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‫زنروز‬ ‫ﺧﺎﻧﻢ ﻫﺎﻯ ﺳﻴﮕﺎﺭﻯ ﺑﺨﻮﺍﻧﻨﺪ ﻭ ﺑﺪﺍﻧﻨﺪ‬ ‫ﺑﺪﻭﻥ ﺷﻤﺎﺭﺓ ﺻﻔﺤﻪ ‪ -‬ﺷﻤﺎﺭﻩ ‪6‬‬
‫ﺟﻤﻌﻪ ‪ 11‬ﺗﺎ ﭘﻨﺠﺸﻨﺒﻪ‪ 17‬ﺍﺭﺩﻳﺒﻬﺸﺖ ﻣﺎﻩ ‪1394‬ﺧﻮﺭﺷﻴﺪﻯ‬
‫»ﺁﻧﭽﻪ ﺯﻧﺎﻥ ﺩﺭﺑﺎﺭﻩ ﻣﺮﺩﺍﻥ ﻣﻰ ﺩﺍﻧﻨﺪ«‬
‫ﺯﻧﺎﻥ ﺷﺎﺧﺺ‬
‫ﺧﺎﻧﻢ ﻫﺎﻯ ﻋﺰﻳﺰ‪ ،‬ﻣﺎ ﺍﻳﻦ ﺳﺘﻮﻥ ﺭﺍ ﺑﺮﺍﻯ ﺷﻤﺎ ﺩﻭ ﻫﻔﺘﻪ ﺧﺎﻟﻰ‬
‫ﮔﺬﺍﺷﺘﻴﻢ ﺗﺎ ﺧﻮﺩﺗﺎﻥ ﺁﻥ ﺭﺍ ﺑﺎ ﺁﻧﭽﻪ ﺩﺭﺑﺎﺭﻩ ﻣﺮﺩﺍﻥ ﻣﻰ ﺩﺍﻧﻴﺪ ﭘﺮ ﻛﻨﻴﺪ ‪.‬‬ ‫ﺗﺤﻘﻴﻘﺎﺕ ﺩﺍﻧﺸﻤﻨﺪﺍﻥ ﺩﺍﻧﺸﮕﺎﻩ ﺁﻛﺴﻔﻮﺭﺩ ﻧﺸﺎﻥ ﻣﻰ ﺩﻫﺪ ﻛﺸﻴﺪﻥ‬ ‫ﻛﺮﻳﺴﺘﻴﺎﻥ ﺍﻣﺎﻧﭙﻮﺭ‬
‫ﺁﻧﭽﻪ ﺭﺍ ﻣﻰﺩﺍﻧﻴﺪ ﺍﺯ ﻃﺮﻳﻖ ﻛﻴﻬﺎﻥ ﺑﺎ ﺩﻳﮕﺮﺍﻥ ﻫﻢ ﺩﺭ ﻣﻴﺎﻥ ﺑﮕﺬﺍﺭﻳﺪ‪.‬‬ ‫ﺳﻴﮕﺎﺭ ﺑﻪ ﻭﻳﮋﻩ ﺩﺭ ﺳﻨﻴﻦ ﻛﻢ ﻭ ﺑﻪ ﺗﻌﺪﺍﺩ ﺯﻳﺎﺩ ﺍﺣﺘﻤﺎﻝ ﺍﺑﺘﻼ ﺑﻪ ﺳﺮﻃﺎﻥ‬
‫ﻛﺎﻓﻴﺴﺖ ﺩﺭ ﻓﺮﻡ ﺗﻤﺎﺱ ﻛﻴﻬﺎﻥ ﺁﻧﻼﻳﻦ ﻭ ﻳﺎ ﺑﺎ ﺍﻳﻤﻴﻞ ﺯﻳﺮ ﺑﺎ »ﺯﻥ ﺭﻭﺯ«‬ ‫) ‪ 1958‬ﺩﺭ ﻟﻨﺪﻥ(‬
‫ﺗﻤﺎﺱ ﺑﮕﻴﺮﻳﺪ ﻭ ﺍﺯ ﺩﺍﻧﺴﺘﻪ ﻫﺎﻯ ﺧﻮﺩ ﻭ ﻳﺎ ﺧﺎﻃﺮﺍﺕ ﻭ ﺗﺠﺮﺑﻪ ﻫﺎﻯ‬ ‫ﮔﺮﺩﻥ ﺭﺣﻢ ﺭﺍ ﺩﺭ ﺯﻧﺎﻥ ﺍﻓﺰﺍﻳﺶ ﻣﻰ ﺩﻫﺪ‪.‬‬
‫ﺍﻳﻦ ﺩﺍﻧﺸﻤﻨﺪﺍﻥ ﺑﺎ ﺑﺮﺭﺳﻰ ‪ 23‬ﺗﺤﻘﻴﻖ ﺍﻧﺠﺎﻡ ﺷﺪﻩ ﺩﺭ ﺯﻣﻴﻨﻪ ﺗﺎﺛﻴﺮ‬ ‫ﻳﻜﻰ ﺍﺯ ﺧﺒﺮﻧﮕﺎﺭﺍﻥ ﻧﺎﻣﺪﺍﺭ ﺟﻬﺎﻥ‬
‫ﺧﻮﺩ ﺑﻨﻮﻳﺴﻴﺪ ﺗﺎ ﺩﺭ ﻫﻤﻴﻦ ﺳﺘﻮﻥ ﻣﻨﺘﺸﺮ ﺷﻮﺩ‪.‬‬ ‫ﺳﻴﮕﺎﺭ ﺩﺭ ﺍﺑﺘﻼ ﺑﻪ ﺳﺮﻃﺎﻥ ﮔﺮﺩﻥ ﺭﺣﻢ ﺩﺭﻳﺎﻓﺘﻨﺪ ﻛﻪ ﺍﺣﺘﻤﺎﻝ ﺍﺑﺘﻼ ﺑﻪ‬ ‫ﺍﺳﺖ‪ .‬ﺍﻭ ﻛﻪ ﭘﻴﺶﺗﺮ ﺑﻪ ﻣﺪﺕ ‪20‬‬
‫ﺳﺮﻃﺎﻥ ﮔﺮﺩﻥ ﺭﺣﻢ ﺩﺭ ﺯﻧﺎﻥ ﺳﻴﮕﺎﺭﻯ ﺑﻴﺸﺘﺮ ﺍﺳﺖ‪ .‬ﻧﺘﺎﻳﺞ ﺍﻳﻦ ﺗﺤﻘﻴﻖ ﻛﻪ‬ ‫ﺳﺎﻝ ﮔﺰﺍﺭﺷﮕﺮ ﺍﺭﺷﺪ ﺑﺨﺶ ﺍﺧﺒﺎﺭ‬
‫‪[email protected]‬‬ ‫ﺩﺭ ﻧﺸﺮﻳﻪ ﺑﻴﻦ ﺍﻟﻤﻠﻠﻰ ﺳﺮﻃﺎﻥ ﻣﻨﺘﺸﺮ ﺷﺪﻩ‪ ،‬ﻧﺸﺎﻥ ﺩﺍﺩ‪ ،‬ﺍﺣﺘﻤﺎﻝ ﺍﺑﺘﻼ ﺑﻪ‬ ‫ﺑﻴﻦﺍﻟﻤﻠﻠﻰ ﺷﺒﻜﻪ ﺧﺒﺮﻯ ﺳﻰﺍﻥﺍﻥ‬
‫ﺳﺮﻃﺎﻥ ﮔﺮﺩﻥ ﺭﺣﻢ ﺩﺭ ﺯﻧﺎﻧﻰ ﻛﻪ ﺩﺭ ﺣﺎﻝ ﺣﺎﺿﺮ ﺳﻴﮕﺎﺭﻯ ﻫﺴﺘﻨﺪ ﻧﺴﺒﺖ‬ ‫ﺑﻮﺩ ﺍﺯ ﺳﺎﻝ ‪ 2010‬ﻣﺠﺮﻯ ﺑﺮﻧﺎﻣﻪ‬
‫ﺍﺳﺮﺍﺭ ﺯﻳﺒﺎﻳﻰ!‬ ‫»ﺍﻳﻦ ﻫﻔﺘﻪ« ﺩﺭ ﺷﺒﻜﻪ ﺍﻯﺑﻰﺳﻰ‬
‫ﺑﻪ ﺯﻧﺎﻧﻰ ﻛﻪ ﺍﺻﻼ ﺳﻴﮕﺎﺭ ﻧﻜﺸﻴﺪﻩﺍﻧﺪ‪ 60 ،‬ﺩﺭﺻﺪ ﺑﻴﺸﺘﺮ ﺍﺳﺖ‪.‬‬ ‫ﺍﺳﺖ‪.‬ﺍﻭ ﺍﺯ ﺧﺒﺮﻧﮕﺎﺭﺍﻥ ﺟﻨﮕﻰ‬
‫ﺳﺮﺑﺎﻻ‬ ‫ﻣﺸﻬﻮﺭ ﺟﻬﺎﻥ ﺑﻪ ﺷﻤﺎﺭ ﻣﻰﺭﻭﺩ‪.‬‬
‫ﺑﻪ ﺩﻭﺭﺑﻴﻦ ﻧﮕﺎﻩ ﻧﻜﻦ‬ ‫ﺍﺳﺖ‪ .‬ﺍﻣﺎﻥﭘﻮﺭ ﻣﺼﺎﺣﺒﻪﻫﺎﻯ‬ ‫ﮔﺰﺍﺭﺵﻫﺎﻯ ﺍﻣﺎﻥﭘﻮﺭ ﺍﺯ ﺑﺎﻟﻜﺎﻥ‬
‫ﺑﺴﻴﺎﺭﻯ ﺍﻧﺠﺎﻡ ﺩﺍﺩﻩﺍﺳﺖ ﻛﻪ ﺍﺯ‬ ‫ﺑﺎﻋﺚ ﺷﺪ ﻛﻪ ﺩﺭ ﺳﺎﻝ ‪1994‬‬
‫ﭘﺲ ﺭﺍﺯ ﺯﻳﺒﺎﻳﻰ ﭼﻴﺴﺖ؟ ﺍﮔﺮ ﭼﻪ ﺑﺎﻓﺖ ﭘﻮﺳﺖ ﺑﻪ‬ ‫ﺁﻥ ﺟﻤﻠﻪ ﻣﻰﺗﻮﺍﻥ ﺑﻪ ﻣﺼﺎﺣﺒﻪ‬ ‫ﺟﺎﻳﺰﻩ ﺍﻣﻰ ﺩﻭ ﺟﺎﻳﺰﻩ ﺟﻮﺭﺝ ﻓﺎﺳﺘﺮ‬
‫ﺗﻨﻬﺎﻳﻰ ﻧﻘﺶ ﻧﺎﭼﻴﺰﻯ ﺩﺭ ﺗﻌﺮﻳﻒ ﺯﻳﺒﺎﻳﻰ ﺑﺎﺯﻯ ﻣﻰﻛﻨﺪ‪ ،‬ﺍﻣﺎ‬ ‫ﺑﺎ ژﺍﻙ ﺷﻴﺮﺍﻙ ‪) 2003‬ﻗﺒﻞ ﺍﺯ‬ ‫ﭘﻴﺒﺎﺩﻯ‪ ،‬ﺩﻭ ﺟﺎﻳﺰﻩ ﺟﻮﺭﺝ ﭘﻮﻟﻚ‬
‫ﺩﺭ ﺯﻣﺎﻧﻪ ﻛﻨﻮﻧﻰ ﺑﻪ ﻃﻮﺭ ﺧﻮﺩﻛﺎﺭ ﭼﻬﺮﻩ ﺍﻯ ﺑﺎ ﭘﻮﺳﺖ ﺻﺎﻑ ﻭ‬ ‫ﺟﻨﮓ ﻋﺮﺍﻕ(‪ ،‬ﻣﺤﻤﻮﺩ ﻋﺒﺎﺱ‬ ‫ﻭ ﺟﺎﻳﺰﻩ ﺷﺠﺎﻋﺖ ﺩﺭ ﮔﺰﺍﺭﺷﮕﺮﻯ‬
‫ﺩﺭﺧﺸﺎﻥ ﺯﻳﺒﺎ ﺧﻮﺍﻧﺪﻩ ﻣﻰﺷﻮﺩ‪ .‬ﭼﺸﻢ ﺩﺭﺷﺖ ﻭ ﻛﺸﻴﺪﻩ‪ ،‬ﭘﻴﺸﺎﻧﻰ‬ ‫‪ ،2003‬ﻣﻠﻚ ﻋﺒﺪﺍﷲ ‪ ،1999‬ﭘﺮﻭﻳﺰ‬ ‫ﺩﺭﻳﺎﻓﺖ ﻛﻨﺪ‪ .‬ﺩﺭ ﺩﺳﺎﻣﺒﺮ‬
‫ﮔﺮﺩ‪ ،‬ﭼﺎﻧﻪ ﻛﻮﭼﻚ ﻭ ﺑﻴﻨﻰ ﺳﺮﺑﺎﻻ ﻣﺤﻚ ﺟﺎﺫﺑﻪ ﻭ ﺯﻳﺒﺎﻳﻰ ﺯﻧﺎﻥ‬ ‫ﻣﺸﺮﻑ ‪ ،2001‬ﻳﺎﺳﺮ ﻋﺮﻓﺎﺕ ‪2000‬‬ ‫‪ ،1992‬ﻫﻨﮕﺎﻡ ﺁﻏﺎﺯ ﻋﻤﻠﻴﺎﺕ‬
‫ﻣﻰﺷﻮﺩ‪ .‬ﺑﺴﻴﺎﺭﻯ ﺍﺯ ﺯﻧﺎﻥ ﻣﻮﻗﻊ ﻋﻜﺲ ﮔﺮﻓﺘﻦ ﻧﺎﺧﻮﺩﺁﮔﺎﻩ‬ ‫‪ ،‬ﻣﺤﻤﺪ ﺧﺎﺗﻤﻰ ‪ ، 1997‬ﻣﺤﻤﻮﺩ‬ ‫ﻧﻴﺮﻭﻫﺎﻯ ﺁﻣﺮﻳﻜﺎ ﺩﺭ ﺳﻮﻣﺎﻟﻰ‪،‬‬
‫ﺳﺮﺷﺎﻥ ﺭﺍ ﺷﻖ ﻭ ﺭﻕ ﺑﺎﻻ ﻣﻰﮔﻴﺮﻧﺪ ﻭﻟﻰ ﻋﻜﺲ ﻣﺠﻠﻪﻫﺎﻯ‬ ‫ﺍﺣﻤﺪﻯ ﻧﮋﺍﺩ ‪ ،‬ﺣﺴﻦ ﺭﻭﺣﺎﻧﻰ‬ ‫ﺍﻣﺎﻥﭘﻮﺭ ﺑﺮﺍﻯ ﻣﺪﺕ ﻛﻮﺗﺎﻫﻰ ﺑﻪ‬
‫‪ 2013‬ﻭ ﻣﺴﻌﻮﺩ ﺑﺎﺭﺯﺍﻧﻰ ‪2014‬‬ ‫ﺳﻮﻣﺎﻟﻰ ﺭﻓﺖ ﺗﺎ ﺍﺯ ﻣﻮﮔﺎﺩﻳﺸﻮ‬
‫ﺷﻴﻚ ﻭ ﺑﻪﺭﻭﺯ ﻣﻰﮔﻮﻳﺪ ﭼﺎﻧﻪ ﭘﺎﻳﻴﻦ‪ ،‬ﭼﺸﻤﺎﻥ ﻛﺎﻣﻼ ﺑﺎﺯ‬ ‫ﺑﻪﻃﻮﺭ ﺯﻧﺪﻩ ﮔﺰﺍﺭﺵ ﻛﻨﺪ‪.‬‬
‫ﻭ ﻧﮕﺎﻩ ﺑﻪ ﺳﻤﺖ ﺑﺎﻻ ﺗﺎ ﭘﻴﺸﺎﻧﻰ ﻭ ﭼﺸﻢﻫﺎ ﺑﺰﺭﮔﺘﺮ‬ ‫ﺍﺷﺎﺭﻩ ﻛﺮﺩ‪.‬‬ ‫ﮔﻔﺘﻪ ﻣﻰﺷﻮﺩ ﺍﻣﺎﻥﭘﻮﺭ ﺑﺎﻻﺗﺮﻳﻦ‬
‫ﻭ ﻧﻴﻤﻪ ﭘﺎﻳﻴﻨﻰ ﺻﻮﺭﺕ ﻛﻮﭼﻚﺗﺮ ﺑﻪ ﻧﻈﺮ‬ ‫ﺍﻭ ﺑﻪ ﺯﺑﺎﻥﻫﺎﻯ ﺍﻧﮕﻠﻴﺴﻰ‪،‬‬ ‫ﺩﺳﺘﻤﺰﺩ ﺭﺍ ﺩﺭ ﻣﻴﺎﻥ ﺧﺒﺮﻧﮕﺎﺭﺍﻥ‬
‫ﺑﺮﺳﺪ‪.‬‬ ‫ﻓﺮﺍﻧﺴﻮﻯ ﻭ ﻓﺎﺭﺳﻰ ﻣﺴﻠﻂ ﺍﺳﺖ‪.‬‬ ‫ﺟﻬﺎﻥ ﺩﺍﺭﺩ‪ .‬ﮔﺰﺍﺭﺵﻫﺎﻯ ﺍﻭ‬
‫ﺗﻀﻤﻴﻦ ﻛﻨﻨﺪﻩ ﺍﻫﻤﻴﺖ ﻳﻚ ﺧﺒﺮ‬

‫»ﺑﻪ ﻣﺮﺩﻫﺎ ﺍﻃﻤﻴﻨﺎﻥ ﻧﻜﻨﻴﺪ!«‬

‫ﺳﻮﭘﺮﻣﺪﻝﻫﺎﻯ‬ ‫ﻧﺎﺷﻨﺎﺧﺘﻪ ﻫﺎ ﻭ ﺍﻟﺒﺘﻪ ﺧﻮﻳﺸﺘﻦ‪ .‬ﺑﺮﺍﻯ ﻫﻤﻴﻦ ﻗﻮﻝ‬ ‫ﺩﺭ ﻣﺮﺩﻫﺎ ﺣﺮﻛﺖ ﻣﻮﺍﺟﻰ ﺩﺍﺭﺩ ﻭ ﺧﻴﻠﻰ ﺷﻜﻨﻨﺪﻩ‬ ‫ﻫﻴﭻ ﻣﺮﺩﻯ ﻧﻤﻰ ﭘﺬﻳﺮﺩ ﻛﻪ ﻗﺎﺑﻞ ﺍﻃﻤﻴﻨﺎﻥ‬
‫ﻧﺎﻣﺘﻘﺎﺭﻥ‬ ‫ﺍﺯﺩﻭﺍﺝ ﺩﻭﺭﺍﻥ ﻧﻮﺟﻮﺍﻧﻰ ﻓﺮﺍﻣﻮﺵ ﻣﻰ ﺷﻮﺩ ﻭ‬ ‫ﻭ ﻧﺎﭘﺎﻳﺪﺍﺭ ﺍﺳﺖ‪ .‬ﻣﺮﺩﻫﺎ ﺍﺯ ﻫﻤﺎﻥ ﺭﻭﺯ ﻧﺨﺴﺖ‬ ‫ﻧﻴﺴﺖ ﻭ ﺷﻨﻮﻧﺪﻩ ﻭ ﮔﻮﻳﻨﺪﻩ ﭼﻨﻴﻦ ﺟﻤﻼﺗﻰ ﺭﺍ‬
‫ﺩﻧﻴﺎ ﻣﻴﺰﺑﺎﻥ ﺗﺠﺮﺑﻪ ﺷﻮﺍﻟﻴﻪ ﺍﻯ ﺟﻮﺍﻥ ﺍﺳﺖ‪ .‬ﺍﮔﺮ‬ ‫ﺧﻴﺎﻧﺖ ﭘﻴﺸﻪ ﻳﺎ ﺳﻨﮕﺪﻝ ﻧﺒﻮﺩﻩ ﺍﻧﺪ‪ .‬ﺁﻧﻬﺎ ﺭﻭﺍﺑﻂ‬
‫ﻛﻴﺖ ﻣﺎﺱ ﻭ ﻧﺎﺩﻳﺎ ﺁﻭﻭﺳﺮﻣﺎﻥ ﺑﻪ ﺧﺎﻃﺮ ﮔﻮﻧﻪﻫﺎﻯ‬ ‫ﺩﺧﺘﺮﺍﻥ ﺟﻮﺍﻥ ﺑﺎ ﻳﻚ ﺭﺍﺑﻄﻪ ﺷﻜﺴﺖ ﺧﻮﺭﺩﻩ‬ ‫ﻋﺎﺷﻘﺎﻧﻪ ﭘﺎﻳﺪﺍﺭ ﺭﺍ ﺩﺭ ﺩﻭﺭﺍﻥ ﻧﻮﺟﻮﺍﻧﻰ ﺑﺎ‬ ‫ﻣﻮﺭﺩ ﻣﻮﺍﺧﺬﻩ ﻗﺮﺍﺭ ﻣﻰ ﺩﻫﺪ‪ .‬ﻭﻟﻰ ﻛﺘﻤﺎﻥ‬
‫ﺍﺳﺘﺨﻮﺍﻧﻰﺷﺎﻥ ﻣﺸﻬﻮﺭ ﺷﺪﻩﺍﻧﺪ ﻭ ﺳﻴﻨﺪﻯ ﻛﺮﺍﻓﻮﺭﺩ ﺩﻗﻴﻘﺎ ﺑﻪ ﺩﻟﻴﻞ‬ ‫ﻣﻮﺍﺟﻪ ﻫﺴﺘﻨﺪ ﻛﻪ ﺍﺯ ﺩﻭﺭﺍﻥ ﻧﻮﺟﻮﺍﻧﻰ ﺍﺯ ﺁﻥ ﺣﻔﻆ‬ ‫ﺷﺪﺕ ﻭ ﺣﺪﺕ ﺗﺠﺮﺑﻪ ﻛﺮﺩﻩ ﺍﻧﺪ‪.‬‬ ‫ﻧﺎﭘﺬﻳﺮ ﺍﺳﺖ ﻛﻪ ﺍﻳﻦ ﺑﺮﺩﺍﺷﺖ‬
‫ﭼﺸﻤﺎﻥ ﺑﺴﻴﺎﺭ ﺩﺭﺷﺘﻰ ﻛﻪ ﺩﺍﺭﺩ‪ ،‬ﺑﺎ ﺍﻳﻦ ﻭﺟﻮﺩ‪ ،‬ﺁﻧﻬﺎ ﺩﺭ ﺑﻴﻦ ﺯﻳﺒﺎﺗﺮﻳﻦ‬ ‫ﻭ ﺣﺮﺍﺳﺖ ﻛﺮﺩﻩ ﺍﻧﺪ‪ ،‬ﻣﺮﺩﻫﺎﻯ ﺟﻮﺍﻥ ﺁﻥ ﺭﺍ ﻧﻘﻄﻪ‬ ‫ﺣﺘﻤﺎ ﺷﻤﺎ ﻫﻢ ﺑﻪ ﺩﻭﺳﺖ‬ ‫ﻧﺴﻞ ﺑﻪ ﻧﺴﻞ ﺑﺎ ﺯﻧﺎﻥ ﭘﻴﺶ‬
‫ﺯﻧﺎﻥ ﺟﻬﺎﻥ ﻗﺮﺍﺭ ﮔﺮﻓﺘﻪﺍﻧﺪ‪ .‬ﻫﻤﻴﻦﺟﺎﺳﺖ ﻛﻪ ﺑﺎﻳﺪ ﮔﻔﺖ ﺑﻴﻮﻟﻮژﻯ ﻫﻴﭻ‬ ‫ﺩﺧﺘﺮ ﺩﻭﺭﺍﻥ ﻧﻮﺟﻮﺍﻧﻰ‬ ‫ﻣﻰ ﺭﻭﺩ‪ .‬ﺧﺼﻮﺻﺎ ﻭﻗﺘﻰ‬
‫ﺗﻀﻤﻴﻨﻰ ﺑﺮﺍﻯ ﺯﻳﺒﺎﻳﻰ ﻧﻴﺴﺖ‪ ،‬ﻛﻤﺎ ﺍﻳﻨﻜﻪ ﮔﻮﻧﻪ ﺍﺳﺘﺨﻮﺍﻧﻰ ﺑﺮﺍﻯ ﺯﻧﺎﻧﻰ‬ ‫ﺷﺮﻭﻉ ﻣﻰ ﭘﻨﺪﺍﺭﻧﺪ‪.‬‬ ‫ﺗﺎﻥ ﭘﻴﺸﻨﻬﺎﺩ ﺍﺯﺩﻭﺍﺝ‬ ‫ﺁﻧﻬﺎ ﺑﻌﺪ ﺍﺯ ﻳﻚ ﺭﺍﺑﻄﻪ‬
‫ﻛﻪ ﺻﻮﺭﺗﻰ ﻛﻮﺩﻛﺎﻧﻪ ﻭ ﻣﻌﺼﻮﻡ ﺩﺍﺭﻧﺪ‪ ،‬ﺟﺎﻯ ﮔﻮﻧﻪﺍﻯ ﭼﺎﻕ ﻭ ﺧﻄﻮﻁ‬ ‫ﻣﺮﺩﻫﺎ ﺍﺯ ‪ 22‬ﺳﺎﻟﮕﻰ ﻗﺪﻡ ﺑﻪ ﺩﻭﺭﻩ ﺍﻯ ﻣﻰ‬ ‫ﺩﺍﺩﻩ ﺍﻳﺪ ﻳﺎ ﺣﺘﻰ ﺍﺳﻢ‬ ‫ﻋﺎﺷﻘﺎﻧﻪ‪ ،‬ﻣﺮﺩ ﺧﻮﺩ ﺭﺍ‬
‫ﻣﺸﻬﻮﺩ ﺭﻭﻯ ﮔﻠﻮ ﺭﺍ ﻧﻤﻰﮔﻴﺮﺩ‪ .‬ﻣﻌﻤﻮﻻ ﺗﻘﺎﺭﻥ ﻫﻢ ﺑﻪ ﺻﻮﺭﺕﻫﺎﻯ‬ ‫ﮔﺬﺍﺭﻧﺪ ﻛﻪ ﭼﺎﺭﭼﻮﺏ ﻫﺎ ﻭ ﺩﻟﺒﺴﺘﮕﻰ ﻫﺎﻳﺸﺎﻥ ﺭﺍ‬ ‫ﻓﺮﺯﻧﺪﺍﻧﺘﺎﻥ ﺭﺍ ﺗﻌﻴﻴﻦ‬ ‫ﺑﺎ ﺷﺨﺺ ﺩﻳﮕﺮﻯ ﺩﺭ‬
‫ﻛﻮﺩﻛﺎﻧﻪ ﻭ ﻣﻌﺼﻮﻡ ﺑﺮﺍﻯ ﺳﻮﭘﺮﻣﺪﻝ ﺷﺪﻥ ﻛﻤﻚ ﻧﻤﻰﻛﻨﺪ‪ .‬ﺑﺮﺍﻯ‬ ‫ﻛﻨﺎﺭ ﻣﻰ ﺯﻧﻨﺪ‪ .‬ﺧﻮﺍﺳﺘﺎﺭ ﺗﺮﻙ ﺷﻬﺮ ﻭ ﻛﺸﻮﺭﺷﺎﻥ‬ ‫ﻳﻚ ﺭﺳﺘﻮﺭﺍﻥ ﻟﻮﻛﺲ‬
‫ﻣﻰ ﺷﻮﻧﺪ ﻭ ﺍﺯ ﺭﻭﺍﺑﻂ ﻗﺪﻳﻤﻰ ﻭ ﭼﻔﺖ ﻭ ﺑﺴﺖ‬ ‫ﻛﺮﺩﻩ ﺍﻳﺪ‪.‬‬ ‫ﺩﺳﺘﮕﻴﺮ ﻣﻰ ﻛﻨﻨﺪ‪.‬‬
‫ﻫﻤﻴﻦ ﻫﻢ ﻫﺴﺖ ﻛﻪ ﺁﺭﺍﻳﺶﻫﺎﻯ ﻣﺨﺘﻠﻒ ﻭ ﻣﺘﻨﻮﻋﻰ ﺑﺮﺍﻯ‬ ‫ﻫﺎﻯ ﺧﺎﻧﻮﺍﺩﻩ ﻓﺮﺍﺭ ﻣﻰ ﻛﻨﻨﺪ‪ .‬ﺍﻳﻦ ﺩﻭﺭﻩ ﺁﻧﻬﺎ ﺭﺍ ﺑﻪ‬ ‫ﺧﺐ‪ ،‬ﺍﻳﻦ ﻫﻴﭻ‬ ‫ﺧﺐ؟ ﭘﺎﺳﺦ ﺷﻤﺎ‬
‫ﺻﻮﺭﺕ ﻫﺎﻯ ﺍﺯ ﻣﺪﺍﻓﺘﺎﺩﻩ ﻭﺟﻮﺩ ﺩﺍﺭﺩ‪ ،‬ﺻﻮﺭﺕﻫﺎﻳﻰ ﻛﻪ‬ ‫ﺷﺨﺼﻰ ﺧﺴﺘﻪ ﻭ ﺑﻰ ﺣﻮﺻﻠﻪ ﺍﺯ ﺗﻜﺮﺍﺭ ﺑﺪﻝ ﻣﻰ‬ ‫ﺍﺷﻜﺎﻟﻰ ﻧﺪﺍﺭﺩ‪ ،‬ﺍﺣﺴﺎﺱ‬ ‫ﻣﺮﺩﻫﺎ ﺑﻪ ﺍﻳﻦ ﺍﺗﻬﺎﻡ‬
‫ﺣﺘﻰ ﺷﺎﻳﺪ ﺯﻳﺒﺎ ﺑﺎﺷﻨﺪ ﻭﻟﻰ ﺍﺯ ﻋﻨﺼﺮ ﺟﺬﺍﺑﻴﺖ‬ ‫ﻛﻨﺪ ﻛﻪ ﻧﻴﺎﺯ ﺑﻪ ﺗﻨﻮﻉ‪ ،‬ﺗﺤﺮﻙ‪ ،‬ﻧﻮﻉ ﺁﻭﺭﻯ ﻭ ﺟﻠﺐ‬ ‫ﻣﺮﺩﻫﺎ ﺩﺭ ﺩﻭﺭﺍﻥ‬ ‫ﭼﻴﺴﺖ؟ ﻣﻰ ﺧﻨﺪﻳﺪ‪،‬‬
‫ﺑﺮﺧﻮﺭﺩﺍﺭ ﻧﻴﺴﺘﻨﺪ‪.‬‬ ‫ﺗﻮﺟﻪ ﻫﻤﻪ ﺯﻧﺎﻥ ﺍﻃﺮﺍﻓﺶ ﺩﺍﺭﺩ‪ .‬ﺍﻳﻦ ﺍﻧﻘﻼﺏ ﻣﺮﺩ‬ ‫ﻧﻮﺟﻮﺍﻧﻰ ﺗﺎ ‪ 21‬ﺳﺎﻟﮕﻰ‬ ‫ﻋﺼﺒﺎﻧﻰ ﻣﻰ ﺷﻮﻳﺪ ﻳﺎ‬
‫ﺭﺍ ﺍﺯ ﺯﻣﻴﻦ ﻣﻰ ﻛﻨﺪ ﻭ ﺣﺘﻰ ﺍﺯ ﺯﻧﻰ ﻛﻪ ﻋﺎﺷﻘﺎﻧﻪ‬ ‫ﺍﻳﻨﻄﻮﺭ ﻓﺮﻣﺎﻥ ﻣﻰ ﺩﻫﺪ‬ ‫ﻣﻔﺘﺨﺮ ﺑﻪ ﺗﺰﻟﺰﻝ ﺧﻮﺩ‬
‫ﺩﻭﺳﺘﺶ ﺩﺍﺷﺘﻪ ﺍﺳﺖ‪ ،‬ﺟﺪﺍ ﻣﻰ ﻛﻨﺪ‪ .‬ﺍﻳﻦ ﺍﻧﻘﻼﺏ‬ ‫ﻛﻪ ﺭﻭﺍﺑﻂ ﻋﺎﺷﻘﺎﻧﻪ ﭘﺎﻳﺪﺍﺭ‬ ‫ﻫﺴﺘﻴﺪ‪.‬‬
‫ﺷﻮﺍﻟﻴﻪ ﺍﻯ ﺍﻣﺎ ﺗﺎ ‪ 35‬ﺳﺎﻟﮕﻰ ﺩﻭﺍﻡ ﻧﻤﻰ ﺁﻭﺭﺩ ﻭ‬ ‫ﻭ ﻧﺎﮔﺴﺴﺘﻨﻰ ﺩﺍﺷﺘﻪ‬ ‫ﻛﻤﻰ ﻋﻘﺐ ﺗﺮ‬
‫ﻣﺮﺩﻫﺎ ﺩﻭﺑﺎﺭﻩ ﺑﺎ ﺟﻬﺎﻥ ﺻﻠﺢ ﻣﻰ ﻛﻨﻨﺪ ﻭ ﺯﻧﺪﮔﻰ‬ ‫ﺑﺎﺷﻨﺪ‪ .‬ﺍﻣﺎ ﺑﺎ ﻭﺭﻭﺩ ﺑﻪ ‪22‬‬ ‫ﺑﺎﻳﺴﺘﻴﺪ‪ ،‬ﻗﺮﺍﺭ‬
‫ﺳﺎﻟﮕﻰ ﻳﻚ ﺍﻧﻘﻼﺏ ﺭﺥ ﻣﻰ‬ ‫ﻧﻴﺴﺖ ﺷﻤﺎ‬
‫ﺷﻴﺮﻳﻦ ﻣﻰ ﺷﻮﺩ!‬ ‫ﺩﻫﺪ‪ ،‬ﺍﻧﻘﻼﺏ ﻛﺸﻒ‬ ‫ﭘﺎﺳﺦ ﺍﻳﻦ ﺳﻮﺍﻝ‬
‫ﺍﻣﺎ ﺗﺠﺮﺑﻪ ﺯﻧﺎﻥ ﺍﺯ ﻧﺎﭘﺎﻳﺪﺍﺭﻯ ﻣﺮﺩﻫﺎ ﺩﺭ ﺭﺍﺑﻄﻪ‪،‬‬ ‫ﺭﺍ ﺑﺪﻫﻴﺪ‪ .‬ﻣﺎ‬
‫ﺍﻏﻠﺐ ﺣﺎﺻﻞ ﺍﻳﻦ ﺩﻭﺭﺍﻥ ﺍﻧﻘﻼﺑﻰ ﻣﺮﺩﻫﺎﺳﺖ‬ ‫ﭘﺎﺳﺨﺶ ﺭﺍ‬
‫ﻛﻪ ﺳﺎﻳﻪ ﺗﺮﺩﻳﺪ ﺭﺍ ﺗﺎ ﺳﻨﻴﻦ ﭘﻴﺮﻯ ﺁﻧﻬﺎ ﻫﻢ‬ ‫ﺩ ﺍ ﺭ ﻳﻢ ‪.‬‬
‫ﻛﺸﺎﻧﺪﻩ ﺍﺳﺖ‪ .‬ﺍﻣﺎ ﻧﺒﺎﻳﺪ ﻓﺮﺍﻣﻮﺵ ﻛﺮﺩ ﻣﺮﺩﻫﺎﻳﻰ‬ ‫ﻋﺸﻖ‬
‫ﻛﻪ ﺑﻪ ﺩﻻﻳﻞ ﻣﺨﺘﻠﻔﻰ ﭼﻮﻥ ﺗﺤﺼﻴﻞ‪ ،‬ﻛﺴﺐ‬
‫ﺩﺭﺁﻣﺪ ﻭ ﺳﺮﭘﺮﺳﺘﻰ ﺧﺎﻧﻮﺍﺩﻩ ﺍﻳﻦ ﺩﻭﺭﻩ ﺭﺍ‬
‫ﺗﺠﺮﺑﻪ ﻧﻜﺮﺩﻩ ﺍﻧﺪ‪ ،‬ﺩﻫﻪ ﭼﻬﻞ ﺯﻧﺪﮔﻰ ﺷﺎﻥ‬
‫ﺑﺎ ﺗﻜﺎﻥ ﻫﺎﻯ ﺷﺪﻳﺪﺗﺮﻯ ﺍﺯ ﺗﺤﻮﻝ ﻫﻤﺮﺍﻩ‬
‫ﺧﻮﺍﻫﺪ ﺑﻮﺩ‪ .‬ﺍﻳﻦ ﺗﻜﺎﻥ ﻫﺎ ﺷﻮﺍﻟﻴﻪ ﺁﻫﻨﻴﻦ‬
‫ﻣﺨﺮﺑﻰ ﻣﻰ ﺷﻮﻧﺪ ﻛﻪ ﺩﻭﺭﺍﻥ ﺛﺒﺎﺕ‬
‫ﻳﻚ ﺧﺎﻧﻮﺍﺩﻩ ﺭﺍ ﺑﻪ ﺧﻄﺮ ﻣﻰ ﺍﻧﺪﺍﺯﻧﺪ‪.‬‬

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