﻻ ﻫﺴﺘﻨﺪ‬ ‫ﭼﺸﻢﭘﻮﺷﻰ ﻛﻨﺪ‪ .‬ﺍﻳﻦ ﻗﺒﻴﻞ ﺭﻭﻳﺪﺍﺩﻫﺎ‬ ‫ﺍﻭﻟﻴﻦ ﺍﺷﺎﺭﻩ ﺩﺍﻣﺎﺩ ﺑﺮﺍﻯ ﻋﺮﻭﺱ ﺯﻳﺒﻨﺪﻩ‬ ‫ﻫﻤﻪ ﺭﺍ ﺍﺯ ﺍﻭ ﭘﺲ ﻣﻰﮔﻴﺮﺩ‪ .‬ﻋﺮﻭﺳﻬﺎ‬ ‫ﺯﻧﻬﺎﻯ ﺧﺎﻧﻮﺍﺩﻩ ﺑﻪ ﺍﻳﻦ ﻃﺮﻑ ﻭ ﺁﻥ‬
‫ﻣﻮﻋﺪ ﺭﺍ ﻗﺎﻧﻮﻥ‪ ،‬ﻻﺯﻡ ﺗﺸﺨﻴﺺ ﺩﺍﺩﻩ‬ ‫ﻛﻪ ﺧﻮﺩ ﺭﺍ ﺗﺎ ﺍﻳﻦ ﺍﻧﺪﺍﺯﻩ ﻣﻘﻴﺪ ﻧﻤﻰﺩﺍﻧﻨﺪ‪.‬‬ ‫ﺍﻣﺮﻭﺯ ﺗﺎ ﺍﻧﺪﺍﺯﻩﺍﻯ ﻧﺎﺩﺭ ﺍﺳﺖ ﺯﻳﺮﺍ ﻛﻤﺘﺮ‬ ‫ﻧﻴﺴﺖ‪ .‬ﺩﺭ ﻣﺮﺣﻠﻪ ﺁﺧﺮ ﭼﻮﻥ ﺷﻮﻫﺮ‬ ‫ﺩﺭ ﺍﻳﻦ ﻣﻮﻗﻌﻴﺖ ﺟﺮﺃﺕ ﻣﻘﺎﻭﻣﺖ ﻧﺪﺍﺭﻧﺪ‬ ‫ﻃﺮﻑ ﺳﺮﻛﺸﻰ ﻣﻰﻛﻨﻨﺪ ﺗﺎ ﺩﺧﺘﺮﻯ‬
‫ﺯﻳﺮﺍ ﻣﻤﻜﻦ ﺍﺳﺖ ﺯﻥ ﺍﺯ ﺷﻮﻫﺮ ﻳﻚ‬ ‫ﺍﺯ ﺁﻥﺟﺎ ﻛﻪ ﻧﻤﻰﺧﻮﺍﺳﺘﻢ ﺷﺮﺡ‬ ‫ﺍﺷﺨﺎﺻﻰ ﭘﻴﺪﺍ ﻣﻰﺷﻮﻧﺪ ﻛﻪ ﺑﻪ ﻃﺮﻳﻘﻰ‬ ‫ﻣﻰﺑﻴﻨﺪ ﻛﻪ ﺣﺮﻓﻬﺎﻳﺶ ﺑﻰﺍﺛﺮ ﺍﺳﺖ ﺑﺎ‬ ‫ﺯﻳﺮﺍ ﻧﻤﻰﺗﻮﺍﻧﻨﺪ ﺭﺳﻮﺍﻳﻰ ﭘﺲ ﻓﺮﺳﺘﺎﺩﻩ‬ ‫ﺭﺍ ﻛﻪ ﻓﻜﺮ ﻣﻰﻛﻨﻨﺪ ﻣﻮﺭﺩ ﭘﺴﻨﺪ‬
‫ﺷﺒﻪﺍﺵ ﺑﺎﺭﺩﺍﺭ ﺷﺪﻩ ﺑﺎﺷﺪ‪ .‬ﺩﺭ ﺻﻮﺭﺗﻰ‬ ‫ﻭﻇﺎﻳﻒ ﺍﻳﻦ ﭘﻴﺮﺯﻥ ﺭﺍ ﻧﻴﻤﻪ ﺗﻤﺎﻡ‬ ‫ﻗﺒ ًﻼ ﺩﺧﺘﺮ ﺭﺍ ﻧﺪﻳﺪﻩ ﺑﺎﺷﻨﺪ‪ .‬ﺩﻳﺪﺍﺭﻫﺎ ﺍﺯ‬ ‫ﻭﺟﻮﺩ ﻓﺮﻳﺎﺩﻫﺎﻯ ﻋﺮﻭﺱ ﻛﻪ ﺍﺯ ﺭﻭﻯ‬ ‫ﺟﻮﺍﻥ ﻭﺍﻗﻊ ﻣﻰﮔﺮﺩﺩ‪ ،‬ﭘﻴﺪﺍ ﻧﻤﺎﻳﻨﺪ ﻭ‬
‫ﻛﻪ ﺯﻥ ﻣﺎﻳﻞ ﺑﻪ ﺑﺎﺯﮔﺸﺖ ﺑﻪ ﺳﻮﻯ‬ ‫ﺑﮕﺬﺍﺭﻡ ﺯﻭﺩﺗﺮ ﺩﺭﺑﺎﺭﻩ ﺁﻥ ﺗﻮﺿﻴﺢ ﺩﺍﺩﻡ‬ ‫ﺭﺍﻩ ﻧﻴﺮﻧﮓ ﻭ ﻳﺎ ﺑﺎ ﻗﺮﺍﺭ ﻗﺒﻠﻰ ﺻﻮﺭﺕ‬ ‫ﻋﺮﻑ ﻭ ﻋﺎﺩﺕ ﺍﺳﺖ‪ ،‬ﺍﻭ ﺭﺍ ﻣﻰﺭﺑﺎﻳﺪ ﻭ‬ ‫ﺷﺪﻥ ﺭﺍ ﺑﻴﺎﺯﻣﺎﻳﻨﺪ‪.‬‬ ‫ﭼﻮﻥ ﭘﺴﺮ ﻧﻤﻰﺗﻮﺍﻧﺪ ﺩﺧﺘﺮ ﺭﺍ ﺑﺒﻴﻨﺪ‬
‫ﺷﻮﻫﺮ ﻗﺒﻠﻰ ﺧﻮﺩ ﻧﺒﺎﺷﺪ‪ ،‬ﺷﻮﻫﺮ ﺟﺪﻳﺪ‬ ‫ﻭ ﺍﻛﻨﻮﻥ ﺑﻪ ﺷﺮﺡ ﻭﻗﺎﻳﻌﻰ ﻛﻪ ﻗﺒﻞ ﺍﺯ ﺍﻳﻦ‬ ‫ﻣﻰﮔﻴﺮﺩ‪ .‬ﺑﻪ ﺍﻳﻦ ﺗﺮﺗﻴﺐ ﻛﻪ ﭘﻴﺮﺯﻧﻬﺎ ﻛﻪ‬ ‫ﺑﺮ ﺭﻭﻯ ﺍﺳﺒﻰ ﻛﻪ ﺑﺮﺍﻳﺶ ﺁﻣﺎﺩﻩ ﺷﺪﻩ‬ ‫ﺩﺭ ﺭﻭﺯ ﻋﻘﺪﻛﻨﺎﻥ ﺩﺍﻣﺎﺩ ﻫﻤﺮﺍﻩ ﭘﺪﺭ ﻭ‬ ‫ﻭﺍﺳﻄﻪﻫﺎ ﺗﺼﻮﻳﺮﻯ ﺍﺯ ﺑﺪ ﻭ ﺧﻮﺏ ﺩﺧﺘﺮ‬
‫ﺭﺍ ﺑﻪ ﻋﻤﻞ ﺯﻓﺎﻑ ﺗﺮﻏﻴﺐ ﻣﻰﻛﻨﺪ‪.‬‬ ‫ﺟﺮﻳﺎﻧﺎﺕ ﺭﺥ ﻣﻰﺩﻫﺪ‪ ،‬ﻣﻰﭘﺮﺩﺍﺯﻡ‪ .‬ﻗﺒ ًﻼ‬ ‫ﻧﻘﺶ ﻭﺍﺳﻄﻪ ﺭﺍ ﺩﺍﺭﻧﺪ ﺧﻮﺍﺳﺘﮕﺎﺭ ﺭﺍ ﺩﺭ‬ ‫ﺍﺳﺖ ﻣﻰﻧﺸﺎﻧﺪ‪ .‬ﺯﻧﻬﺎ ﻋﺮﻭﺱ ﺭﺍ ﺍﺣﺎﻃﻪ‬ ‫ﻣﺎﺩﺭﺵ ﺑﺎ ﻳﻚ ﺁﺧﻮﻧﺪ ﺑﻪ ﻣﻨﺰﻝ ﻋﺮﻭﺱ‬ ‫ﺭﺍ ﻛﻪ ﻣﻌﻤﻮﻻً ﺑﺎ ﺣﻘﻴﻘﺖ ﻫﻤﺮﺍﻩ ﺍﺳﺖ‬
‫ﻧﻤﻮﻧﻪﺍﻯ ﺍﺯ ﺍﻳﻦ ﻣﻮﺭﺩ ﺭﺍ ﺷﺨﺼﺎً ﺩﻳﺪﻩﺍﻡ‬ ‫ﮔﻔﺘﻢ ﻛﻪ ﺭﺍﺿﻰ ﻛﺮﺩﻥ ﺯﻥ ﺑﻪ ﺭﻓﺘﻦ ﺑﻪ‬ ‫ﺟﺎﻯ ﺧﻠﻮﺗﻰ ﭘﻨﻬﺎﻥ ﻣﻰﻛﻨﻨﺪ ﻭ ﺩﺧﺘﺮ‬ ‫ﻣﻰﻛﻨﻨﺪ ﻭ ﺑﺎ ﺍﻭ ﺑﻪ ﺳﻮﻯ ﻣﻨﺰﻝ ﺩﺍﻣﺎﺩ‬ ‫ﻣﻰﺭﻭﻧﺪ‪ .‬ﺁﺧﻮﻧﺪ ﺍﺯ ﻋﺮﻭﺱ ﻛﻪ ﺩﺭ ﭘﺸﺖ‬ ‫ﺑﺮﺍﻯ ﭘﺴﺮ ﺗﺮﺳﻴﻢ ﻣﻰﻛﻨﻨﺪ ﺯﻳﺮﺍ ﻛﻪ‬
‫ﻭ ﺁﻥ ﺯﻥ ﻋﺴﻜﺮﺧﺎﻥ ﻣﺎﺩﺭ ﭘﺴﺮ ﺩﻭﻣﺶ‬ ‫ﺣﺠﻠﻪ ﻛﺎﺭ ﺑﺴﻴﺎﺭ ﻣﺸﻜﻠﻰ ﺍﺳﺖ ﺍﻣﺎ ﺍﻳﻦ‬ ‫ﻛﻪ ﺍﺯ ﺯﻳﺒﺎﻳﻰ ﺧﻮﺩ ﺍﻃﻤﻴﻨﺎﻥ ﺩﺍﺭﺩ ﺑﻪ‬ ‫ﭘﻴﺶ ﻣﻰﺭﻭﻧﺪ‪ .‬ﻣﻮﻛﺐ ﻋﺮﻭﺱ ﺩﺭ ﺣﺎﻟﻰ‬ ‫ﭘﺮﺩﻩ ﺯﻧﺒﻮﺭﻯ ﺩﺭ ﺍﺗﺎﻕ ﻣﺠﺎﻭﺭ ﻧﺸﺴﺘﻪ ﻭ‬ ‫ﺍﮔﺮ ﺩﺭ ﺑﺎﺏ ﺩﺧﺘﺮ ﻛﻢ ﻭ ﺯﻳﺎﺩﻯ ﮔﻔﺘﻪ‬
‫ﺑﻮﺩ‪ .‬ﻋﺴﻜﺮﺧﺎﻥ ﻣﻰﺧﻮﺍﺳﺖ ﺯﻧﺶ ﺭﺍ‬ ‫ﻛﺸﻤﻜﺶ ﺩﺭ ﻣﻘﺎﻡ ﻣﻘﺎﻳﺴﻪ ﺑﺎ ﺁﻥﭼﻪ‬ ‫ﺻﻮﺭﺕ ﻇﺎﻫﺮ ﺑﻪ ﻃﻮﺭ ﺍﺗﻔﺎﻗﻰ ﺭﻭﻯ ﺧﻮﺩ‬ ‫ﻛﻪ ﺩﺳﺘﻪ ﻣﻮﺯﻳﻚ ﻭ ﺭﻗﺼﻨﺪﮔﺎﻥ ﺩﺭ ﺟﻠﻮ‬ ‫ﺍﺯ ﻧﻈﺮﻫﺎ ﭘﻨﻬﺎﻥ ﺍﺳﺖ‪ ،‬ﭘﺮﺳﺶ ﻣﻰﻛﻨﺪ‬ ‫ﺑﺎﺷﻨﺪ ﺧﻮﺩ ﺭﺍ ﺩﺭ ﻣﻌﺮﺽ ﺳﺮﺯﻧﺶ‬
‫ﻛﻪ ﺳﻪ ﻃﻼﻗﻪ ﻛﺮﺩﻩ ﺑﻮﺩ ﺩﻭﺑﺎﺭﻩ ﺑﻪ ﻋﻘﺪ‬ ‫ﺑﻌﺪﺍً ﺍﺗﻔﺎﻕ ﻣﻰﺍﻓﺘﺪ‪ ،‬ﻧﺎﭼﻴﺰ ﺍﺳﺖ‪ .‬ﺑﺮﺍﻯ‬ ‫ﺩﺭ ﺣﺮﻛﺖ ﻫﺴﺘﻨﺪ ﻗﺒﻞ ﺍﺯ ﺭﺳﻴﺪﻥ ﺑﻪ‬ ‫ﺁﻳﺎ ﺣﺎﺿﺮ ﺍﺳﺖ ﻣﺮﺩﻯ ﺭﺍ ﻛﻪ ﺩﺭ ﻣﻘﺎﺑﻞ‬ ‫ﻗﺮﺍﺭ ﻣﻰﺩﻫﻨﺪ ﻭ ﭼﻨﺎﻥﭼﻪ ﻋﺮﻭﺳﻰ‬
‫ﺧﻮﺩ ﺩﺭﺁﻭﺭﺩﻩ ﻭ ﺑﺮﺍﻯ ﺍﻳﻦ ﻣﻨﻈﻮﺭ ﺑﻪ‬ ‫ﺍﻳﻦ ﻛﻪ ﺩﺍﻣﺎﺩ ﺑﺘﻮﺍﻧﺪ ﻋﺮﻭﺱ ﺭﺍ ﻭﺍﺩﺍﺭ ﻛﻨﺪ‬ ‫ﺭﺍ ﺑﺎﺯ ﻣﻰﻛﻨﺪ‪.‬‬ ‫ﺧﺎﻧﻪ ﺩﺍﻣﺎﺩ ﺩﻭﺭ ﺷﻬﺮ ﮔﺮﺩﺍﻧﺪﻩ ﻣﻰﺷﻮﺩ‪.‬‬ ‫ﺧﻮﺩ ﻣﻰﺑﻴﻨﺪ ﺑﻪ ﺷﻮﻫﺮﻯ ﻗﺒﻮﻝ ﻛﻨﺪ؟‬ ‫ﺑﻪ ﺍﻳﻦ ﺩﻟﻴﻞ ﺑﻪ ﻫﻢ ﺑﺨﻮﺭﺩ ﺗﻤﺎﻡ‬
‫ﻳﻜﻰ ﺍﺯ ﻧﻮﻛﺮﻫﺎﻳﺶ ﻛﻪ ﺗﺼﻮﺭ ﻣﻰﻛﺮﺩ‬ ‫ﻛﻪ ﺯﻳﺮ ﺟﺎﻣﻪ ﻟﻌﻨﺘﻰ ﺭﺍ ﻛﻪ ﻣﺎﻧﻊ ﺍﻧﺠﺎﻡ‬ ‫ﭼﻨﺎﻧﭽﻪ ﺑﺮﻋﻜﺲ‪ ،‬ﻋﺮﻭﺱ ﻣﻮﺭﺩ‬ ‫ﺩﺍﻣﺎﺩ ﭘﺲ ﺍﺯ ﺭﺳﻴﺪﻥ ﺑﻪ ﺧﺎﻧﻪ ﺧﻮﺩ ﺑﺎ‬ ‫ﭘﺲ ﺍﺯ ﺩﺭﻳﺎﻓﺖ ﺟﻮﺍﺏ ﻣﺜﺒﺖ‪ ،‬ﻋﻴﻦ‬ ‫ﺳﻨﮕﻴﻨﻰ ﺧﺸﻢ ﺩﻭ ﺧﺎﻧﻮﺍﺩﻩ ﺑﺮ ﺭﻭﻯ‬
‫ﺷﺨﺺ ﻣﻄﻤﺌﻨﻰ ﺍﺳﺖ ﺍﻋﺘﻤﺎﺩ ﻛﺮﺩ ﻭ‬ ‫ﻧﻴﺘﺶ ﻣﻰﺑﺎﺷﺪ ﺩﺭﺁﻭﺭﺩ ﺑﺎﻳﺪ ﺧﻴﻠﻰ‬ ‫ﭘﺴﻨﺪ ﻭﺍﻗﻊ ﺷﻮﺩ ﺗﺎﺯﻩ ﺩﺍﻣﺎﺩ ﺩﺭ ﻛﻨﺎﺭ‬ ‫ﻫﻤﺮﺍﻫﺎﻥ ﻭﺍﺭﺩ ﺗﺎﻻﺭ ﻣﻰﺷﻮﺩ ﻭ ﻋﺮﻭﺱ‬ ‫ﻫﻤﻴﻦ ﭘﺮﺳﺶ ﺭﺍ ﺍﺯ ﺩﺍﻣﺎﺩ ﻣﻰﻛﻨﺪ ﺑﺎ ﺍﻳﻦ‬ ‫ﺁﻧﻬﺎ ﻣﻰﺍﻓﺘﺪ‪ .‬ﺍﻳﻦ ﺯﻧﻬﺎ ﺑﺎﻳﺪ ﺧﻴﻠﻰ‬
‫ﺯﻥ ﺭﺍ ﺑﻪ ﺍﻭ ﺩﺍﺩ‪ .‬ﺯﻥ ﺑﺮﺍﻯ ﺍﺣﺘﺮﺍﺯ ﺍﺯ‬ ‫ﻛﻮﺷﺶ ﻛﻨﺪ ﻭ ﺍﺯ ﺍﻳﻦﺭﻭ ﺩﺍﻣﺎﺩ ﺩﺭ ﺩﻓﻌﻪ‬ ‫ﻭﻯ ﻣﻰﻧﺸﻴﻨﺪ ﻭ ﺑﻪ ﺍﻭ ﺍﻃﻤﻴﻨﺎﻥ ﻣﻰﺩﻫﺪ‬ ‫ﺭﺍ ﺑﻪ ﺣﺮﻣﺴﺮﺍ ﻣﻰﺑﺮﻧﺪ‪ .‬ﺗﻔﺮﻳﺤﺎﺕ ﻭ ﺳﺎﺯ‬ ‫ﺗﻔﺎﻭﺕ ﻛﻪ ﺩﺍﻣﺎﺩ ﺯﻧﻰ ﺭﺍ ﻛﻪ ﺭﺍﺿﻰ ﺑﻪ‬
‫ﺑﺮﮔﺸﺘﻦ ﻧﺰﺩ ﺷﻮﻫﺮ ﻫﻮﺳﺮﺍﻧﺶ‪ ،‬ﺍﺯﺩﻭﺍﺝ‬ ‫ﺍﻭﻝ ﺑﻪ ﻣﺒﺎﺷﺮﺕ ﺍﻳﻦ ﻣﺮﺣﻠﻪ ﺍﺳﺎﺳﻰ‬ ‫ﻛﻪ ﺗﺎ ﺁﺧﺮ ﻋﻤﺮ ﺩﻭﺳﺘﺶ ﺧﻮﺍﻫﺪ ﺩﺍﺷﺖ‪.‬‬ ‫ﻭ ﺁﻭﺍﺯ ﺗﺎ ﺷﺐ ﺍﺩﺍﻣﻪ ﭘﻴﺪﺍ ﻣﻰﻛﻨﺪ‪ .‬ﺳﭙﺲ‬ ‫ﺍﺯﺩﻭﺍﺝ ﺑﺎ ﺍﻭﺳﺖ ﻧﻤﻰﺑﻴﻨﺪ‪ .‬ﭘﺲ ﺍﺯ ﻗﺒﻮﻝ‬ ‫َﻣﺤﺮﻡ ﻭ ّﺳﺮ ﻧﮕﻬﺪﺍﺭ ﺑﺎﺷﻨﺪ‪.‬‬
‫ﺟﺪﻳﺪﺵ ﺭﺍ ﺑﻪ ﺛﻤﺮ ﺭﺳﺎﻧﺪ ﻭ ﺍﺯ ﺍﻳﻦ‬ ‫ﻛﻪ ﺗﺼﺮﻑ ﺯﻥ ﺑﺎﺷﺪ ﺩﺳﺖ ﻧﻤﻰﻳﺎﺑﺪ‪.‬‬ ‫ﺳﭙﺲ ﺍﺯ ﺧﺎﻧﻤﻬﺎﻳﻰ ﻛﻪ ﺑﻪ ﻫﻤﺮﺍﻩ‬ ‫ﺷﺎﻡ ﺩﺍﺩﻩ ﻣﻰﺷﻮﺩ ﻛﻪ ﻏﺎﻟﺒﺎً ﺗﺎ ﻧﺼﻒ‬ ‫ﺩﺍﻣﺎﺩ‪ ،‬ﺁﺧﻮﻧﺪ ﺑﻪ ﺧﻮﺍﻧﺪﻥ ﺍﺩﻋﻴﻪ ﺧﺎﺹ‬ ‫ﭼﻨﺎﻥﭼﻪ ﺗﻮﺻﻴﻔﻰ ﻛﻪ ﺍﺯ ﺩﺧﺘﺮ‬
‫ﺍﺯﺩﻭﺍﺝ ﺗﺎ ﻣﻮﻗﻊ ﻋﺰﻳﻤﺖ ﻣﻦ ﺻﺎﺣﺐ‬ ‫ﻣﻤﻜﻦ ﺍﺳﺖ ﺗﺼﻮﺭ ﺷﻮﺩ ﻛﻪ ﭘﺲ ﺍﺯ‬ ‫ﻋﺮﻭﺱ ﺁﻣﺪﻩﺍﻧﺪ ﺗﺸﻜﺮ ﻣﻰﻛﻨﺪ‪ .‬ﺧﺎﻧﻤﻬﺎ‬ ‫ﺷﺐ ﻃﻮﻝ ﻣﻰﻛﺸﺪ‪ .‬ﺁﻥﮔﺎﻩ ﺩﻭﺳﺘﺎﻥ‪،‬‬ ‫ﺯﻧﺎﺷﻮﻳﻰ ﻣﻰﭘﺮﺩﺍﺯﺩ ﻭ ﺑﻪ ﺍﻳﻦ ﺗﺮﺗﻴﺐ‬ ‫ﻣﻰﺷﻮﺩ ﻣﻮﺭﺩ ﭘﺴﻨﺪ ﭘﺴﺮ ﻗﺮﺍﺭ ﮔﻴﺮﺩ‬
‫ﺗﻤﺎﻡ ﺍﻳﻦ ﺟﺮﻳﺎﻧﺎﺕ ﻛﻠﻴﻪ ﺍﺷﻜﺎﻻﺕ‬ ‫ﻛﻪ ﻣﻰﺑﻴﻨﻨﺪ ﺯﻥ ﻭ ﺷﻮﻫﺮ ﺑﻪ ﺧﻮﺑﻰ ﺑﺎ‬ ‫ﺗﺎﺯﻩ ﺩﺍﻣﺎﺩ ﺭﺍ ﺗﺎ ﺩﺭ ﺣﺮﻣﺴﺮﺍ ﻫﻤﺮﺍﻫﻰ‬ ‫ﺗﺸﺮﻳﻔﺎﺕ ﭘﺎﻳﺎﻥ ﻣﻰﮔﻴﺮﺩ‪ .‬ﺩﺭ ﺍﻳﻦ ﻣﻮﻗﻊ‬ ‫ﻭ ﺑﻪ ﺣﺼﻮﻝ ﻭﺻﻠﺖ ﺭﺿﺎ ﺩﻫﺪ‪ ،‬ﻭﺍﻟﺪﻳﻦ‬
‫ﺩﻭ ﻓﺮﺯﻧﺪ ﺷﺪ‪.‬‬ ‫ﺑﺮﻃﺮﻑ ﺷﺪﻩ‪ ،‬ﺩﺭ ﺻﻮﺭﺗﻰ ﻛﻪ ﭼﻨﻴﻦ‬ ‫ﻫﻢ ﺳﺎﺯﺵ ﺩﺍﺭﻧﺪ ﺑﻪ ﺯﻭﺩﻯ ﺁﻧﻬﺎ ﺭﺍ ﺗﻨﻬﺎ‬ ‫ﻣﻰﻛﻨﻨﺪ ﻭ ﺑﺮﺍﻯ ﺍﻭ ﻫﺮﮔﻮﻧﻪ ﻧﻴﻜﺒﺨﺘﻰ‬ ‫ﺩﺍﻣﺎﺩ ﺭﻭﺯﻯ ﺭﺍ ﻛﻪ ﺩﻧﺒﺎﻝ ﻋﺮﻭﺱ ﺧﻮﺍﻫﺪ‬ ‫ﭘﺴﺮ ﻭ ﺩﺧﺘﺮ ﻳﻚ ﺩﻳﮕﺮ ﺭﺍ ﻣﻼﻗﺎﺕ‬
‫ﺯﻧﻬﺎﻳﻰ ﻛﻪ ﻣﻄﻠﻘﻪ ﻣﻰﺷﻮﻧﺪ ﻳﺎ‬ ‫ﻧﻴﺴﺖ‪ .‬ﺍﺷﻜﺎﻝ ﺩﻳﮕﺮﻯ ﻫﻢ ﻫﺴﺖ ﻛﻪ‬ ‫ﻣﻰﮔﺬﺍﺭﻧﺪ‪ .‬ﻛﻨﻴﺰﻫﺎ ﭘﺲ ﺍﺯ ﻣﺮﺗﺐ ﻛﺮﺩﻥ‬ ‫ﺁﺭﺯﻭ ﻣﻰﻧﻤﺎﻳﻨﺪ ﺧﺎﺻﻪ ﺁﻥ ﻛﻪ ﻧﻮﻋﺮﻭﺱ‬ ‫ﻓﺮﺳﺘﺎﺩ ﺗﻌﻴﻴﻦ ﻣﻰﻧﻤﺎﻳﺪ‪ .‬ﻣﻌﻤﻮﻻً ﺍﻳﻦ‬ ‫ﻣﻰﻛﻨﻨﺪ ﻭ ﺩﺭﺑﺎﺭﻩ ﻣﺴﺎﻳﻞ ﻣﺎﺩﻯ ﻗﺮﺍﺭ‬
‫ﻃﻼﻕ ﻣﻰﮔﻴﺮﻧﺪ ﻫﺮﮔﻮﻧﻪ ﺣﻘﻰ ﺭﺍ‬ ‫ﺩﺭ ﺍﺭﻭﭘﺎ ﺑﻪ ﻧﺪﺭﺕ ﭘﻴﺶ ﻣﻰﺁﻳﺪ ﻭ ﺁﻥ‬ ‫ﺣﺠﻠﻪ ﺧﺎﺭﺝ ﻣﻰﺷﻮﻧﺪ ﻭ ﻓﻘﻂ ﺁﻥ ﻛﻪ‬ ‫ﻣﻮﺭﺩ ﭘﺴﻨﺪﺵ ﻗﺮﺍﺭ ﺑﮕﻴﺮﺩ‪ .‬ﻣﻄﺮﺑﻬﺎ‪،‬‬ ‫ﺍﻣﺮ ﭘﻴﺶ ﺍﺯ ﻳﻚ ﻣﺎﻩ ﺻﻮﺭﺕ ﻧﻤﻰﮔﻴﺮﺩ‪.‬‬ ‫ﻭ ﻣﺪﺍﺭ ﻣﻰﮔﺬﺍﺭﻧﺪ‪ .‬ﺷﻮﻫﺮ ﺁﻳﻨﺪﻩ ﻣﺒﻠﻐﻰ‬
‫ﺑﺮ ﻓﺮﺯﻧﺪﺍﻥ ﺧﻮﺩ ﺍﺯ ﺩﺳﺖ ﻣﻰﺩﻫﻨﺪ‪.‬‬ ‫ﻋﺒﺎﺭﺕ ﺍﺯ ﻣﺸﻜﻞ ﻋﻤﻞ ﻛﺎﻣﻞ ﺯﻓﺎﻑ‬ ‫ﺑﻴﻦ ﺁﻧﻬﺎ ﺍﺯ ﻫﻤﻪ ﻣﺴﻦﺗﺮ ﺍﺳﺖ ﻣﻰﻣﺎﻧﺪ‬ ‫ﺁﻭﺍﺯﺧﻮﺍﻧﻬﺎ ﻭ ﺭﻗﺼﻨﺪﮔﺎﻥ ﻛﻪ ﻣﺠﻠﺲ‬ ‫ﺩﺭ ﺭﻭﺯ ﻣﻮﻋﻮﺩ‪ ،‬ﺩﺍﻣﺎﺩ ﻛﻠﻴﻪ ﺩﻭﺳﺘﺎﻧﺶ‬
‫ﻓﺮﺯﻧﺪﺍﻥ ﺩﺭ ﻛﻠﻴﻪ ﻣﻮﺍﺭﺩ ﻭ ﺑﺪﻭﻥ ﺗﻮﺟﻪ‬ ‫ﺍﺳﺖ ﻛﻪ ﺍﺟﺮﺍﻯ ﺁﻥ ﺑﻪ ﺩﺭﺍﺯﺍ ﻣﻰﻛﺸﺪ‪ ،‬ﺑﻪ‬ ‫ﺗﺎ ﺑﺮﺍﻯ ﺭﺍﺿﻰ ﻛﺮﺩﻥ ﻋﺮﻭﺱ ﺑﻪ ﺍﻧﺠﺎﻡ‬ ‫ﺟﺸﻦ ﺭﺍ ﺭﻭﻧﻖ ﺩﺍﺩﻩﺍﻧﺪ ﺩﺭ ﺑﻴﺮﻭﻧﻰ‬ ‫ﺭﺍ ﻛﻪ ﻋﺪﻩ ﺁﻧﻬﺎ ﺑﻪ ﺻﺪ ﺗﺎ ﺻﺪ ﻭ ﭘﻨﺠﺎﻩ‬ ‫ﺑﺎﺑﺖ ﻣﻬﺮﻳﻪ ﺑﺮﻋﻬﺪﻩ ﻣﻰﮔﻴﺮﺩ‪.‬‬
‫ﺑﻪ ﺟﻨﺴﻴﺖ‪ ،‬ﻫﻤﻴﺸﻪ ﻧﺰﺩ ﭘﺪﺭﺷﺎﻥ‬ ‫ﻃﻮﺭﻯ ﻛﻪ ﻋﻤﻮﻣﺎً ﻫﻔﺘﻪﻫﺎ ﻭ ﺣﺘﻰ ﻣﺎﻫﻬﺎ‬ ‫ﺯﻓﺎﻑ ﺑﻪ ﺩﺍﻣﺎﺩ ﻛﻤﻚ ﻛﻨﺪ‪ .‬ﺭﺍﺿﻰ ﻛﺮﺩﻥ‬ ‫ﻣﺴﺘﻘﺮ ﻣﻰﺷﻮﻧﺪ ﻭ ﺩﺭ ﺁﻥﺟﺎ ﻏﺎﻟﺒﺎً ﺑﻪ‬ ‫ﻧﻔﺮ ﻣﻰﺭﺳﺪ ﻭ ﻫﻤﮕﻰ ﻛﺎﻣ ًﻼ ﻣﺴﻠﺢ ﻭ‬ ‫ﺍﻳﻦ ﻣﺒﻠﻎ ﺩﺭ ﺻﻮﺭﺕ ﺑﺮﻭﺯ ﻫﺮﮔﻮﻧﻪ‬
‫ﻣﻰﻣﺎﻧﻨﺪ‪ .‬ﻣﻰﺗﻮﺍﻥ ﮔﻔﺖ ﻛﻪ ﭘﺪﺭﻫﺎ‬ ‫ﻣﻰﮔﺬﺭﺩ ﺗﺎ ﻛﺎﺭ ﺑﻪ ﭘﺎﻳﺎﻥ ﺑﺮﺳﺪ‪ .‬ﺑﺎﻳﺪ‬ ‫ﻋﺮﻭﺱ ﻛﺎﺭ ﺑﺴﻴﺎﺭ ﻣﺸﻜﻠﻰ ﺍﺳﺖ ﻭ ﻏﺎﻟﺒﺎً‬ ‫ﻣﺪﺕ ﻳﻚ ﻫﻔﺘﻪ ﺷﺒﺎﻧﻪﺭﻭﺯ ﻭ ﺑﻰﻭﻗﻔﻪ‬ ‫ﺳﻮﺍﺭ ﺑﺮ ﺍﺳﺐ ﻫﺴﺘﻨﺪ ﺟﻤﻊ ﻣﻰﻛﻨﺪ‪.‬‬ ‫ﺍﺗﻔﺎﻗﻰ ﺑﻪ ﺯﻥ ﺗﻌﻠﻖ ﻣﻰﮔﻴﺮﺩ ﺍﻣﺎ‬
‫ﺻﺎﺣﺐ ﻣﻄﻠﻖ ﻓﺮﺯﻧﺪﺍﻥ ﻫﺴﺘﻨﺪ‪ ،‬ﺯﻳﺮﺍ‬ ‫ﻣﺘﺬﻛﺮ ﺷﺪ ﻛﻪ ﺣﺘﻰ ﺩﺭ ﺁﻥ ﻣﻮﻗﻊ ﻫﻢ‬ ‫ﺳﺎﻋﺘﻬﺎ ﻃﻮﻝ ﻣﻰﻛﺸﺪ ﺗﺎ ﺑﺎ ﺧﻮﺍﻫﺶ ﻭ‬ ‫ﻣﻰﻧﻮﺍﺯﻧﺪ‪ .‬ﺗﺎ ﻫﻨﮕﺎﻣﻰ ﻛﻪ ﺁﻭﺍﻯ ﻣﻮﺳﻴﻘﻰ‬ ‫ﭼﻨﺪ ﻧﻔﺮ ﺍﺯ ﺯﻧﻬﺎ ﻫﻢ ﺳﻮﺍﺭ ﺑﺮ ﺍﺳﺐ‬ ‫ﺍﺳﺒﺎﺏ ﻭ ﻟﻮﺍﺯﻡ ﺁﺭﺍﻳﺶ ﻭ ﻫﻤﭽﻨﻴﻦ‬
‫ﺩﺭ ﻣﺸﺮﻕ ﺯﻣﻴﻦ ﺍﺧﺘﻴﺎﺭﺍﺕ ﺁﻧﻬﺎ ﺣﺪ ﻭ‬ ‫ﻋﺮﻑ ﻭ ﻣﺬﻫﺐ ﻣﺎﻧﻊ ﻛﺎﻡ ﮔﺮﻓﺘﻦ ﻛﺎﻣﻞ‬ ‫ﺗﻤﻨﺎﻯ ﺯﻳﺎﺩ ﺑﻪ ﺍﺷﻜﺎﻝ ﺑﻪ ﺁﻥ ﺗﻦ ﺩﺭ‬ ‫ﺷﻨﻴﺪﻩ ﻣﻰﺷﻮﺩ ﻭ ﺍﻳﻦ ﺑﺎﺯﻳﮕﺮﺍﻥ ﭘﺮ ﺳﺮ ﻭ‬ ‫ﻣﻰﺷﻮﻧﺪ ﻭ ﺍﺳﺒﻰ ﺭﺍ ﻛﻪ ﺑﺮﺍﻯ ﻋﺮﻭﺱ‬ ‫ﺣﺠﻠﻪ ﻋﺮﻭﺳﻰ ﺭﺍ ﺧﺎﻧﻮﺍﺩﻩ ﺩﺧﺘﺮ ﻓﺮﺍﻫﻢ‬
‫ﻣﺮﺯﻯ ﻧﺪﺍﺭﺩ ﻭ ﻓﺮﺯﻧﺪﺍﻥ ﺩﺭ ﻫﺮ ﺳﻦ ﻭ‬ ‫ﺩﺍﻣﺎﺩ ﺍﺳﺖ ﺯﻳﺮﺍ ﻗﺒﻞ ﺍﺯ ﺳﻪ ﺷﺒﺎﻧﻪﺭﻭﺯ‬ ‫ﺩﻫﺪ‪ .‬ﺍﺯ ﻧﻈﺮ ﺍﻳﺮﺍﻧﻴﻬﺎ ﺷﺘﺎﺏ ﺩﺭ ﺑﺮﺁﻭﺭﺩﻥ‬ ‫ﺻﺪﺍ ﺑﻪ ﻳﻚ ﺑﺎﺭﻩ ﻣﺮﺧﺺ ﻧﺸﺪﻩﺍﻧﺪ ﺟﺸﻦ‬ ‫ﺑﻪ ﻃﺮﺯﻯ ﺑﺎ ﺷﻜﻮﻩ ﺯﻳﻦ ﻭ ﺑﺮگ ﺷﺪﻩ‪ ،‬ﺑﺎ‬ ‫ﻣﻰﻛﻨﺪ‪ .‬ﺁﻥﮔﺎﻩ ﺭﻭﺯ ﻧﺎﻣﺰﺩﻯ ﺗﻌﻴﻴﻦ‬
‫ﻣﻘﺎﻣﻰ ﻛﻪ ﺑﺎﺷﻨﺪ‪ ،‬ﻫﺮﮔﺰ ﺑﺪﻭﻥ ﺍﺟﺎﺯﻩ‬ ‫ﺗﻤﺎﻡ ﻧﻤﻰﺗﻮﺍﻧﺪ ﻣﺠﺪﺩﺍً ﺑﻪ ﺯﻧﺶ ﻧﺰﺩﻳﻚ‬ ‫ﺩﻟﺨﻮﺍﻩ ﺩﺍﻣﺎﺩ ﻧﻮﻋﻰ ﺳﺒﻜﻰ ﻭ ﺟﻠﻔﻰ‬ ‫ﺍﺩﺍﻣﻪ ﺩﺍﺭﺩ ﻭ ﺳﻔﺮﻩﻫﺎ ﺑﺮﺍﻯ ﭘﺬﻳﺮﺍﻳﻰ‬ ‫ﺧﻮﺩ ﻣﻰﺑﺮﻧﺪ‪ .‬ﺩﺳﺘﻪ ﺳﻮﺍﺭﺍﻥ ﺩﺭ ﺣﺎﻟﻰ‬ ‫ﻣﻰﺷﻮﺩ ﻭ ﻛﻠﻴﻪ ﺁﺷﻨﺎﻳﺎﻥ ﺑﺮﺍﻯ ﺷﺮﻛﺖ‬
‫ﮔﺮﺩﺩ‪ .‬ﺍﻳﻦ ﻋﻤﻞ ﺧﺎﺭﻕﺍﻟﻌﺎﺩﻩ ﺭﺍ ﺍﻳﺮﺍﻧﻴﻬﺎ‬ ‫ﻣﺤﺴﻮﺏ ﻣﻰﺷﻮﺩ ﻭ ﺍﺯ ﺍﻳﻦﺭﻭ ﺑﻌﻀﻰ‬ ‫ﻛﻪ ﻣﻄﺮﺑﻬﺎ‪ ،‬ﺁﻭﺍﺯﺧﻮﺍﻧﻬﺎ ﻭ ﺭﻗﺼﻨﺪﮔﺎﻥ‬ ‫ﺩﺭ ﺍﻳﻦ ﻣﺮﺍﺳﻢ‪ ،‬ﺩﺭ ﺭﻭﺯ ﻭ ﺳﺎﻋﺖ ﻣﻌﻴﻦ‬
‫ﺩﺭ ﺣﻀﻮﺭ ﭘﺪﺭ ﻧﻤﻰﻧﺸﻴﻨﻨﺪ‪.‬‬ ‫ﺍﻳﻦﻃﻮﺭ ﺗﻮﺟﻴﻪ ﻣﻰﻛﻨﻨﺪ ﻛﻪ ﺍﮔﺮ ﺯﻥ ﺩﺭ‬ ‫ﺍﻭﻗﺎﺕ ﻋﺮﻭﺳﻬﺎ ﻣﺎﻫﻬﺎ ﺑﻪ ﺁﻥ ﺭﺿﺎﻳﺖ‬ ‫ﺁﻣﺎﺩﻩ ﺍﺳﺖ‪.‬‬ ‫ﺩﺭ ﺟﻠﻮ ﺩﺭ ﺣﺮﻛﺖ ﻫﺴﺘﻨﺪ ﺩﻭ ﺳﺎﻋﺖ‬ ‫ﺩﻋﻮﺕ ﻣﻰﺷﻮﻧﺪ‪ .‬ﺍﺑﺘﺪﺍ ﭘﺴﺮﻯ ﺭﺍ ﻛﻪ‬
‫ﻣﺮﺩ ﺍﻳﺮﺍﻧﻰ ﻣﻰﺗﻮﺍﻧﺪ ﻫﺮ ﻣﻮﻗﻊ ﻛﻪ‬ ‫ﺍﻳﻦ ﻟﺤﻈﻪ ﺁﺑﺴﺘﻦ ﺷﻮﺩ ﺑﭽﻪﺍﻯ ﻛﻪ ﺑﻪ‬ ‫ﻣﻮﻗﻌﻰ ﻛﻪ ﺯﻧﻬﺎ ﺍﺯ ﻭﺭﻭﺩ ﺩﺍﻣﺎﺩ ﺁﮔﺎﻩ‬ ‫ﻗﺒﻞ ﺍﺯ ﻏﺮﻭﺏ ﺁﻓﺘﺎﺏ‪ ،‬ﺭﺍﻩ ﺧﺎﻧﻪ ﻋﺮﻭﺱ ﺭﺍ‬ ‫ﻧﺎﻣﺰﺩ ﺷﺪﻩ‪ ،‬ﺑﻪ ﺣﻀﺎﺭ ﻣﻌﺮﻓﻰ ﻭ ﺍﻋﻼﻡ‬
‫ﺑﺨﻮﺍﻫﺪ ﺯﻥ ﺧﻮﺩ ﺭﺍ ﻃﻼﻕ ﺑﺪﻫﺪ‪ ،‬ﺍﻣﺎ‬ ‫ﻭﺟﻮﺩ ﻣﻰﺁﻳﺪ ﺍﺯ ﺧﻮﻥ ﺍﺳﺖ‪ .‬ﺍﻳﻦ ﻧﻮﻉ‬ ‫ﻧﻤﻰﺩﻫﻨﺪ‪.‬‬ ‫ﺷﺪﻧﺪ ﺻﻮﺭﺕ ﻋﺮﻭﺱ ﺭﺍ ﻣﻰﭘﻮﺷﺎﻧﻨﺪ‪.‬‬ ‫ﭘﻴﺶ ﻣﻰﮔﻴﺮﻧﺪ ﻭ ﺩﺭ ﻃﻮﻝ ﺭﺍﻩ ﭼﻨﺪﻳﻦ‬ ‫ﻣﻰﻛﻨﻨﺪ ﻛﻪ ﺍﺯ ﺍﻣﺮﻭﺯ ﺍﻭ ﻗﻮﻝ ﺍﺯﺩﻭﺍﺝ‬
‫ﺯﻧﻬﺎ ﻓﻘﻂ ﺩﺭ ﺳﻪ ﻣﻮﺭﺩ ﻣﻰﺗﻮﺍﻧﻨﺪ‬ ‫ﺍﺳﺘﺪﻻﻝ ﺍﺯ ﺟﺎﻧﺐ ﭼﻨﻴﻦ ﻣﻠﺖ ﺯﻳﺮﻛﻰ‬ ‫ﻛﻨﻴﺰ ﺳﺎﻟﺨﻮﺭﺩﻩ‪ ،‬ﻧﺨﺴﺖ ﭘﺎﺭﭼﻪ‬ ‫ﺑﺮﻃﺒﻖ ﺁﺩﺍﺏ ﻭ ﺭﺳﻮﻡ ﺩﺍﻣﺎﺩ ﺑﺎﻳﺪ ﺑﻪ‬ ‫ﺑﺎﺭ ﺩﺳﺘﻪﺟﻤﻌﻰ ﺷﻠﻴﻚ ﻣﻰﻛﻨﻨﺪ‪ .‬ﺑﻪ‬ ‫ﺑﻪ ﻧﺎﻣﺰﺩﺵ ﺩﺍﺩﻩ ﺍﺳﺖ ﻭ ﺳﭙﺲ ﺭﻭﺯ‬
‫ﺑﺰﺭگ ﺳﻔﻴﺪﻯ ﺑﺮ ﺭﻭﻯ ﺩﻭﺷﻚ‬ ‫ﺩﺳﺖ ﺧﻮﺩ ﻧﻘﺎﺏ ﺍﺯ ﭼﻬﺮﻩ ﻋﺮﻭﺱ‬ ‫ﻣﺠﺮﺩ ﺭﺳﻴﺪﻥ ﺑﻪ ﺧﺎﻧﻪ ﻋﺮﻭﺱ‪ ،‬ﺩﺍﻣﺎﺩ‬ ‫ﻋﻘﺪﻛﻨﺎﻥ ﺭﺍ ﺗﻌﻴﻴﻦ ﻣﻰﻛﻨﻨﺪ‪ .‬ﺩﺭ ﺍﻳﻦ‬
‫ﺗﻘﺎﺿﺎﻯ ﻃﻼﻕ ﻛﻨﻨﺪ‪:‬‬ ‫ﻭﺍﻗﻌﺎً ﺗﻌﺠﺐﺁﻭﺭ ﺍﺳﺖ‪.‬‬ ‫ﭘﻬﻦ ﻣﻰﻛﻨﺪ‪ .‬ﺍﻳﻦ ﭘﺎﺭﭼﻪ ﻛﻪ ﮔﻮﺍﻫﻰ‬ ‫ﺑﺮﺩﺍﺭﺩ‪ .‬ﺍﺯ ﺍﻳﻦﺭﻭ‪ ،‬ﺩﺍﻣﺎﺩ ﺑﻪ ﻣﺤﺾ ﻭﺭﻭﺩ‬ ‫ﻭﺍﺭﺩ ﺧﺎﻧﻪ ﻣﻰﺷﻮﺩ ﻭ ﻫﻤﻪﺟﺎ ﺑﻪ ﺩﻧﺒﺎﻝ‬ ‫ﻣﺮﺍﺳﻢ‪ ،‬ﻋﺼﺮﺍﻧﻪﺍﻯ ﺍﺯ ﻣﻴﻮﻩ‪ ،‬ﺷﻴﺮﻳﻨﻰ‬
‫ﺍﻭﻝ ﺍﻳﻦ ﻛﻪ ﺑﺘﻮﺍﻧﻨﺪ ﺛﺎﺑﺖ ﻛﻨﻨﺪ‬ ‫ﻋﻔﺖ ﺩﺧﺘﺮ ﺍﺳﺖ ﺑﻪ ﺧﺎﻧﻮﺍﺩﻩ ﻋﺮﻭﺱ‬ ‫ﭼﺎﺩﺭ ﺭﺍ ﺍﺯ ﺳﺮ ﻋﺮﻭﺱ ﺑﺮﻣﻰﮔﻴﺮﺩ ﻭ‬ ‫ﻋﺮﻭﺱ ﻣﻰﮔﺮﺩﺩ‪ .‬ﻋﺮﻭﺱ ﻃﺒﻖ ﺁﺩﺍﺏ‬ ‫ﻭ ﺷﺮﺑﺖ ﻓﺮﺍﻫﻢ ﻣﻰﻧﻤﺎﻳﻨﺪ‪ ،‬ﻫﻤﭽﻨﻴﻦ‬
‫ﺷﻮﻫﺮﺷﺎﻥ ﺍﺯ ﺩﺍﺩﻥ ﻧﻔﻘﻪ ﻋﺎﺟﺰ ﺍﺳﺖ‪.‬‬ ‫ﺩﺭﺑﺎﺭﻩ ﻃﻼﻕ ﻭ ﺯﻧﺎﻥ ﺑﻴﻮﻩ‬ ‫ﺑﺮﮔﺮﺩﺍﻧﺪﻩ ﻣﻰﺷﻮﺩ‪ .‬ﻛﻨﻴﺰ ﻣﺰﺑﻮﺭ ﺳﭙﺲ‬ ‫ﭼﻮﻥ ﺍﻭﻟﻴﻦ ﺑﺎﺭ ﺍﺳﺖ ﻛﻪ ﺻﻮﺭﺕ ﻋﺮﻭﺱ‬ ‫ﻭ ﺭﺳﻮﻡ ﺑﺎﻳﺪ ﻛﺎﻣ ًﻼ ﺧﻮﺩ ﺭﺍ ﻣﺨﻔﻰ‬ ‫ﻋﺪﻩﺍﻯ ﻣﻄﺮﺏ‪ ،‬ﺁﻭﺍﺯﻩﺧﻮﺍﻥ ﻭ ﺭﻗﺼﻨﺪﻩ‬
‫ﺩﻭﻡ ﺍﻳﻦ ﻛﻪ ﺑﻪ ﻗﻴﺪ ﻗﺴﻢ ﺍﻗﺮﺍﺭ ﻛﻨﻨﺪ‬ ‫ﺩﺭ ﺧﺎﺭﺝ ﺍﺗﺎﻕ ﺧﻮﺍﺏ ﻣﻰﻣﺎﻧﺪ ﺗﺎ ﺁﻥﭼﻪ‬ ‫ﺭﺍ ﻣﻰﺑﻴﻨﺪ ﺍﻳﻦ ﻣﻮﻗﻊ ﺑﺤﺮﺍﻧﻰﺗﺮﻳﻦ‬ ‫ﻧﻤﺎﻳﺪ ﻭﻟﻰ ﺩﺍﻣﺎﺩ ﺑﺎﻻﺧﺮﻩ ﺍﻭ ﺭﺍ ﺩﺭ‬ ‫ﻫﻢ ﺩﻋﻮﺕ ﻣﻰﻛﻨﻨﺪ ﻭ ﺍﻳﻦ ﺟﺸﻦ‬
‫ﻛﻪ ﺷﻮﻫﺮﺷﺎﻥ ﺗﻤﺎﻳﻼﺕ ﺍﻧﺤﺮﺍﻓﻰ ﺩﺍﺭﺩ‪.‬‬ ‫ﻣﺮﺩﺍﻥ ﺍﻳﺮﺍﻧﻰ ﻣﻰﺗﻮﺍﻧﻨﺪ ﺑﻪ ﺍﺭﺍﺩﻩ‬ ‫ﺭﺍ ﻛﻪ ﺩﺭ ﺁﻥﺟﺎ ﻣﻰﮔﺬﺭﺩ ﺑﺸﻨﻮﺩ ﻭ ﺑﻪ‬ ‫ﻟﺤﻈﺎﺕ ﺑﺮﺍﻯ ﻋﺮﻭﺱ ﻣﻰﺑﺎﺷﺪ‪ .‬ﭼﻨﺎﻧﭽﻪ‬ ‫ﺣﺎﻟﻰ ﻛﻪ ﺻﻮﺭﺗﺶ ﭘﻮﺷﻴﺪﻩ ﺍﺳﺖ ﭘﻴﺪﺍ‬ ‫ﻛﻮﭼﻚ ﻣﻌﻤﻮﻻً ﺗﺎ ﺷﺐ ﺍﺩﺍﻣﻪ ﭘﻴﺪﺍ‬
‫ﻣﺘﺄﺳﻔﺎﻧﻪ ﺍﻳﻦ ﻓﺴﺎﺩ ﺩﺭ ﺍﻳﺮﺍﻥ ﻭ ﺩﺭ ﻫﻤﻪ‬ ‫ﺧﻮﺩ ﻭ ﺑﺪﻭﻥ ﺁﻥ ﻛﻪ ﻣﻨﻌﻰ ﺩﺭ ﺑﻴﻦ‬ ‫ﻣﺠﺮﺩ ﺍﻳﻦ ﻛﻪ ﺍﻃﻤﻴﻨﺎﻥ ﭘﻴﺪﺍ ﻛﺮﺩ ﻋﻤﻞ‬ ‫ﻋﺮﻭﺱ ﻧﻴﻜﺒﺨﺘﻰ ﺍﻳﻦ ﺭﺍ ﻧﺪﺍﺷﺘﻪ ﺑﺎﺷﺪ‬ ‫ﻣﻰﻛﻨﺪ‪ .‬ﺩﺭ ﺍﻳﻦ ﻣﻮﻗﻊ ﻧﻮﻋﻰ ﻛﺸﻤﻜﺶ‬ ‫ﻣﻰﻛﻨﺪ‪.‬ﻣﺎﺩﺭ ﺩﺧﺘﺮ ﻫﻢ ﺑﺮﺍﻯ ﺁﺷﻨﺎﻳﺎﻥ‬
‫ﻛﺸﻮﺭﻫﺎﻯ ﻣﺸﺮﻕ ﺯﻣﻴﻦ ﺑﻪ ﺷﺪﺕ‬ ‫ﺑﺎﺷﺪ ﺯﻧﻬﺎﻳﺸﺎﻥ ﺭﺍ ﺩﻭﺑﺎﺭ ﭘﺸﺖ ﺳﺮ ﻫﻢ‬ ‫ﺯﻓﺎﻑ ﺍﻧﺠﺎﻡ ﺷﺪﻩ‪ ،‬ﻭﺍﺭﺩ ﺍﺗﺎﻕ ﻣﻰﺷﻮﺩ ﻭ‬ ‫ﻛﻪ ﻣﻮﺭﺩ ﭘﺴﻨﺪ ﺩﺍﻣﺎﺩ ﻭﺍﻗﻊ ﺷﻮﺩ ﺩﺍﻣﺎﺩ‬ ‫ﺁﻏﺎﺯ ﻣﻰﮔﺮﺩﺩ ﻭ ﺩﺍﻣﺎﺩ ﻛﻪ ﻣﻰﺧﻮﺍﻫﺪ‬ ‫ﺧﻮﺩ ﭼﻨﻴﻦ ﺟﺸﻨﻰ ﺩﺭ ﻣﺤﻴﻂ ﺯﻧﺎﻧﻪ‬
‫ﺭﻭﺍﺝ ﺩﺍﺭﺩ‪ .‬ﺳﻮﻡ ﺍﻳﻦ ﻛﻪ ﺳﻮﮔﻨﺪ ﻳﺎﺩ‬ ‫ﻃﻼﻕ ﺩﻫﻨﺪ ﻭ ﺍﮔﺮ ﻫﻢ ﻣﻴﻠﺸﺎﻥ ﻛﺸﻴﺪ‬ ‫ﭘﺎﺭﭼﻪﺍﻯ ﺭﺍ ﻛﻪ ﺩﺭ ﺁﻥﺟﺎ ﮔﺴﺘﺮﺩﻩ ﺍﺯ‬ ‫ﺑﻰﺁﻥ ﻛﻪ ﺳﺨﻨﻰ ﺑﺮ ﺯﺑﺎﻥ ﺁﻭﺭﺩ ﻓﻮﺭﺍً ﺍﺯ‬ ‫ﻋﺮﻭﺱ ﺭﺍ ﺑﺎ ﺧﻮﺩ ﺑﺒﺮﺩ ﺑﺎ ﺍﻣﺘﻨﺎﻉ ﻭﻯ‬ ‫ﺑﺮﭘﺎ ﻣﻰﻛﻨﺪ ﻛﻪ ﺩﺭ ﺁﻥ ﺁﻭﺍﺯﺧﻮﺍﻧﻬﺎ‬
‫ﻛﻨﻨﺪ ﻛﻪ ﺷﻮﻫﺮﺷﺎﻥ ﺗﻮﺍﻧﺎﻳﻰ ﺟﻨﺴﻰ‬ ‫ﺩﻭﺑﺎﺭﻩ ﺭﺟﻮﻉ ﻛﻨﻨﺪ ﺍﻣﺎ ﺩﺭ ﻣﺮﺗﺒﻪ ﺳﻮﻡ‬ ‫ﺯﻳﺮ ﻋﺮﻭﺱ ﻭ ﺩﺍﻣﺎﺩ ﺑﻴﺮﻭﻥ ﻣﻰﻛﺸﺪ‬ ‫ﺍﺗﺎﻕ ﺧﺎﺭﺝ ﻣﻰﺷﻮﺩ ﻭ ﻫﻤﻪ ﻣﻌﻨﻰ ﺁﻥ‬ ‫ﻣﻮﺍﺟﻪ ﻣﻰﺷﻮﺩ‪ .‬ﻫﺮ ﭼﻪ ﺑﻴﺸﺘﺮ ﺩﺍﻣﺎﺩ‬ ‫ﻭ ﺭﻗﺼﻨﺪﮔﺎﻥ ﺣﺮﻓﻪﺍﻯ ﻧﻴﺰ ﺷﺮﻛﺖ‬
‫ﻭﺿﻊ ﺑﻪ ﺍﻳﻦ ﺁﺳﺎﻧﻰ ﻧﻴﺴﺖ ﻭ ﺑﺮﺍﻯ ﺍﻳﻦ‬ ‫ﻭ ﻓﻮﺭﺍً ﻭ ﺑﺪﻭﻥ ﺗﻮﺟﻪ ﺑﻪ ﺳﺎﻋﺖ‪ ،‬ﺁﻥ‬ ‫ﺭﺍ ﻣﻰﻓﻬﻤﻨﺪ‪ .‬ﺍﺯ ﺍﻳﻦ ﭘﺲ ﻓﻘﻂ ﺻﺪﺍﻯ‬ ‫ﻋﺮﻭﺱ ﺭﺍ ﺗﺤﺖ ﻓﺸﺎﺭ ﻗﺮﺍﺭ ﻣﻰﺩﻫﺪ‬ ‫ﺩﺍﺭﻧﺪ‪ .‬ﺍﻳﻦ ﺯﻧﻬﺎ ﺩﺭ ﺣﺎﻝ ﺣﺎﺿﺮ ﻓﻘﻂ‬
‫ﻧﺪﺍﺭﺩ‪.‬‬ ‫ﻛﻪ ﺯﻥ ﺑﺎﺭ ﺩﻳﮕﺮ ﺑﻪ ﺷﻮﻫﺮﺵ ﺗﻌﻠﻖ‬ ‫ﺭﺍ ﻧﺰﺩ ﭘﺪﺭ ﻭ ﻣﺎﺩﺭ ﻋﺮﻭﺱ ﻣﻰﺑﺮﺩ ﻛﻪ‬ ‫ﺩﺭ ﺍﻧﺪﺭﻭﻧﻰ ﻭ ﺩﺭ ﺣﻀﻮﺭ ﺯﻧﻬﺎ ﺑﺮﻧﺎﻣﻪ‬
‫ﺯﻧﻬﺎﻳﻰ ﻛﻪ ﻃﻼﻕ ﻣﻰﮔﻴﺮﻧﺪ ﺗﻤﺎﻡ‬ ‫ﺍﺟﺮﺍ ﻣﻰﻛﻨﻨﺪ ﺩﺭ ﺻﻮﺭﺗﻰ ﻛﻪ ﺩﺭ ﺯﻣﺎﻥ‬
‫ﺟﻬﻴﺰﻳﻪ‪ ،‬ﺍﺷﻴﺎء ﻭ ﺟﻮﺍﻫﺮﺍﺕ ﻭ ﺑﻪ ﻃﻮﺭ‬ ‫ﺷﺎﺭﺩﻥ )ﺟﻬﺎﻧﮕﺮﺩ ﻓﺮﺍﻧﺴﻮﻯ ﻛﻪ ﺩﺭ‬
‫ﺧﻼﺻﻪ ﺁﻥﭼﻪ ﺭﺍ ﻛﻪ ﺷﻮﻫﺮﺷﺎﻥ ﺑﻪ ﺁﻧﻬﺎ‬ ‫ﻋﻬﺪ ﺻﻔﻮﻯ ﺑﻪ ﺍﻳﺮﺍﻥ ﺳﻔﺮ ﻛﺮﺩ( ﺑﻪ‬
‫ﺩﺍﺩﻩ ﺍﺳﺖ‪ ،‬ﺑﺎ ﺧﻮﺩ ﻣﻰﺑﺮﻧﺪ ﻭ ﻋﻼﻭﻩ ﺑﺮ‬ ‫ﻃﻮﺭﻯ ﻛﻪ ﺍﺯ ﻧﻮﺷﺘﻪﻫﺎﻯ ﺍﻭ ﺑﺮ ﻣﻰﺁﻳﺪ‬
‫ﺍﻳﻦ‪ ،‬ﺣﻖ ﻣﻄﺎﻟﺒﻪ ﻣﻬﺮﻳﻪ ﺗﻌﻴﻴﻦ ﺷﺪﻩ‬ ‫ﻭﺿﻊ ﻃﻮﺭ ﺩﻳﮕﺮﻯ ﺑﻮﺩﻩ ﺍﺳﺖ ﻭ ﺍﻳﻦ‬
‫ﺭﺍ ﺩﺍﺭﻧﺪ‪ ،‬ﻣﺸﺮﻭﻁ ﺑﺮ ﺍﻳﻦ ﻛﻪ ﻣﺠﺪﺩﺍً‬ ‫ﻗﺒﻴﻞ ﺯﻧﻬﺎ ﺯﻧﺪﮔﻰ ﭘﺮﻳﺸﺎﻧﻰ ﺩﺍﺷﺘﻪﺍﻧﺪ‪.‬‬
‫ﺑﻰﮔﻤﺎﻥ ﺍﻳﻦ ﻭﺿﻊ ﻣﺎﻧﻨﺪ ﺑﺴﻴﺎﺭﻯ‬
‫ﺩﺭﺻﺪﺩ ﺍﺯﺩﻭﺍﺝ ﺑﺮﻧﻴﺎﻳﻨﺪ‪.‬‬ ‫ﭼﻴﺰﻫﺎﻯ ﺩﻳﮕﺮ ﺑﻪ ﺷﺪﺕ ﺩﮔﺮﮔﻮﻥ‬
‫ﭼﻨﺎﻥﭼﻪ ﺯﻥ‪ ،‬ﻓﺮﺯﻧﺪﻯ ﻧﺪﺍﺷﺘﻪ‬
‫ﺑﺎﺷﺪ ﺧﻴﻠﻰ ﻛﻢ ﺍﺭﺙ ﻣﻰﺑﺮﺩ ﻣﮕﺮ‬ ‫ﺷﺪﻩ ﺍﺳﺖ‪.‬‬
‫ﺩﺭ ﻣﻮﺍﻗﻌﻰ ﻛﻪ ﻣﺘﻮﻓﻰ ﺯﻥ ﺩﻳﮕﺮﻯ‬
‫ﻧﺪﺍﺷﺘﻪ‪ ،‬ﻳﺎ ﺍﺯ ﻛﻨﻴﺰﻫﺎﻳﺶ ﺑﭽﻪﺩﺍﺭ ﻧﺸﺪﻩ‬ ‫ﭘﺲ ﺍﺯ ﺍﺟﺮﺍﻯ ﺍﻳﻦ ﻣﺮﺍﺳﻢ‪،‬‬
‫ﺑﺎﺷﺪ ﻭ ﻓﻘﻂ ﺩﺭ ﺍﻳﻦ ﻣﻮﺭﺩ ﺍﺳﺖ ﻛﻪ‬ ‫ﭼﻨﺪﻳﻦ ﻣﺎﻩ ﻭ ﻏﺎﻟﺒﺎً ﭼﻨﺪﻳﻦ ﺳﺎﻝ‬
‫ﺗﻤﺎﻡ ﺩﺍﺭﺍﻳﻰ ﺷﻮﻫﺮ ﺭﺍ ﺑﻪ ﺍﺭﺙ ﻣﻰﺑﺮﺩ‬ ‫ﺑﻪ ﻫﻤﻴﻦ ﺻﻮﺭﺕ ﺑﺎﻗﻰ ﻣﻰﻣﺎﻧﺪ ﺯﻳﺮﺍ‬
‫ﻭﻟﻰ ﺣﻖ ﺍﺳﺘﻔﺎﺩﻩ ﺍﺯ ﺍﺭﺛﻴﻪ ﻣﺸﺮﻭﻁ ﺑﺮ‬ ‫ﺩﺭ ﺧﺎﻧﻮﺍﺩﻩﻫﺎﻯ ﺑﺰﺭگ ﻧﺎﻣﺰﺩﻯ ﺑﻴﻦ‬
‫ﺍﻳﻦ ﺍﺳﺖ ﻛﻪ ﺯﻥ ﻭﺿﻊ ﺑﻴﻮﮔﻰ ﺧﻮﺩ‬ ‫ﺑﭽﻪﻫﺎﻯ ﭼﻬﺎﺭ ﭘﻨﺞ ﺳﺎﻟﻪ ﺻﻮﺭﺕ‬
‫ﺭﺍ ﻫﻤﭽﻨﺎﻥ ﺣﻔﻆ ﻧﻤﺎﻳﺪ ﻭ ﺍﻻ ﻫﻤﺎﻧﻨﺪ‬ ‫ﻣﻰﮔﻴﺮﺩ‪ .‬ﺳﺮﺍﻧﺠﺎﻡ ﻫﻨﮕﺎﻣﻰ ﻛﻪ ﻣﻮﻋﺪ‬
‫ﻃﻼﻕ‪ ،‬ﻛﻠﻴﻪ ﺩﺍﺭﺍﻳﻰ ﺑﻪ ﻣﻮﺟﺐ ﻗﺎﻧﻮﻥ‬ ‫ﻋﻘﺪﻛﻨﺎﻥ ﻓﺮﺍﺭ ﺭﺳﺪ ﺭﻭﺯ ﻣﻨﺎﺳﺒﻰ ﺭﺍ‬
‫ﺑﻪ ﻧﺰﺩﻳﻜﺘﺮﻳﻦ ﺍﻗﻮﺍﻡ ﺷﻮﻫﺮ ﺑﺮﻣﻰﮔﺮﺩﺩ‬ ‫ﺍﻧﺘﺨﺎﺏ ﻣﻰﻛﻨﻨﺪ‪ .‬ﺩﺧﺘﺮ ﻗﺒﻞ ﺍﺯ ﺁﻥ‬
‫ﻛﻪ ﺣﺘﻰ ﻣﻰﺗﻮﺍﻧﻨﺪ ﺍﺯ ﺭﺩ ﺟﻬﻴﺰﻳﻪ ﻳﺎ‬ ‫ﻛﻪ ﺭﺿﺎﻳﺖ ﻗﻄﻌﻰ ﺑﺪﻫﺪ ﺁﺧﺮﻳﻦ‬
‫ﻫﺮﮔﻮﻧﻪ ﻣﺎﻟﻰ ﻛﻪ ﺷﻮﻫﺮ ﺍﺣﺘﻤﺎﻻً ﺩﺭ‬ ‫ﺷﺮﺍﻳﻂ ﺧﻮﺩ ﺭﺍ ﭘﻴﺸﻨﻬﺎﺩ ﻣﻰﻛﻨﺪ‪.‬‬
‫ﺣﻴﺎﺗﺶ ﺑﻪ ﺯﻥ ﺑﺨﺸﻴﺪﻩ ﺑﻮﺩ‪ ،‬ﺍﻣﺘﻨﺎﻉ‬ ‫ﺍﻳﻦ ﺷﺮﺍﻳﻂ ﻣﻌﻤﻮﻻً ﺗﻘﺎﺿﺎﻯ ﻟﺒﺎﺱ‪،‬‬
‫ﺷﺎﻝ‪ ،‬ﺟﻮﺍﻫﺮ‪ ،‬ﻛﻨﻴﺰ ﻭ ﻏﺎﻟﺒﺎً ﭘﻮﻝ ﻭ‬
‫ﻭﺭﺯﻧﺪ‪.‬‬ ‫ﻣﻠﻚ ﺍﺳﺖ‪ .‬ﺗﻘﺮﻳﺒﺎً ﺍﻳﻦ ﺍﻃﻤﻴﻨﺎﻥ‬
‫ﻭﺟﻮﺩ ﺩﺍﺭﺩ ﻛﻪ ﭼﻨﺎﻧﭽﻪ ﺷﺮﺍﻳﻂ‬
‫ﺯﻳﺮﻧﻮﻳﺲ‪ :‬ﺳﻔﺮﻧﺎﻣﺔ ﮔﺎﺳﭙﺎﺭ ﺩﺭﻭﻭﻳﻞ‪،‬‬ ‫ﺩﺧﺘﺮ ﺍﺯ ﻃﺮﻑ ﺷﻮﻫﺮ ﺁﻳﻨﺪﻩ ﻗﺒﻮﻝ‪،‬‬
‫ﺗﺮﺟﻤﺔ ﻣﻨﻮﭼﻬﺮ ﺍﻋﺘﻤﺎﺩﻣﻘﺪﻡ‬ ‫ﺍﺻﻼﺡ ﻭ ﻳﺎ ﻣﺮﺩﻭﺩ ﺷﻮﺩ‪ ،‬ﺑﻪ ﻫﺮ ﺣﺎﻝ‬
‫ﺍﺯﺩﻭﺍﺝ ﺑﻪ ﻫﻢ ﻧﻤﻰﺧﻮﺭﺩ ﺯﻳﺮﺍ ﺯﻧﻬﺎ‬
‫ﺩﺭ ﺍﻳﻦ ﻣﻮﺭﺩ ﻫﻴﭻﮔﻮﻧﻪ ﺍﺭﺍﺩﻩﺍﻯ ﺍﺯ‬
‫ﺧﻮﺩ ﻧﺪﺍﺭﻧﺪ ﻭ ﺍﻳﻦ ﺗﻘﺎﺿﺎﻫﺎ ﺑﺮﺣﺴﺐ‬
‫ﺳﻨﺘﻬﺎﻯ ﻛﻬﻨﻪ ﺻﻮﺭﺕ ﻣﻰﮔﻴﺮﺩ‬
‫ﻛﻪ ﺭﻭﺯ ﺑﻪ ﺭﻭﺯ ﻭ ﺑﻴﺶ ﺍﺯ ﭘﻴﺶ‬
‫ﺍﻋﺘﺒﺎﺭ ﺧﻮﺩ ﺭﺍ ﺍﺯ ﺩﺳﺖ ﻣﻰﺩﻫﻨﺪ‪.‬‬
‫ﭘﺴﺮﻫﺎﻯ ﻧﺎﻣﺰﺩ ﺧﻴﻠﻰ ﺑﻪ ﻧﺪﺭﺕ ﺑﻪ‬
‫ﻧﺎﻣﻪﻫﺎﻯ ﻋﺎﺷﻘﺎﻧﻪ ﺩﺧﺘﺮﻫﺎ ﻛﻪ ﺑﻮﻯ‬
‫ﻧﺎﻣﻬﺮﺑﺎﻧﻰ ﻣﻰﺩﻫﺪ ﺗﻮﺟﻪ ﻣﻰﻛﻨﻨﺪ‪.‬‬
‫ﺩﺧﺘﺮﻫﺎ ﺩﺭ ﺍﻳﻦ ﻧﺎﻣﻪﻫﺎ ﺧﻴﻠﻰ ﭼﻴﺰﻫﺎ‬
‫ﻃﻠﺐ ﻣﻰﻛﻨﻨﺪ ﻭﻟﻰ ﺑﻪ ﻛﻤﺶ ﻫﻢ‬
‫ﺭﺍﺿﻰ ﻫﺴﺘﻨﺪ ﻭ ﺩﺭ ﺻﻮﺭﺗﻰ ﻛﻪ‬
‫ﺗﻘﺎﺿﺎﻫﺎﻳﺸﺎﻥ ﻛ ًﻼ ﺭﺩ ﻧﺸﻮﺩ ﻏﺎﻟﺒﺎً‬

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