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‫‪‬ﭼﻄﻮﺭ ﺷﺪ ﻛﻪ ﭘﺪﺭﺕ ﻋﻮﺽ‬                    ‫ﻣﺨﺎﻟﻔﺖ ﻭ ﻟﺠﺎﺟﺖ ﺑﺎ ﻣﻦ ﻣﻰﮔﻔﺖ‪ :‬ﺗﺎ‬          ‫ﺭﻓﺘﺎﺭ ﻫﻤﺴﺮﺕ ﺩﺭ ﺗﻨﺎﻗﺾ ﺑﺎ ﺁﻥ‬              ‫ﺩﻳﮕﺮ ﻣﻨﺘﻔﻰ ﺍﺳﺖ ﻭ ﺗﻮ ﻣﻰﺗﻮﺍﻧﻰ ﺑﻪ‬         ‫ﺩﺭ ﻧﻴﺎﻭﺭﺩﻡ ﻭ ﺑﺮﺍﻯ ﺍﻭﻟﻴﻦ ﺑﻪ ﭘﺪﺭﻡ ﺩﺭﻭﻍ‬    ‫ﺑﺴﻴﺎﺭﻯ ﺍﺯ ﺯﻧﺎﻥ ﻭ ﺩﺧﺘﺮﺍﻥ ﺟﻮﺍﻧﻰ‬
                            ‫ﺷﺪ؟‬         ‫ﺯﻣﺎﻧﻰ ﻛﻪ ﺗﻮ ﻣﺪﺭﺳﻪ ﻣﻰﺭﻭﻯ‪ ،‬ﺑﭽﻪﻫﺎ ﺭﺍ‬                                               ‫ﺧﺎﻧﻪ ﺑﺮﮔﺮﺩﻯ‪ .‬ﺑﻪ ﺍﻭ ﮔﻔﺘﻢ ﻛﻪ ﺩﻳﮕﺮ‬        ‫ﮔﻔﺘﻢ‪ .‬ﻭﻗﺘﻰ ﻣﺘﻮﺟﻪ ﺍﺩﺍﻣﻪ ﻓﻌﺎﻟﻴﺖﻫﺎﻯ‬        ‫ﻛﻪ ﭘﺲ ﺍﺯ ﻣﻬﺎﺟﺮﺕ ﻳﺎ ﭘﻨﺎﻫﻨﺪﮔﻰ‬
                                                                                ‫ﺁﺭﻣﺎﻥﻫﺎﻳﺘﺎﻥ ﻧﺒﻮﺩ ﻭ ﺗﻮ ﺧﻮﺩﺕ ﭼﻄﻮﺭ‬         ‫ﺑﻪ ﺍﻭ ﺍﻋﺘﻤﺎﺩﻯ ﻧﺪﺍﺭﻡ‪ ،‬ﭼﻮﻥ ﭼﻨﺪﻳﻦ ﺑﺎﺭ‬     ‫ﻣﻦ ﺷﺪ‪ ،‬ﺑﺎ ﻫﻢ ﺑﺤﺚ ﻭ ﺟﺪﻝ ﺩﺍﺷﺘﻴﻢ ﻛﻪ‬        ‫ﺩﺭ ﺁﻟﻤﺎﻥ ﺑﺰﺭگ ﺷﺪﻩﺍﻧﺪ ﺍﺯ ﻳﻚ ﺳﻮ‬
‫‪-‬ﭘﺪﺭﻡ ﺗﺮﺱ ﺩﺍﺷﺖ ﻛﻪ ﺍﻭ ﺑﻪ ﺧﺎﻃﺮ‬                                 ‫ﻧﮕﻪ ﻧﻤﻰﺩﺍﺭﻡ‪.‬‬                                               ‫ﺍﺯ ﺍﻳﻦ ﺣﺮﻑﻫﺎ ﺯﺩﻩ ﻭ ﮔﻔﺘﻢ ﻛﻪ ﺍﻻﻥ ﺑﺎ‬      ‫ﺑﻪ ﺷﺪﺕ ﻋﺼﺒﺎﻧﻰ ﺷﺪ ﻭ ﺑﻪ ﻣﻦ ﺳﻴﻠﻰ ﺯﺩ‬        ‫ﺑﺎ ﺍﻧﺘﻈﺎﺭﺍﺗﻰ ﺍﺯ ﺳﻮﻯ ﭘﺪﺭ ﻭ ﻣﺎﺩﺭ ﻭ‬
‫ﻣﺴﺎﺋﻠﻰ ﻛﻪ ﻣﻦ ﺩﺭ ﻫﻤﻪ ﺳﺎﻝﻫﺎ‬                                                                 ‫ﺍﻳﻦ ﻭﺿﻊ ﺭﺍ ﻗﺒﻮﻝ ﻛﺮﺩﻯ؟‬         ‫ﺩﻭﺳﺖ ﭘﺴﺮﻡ ﺑﺎ ﻫﻢ ﺯﻧﺪﮔﻰ ﻣﻰﻛﻨﻴﻢ‪.‬‬          ‫ﻭ ﺁﺧﺮ ﺳﺮﻫﻢ ﮔﻔﺖ ﺩﻳﮕﻪ ﺍﺟﺎﺯﻩ ﺭﻓﺘﻦ‬          ‫ﺧﺎﻧﻮﺍﺩﻩ ﻳﺎ ﻫﻤﺴﺮ ﺭﻭﺑﺮﻭ ﻫﺴﺘﻨﺪ ﻛﻪ‬
‫ﺩﺍﺷﺘﻢ‪ ،‬ﺍﺯ ﭼﺸﻢ ﻓﺎﻣﻴﻞﺍﺵ ﺑﻴﺎﻓﺘﺪ‪ .‬ﺩﺭ‬                        ‫‪‬ﺑﻌﺪ ﭼﻰ ﺷﺪ؟‬             ‫‪-‬ﺩﺭﺳﺘﻪ‪ ،‬ﺗﻌﺠﺐ ﻣﻰﻛﺮﺩﻡ‪ .‬ﺣﺘﻰ ﺑﻬﺶ‬            ‫ﺑﻌﺪ ﺍﺯ ﻛﻠﻰ ﺑﺤﺚ‪ ،‬ﭘﺪﺭﻡ ﮔﻔﺖ‪ :‬ﻣﻦ ﻗﺒﻮﻝ‬      ‫ﺑﻪ ﻣﺪﺭﺳﻪ ﻧﺪﺍﺭﻡ‪ .‬ﻭ ﻳﻚ ﻫﻔﺘﻪ ﻣﺮﺍ ﺩﺭ‬        ‫ﺭﻳﺸﻪ ﺩﺭ ﺗﺮﺑﻴﺖ ﻭ ﻓﺮﻫﻨﮓ ﺁﻧﻬﺎ ﺩﺍﺭﺩ‬
‫ﻭﺍﻗﻊ ﺑﻪ ﺧﺎﻃﺮ ﭘﺎﻳﺒﻨﺪﻯ ﺑﻪ ُﺳﻨﺖﻫﺎﻯ‬         ‫‪-‬ﺍﻳﻦ ﻃﻮﺭﻯ ‪ 9‬ﺳﺎﻝ ﺭﺍ ﺑﺎ ﺩﻋﻮﺍ ﺑﺎ ﻫﻢ‬        ‫ﮔﻔﺘﻢ ﺗﻮ ﻛﻪ ﺑﺮﺍﻯ ﺣﻘﻮﻕ ﺑﺸﺮ ﻣﺒﺎﺭﺯﻩ‬         ‫ﻣﻰﻛﻨﻢ ﻛﻪ ﺗﻮ ﺭﺍﻩ ﻭ ﺯﻧﺪﮔﻰ ﺧﻮﺩﺕ ﺭﺍ‬        ‫ﺧﺎﻧﻪ ﺯﻧﺪﺍﻧﻰ ﻛﺮﺩ‪ .‬ﺑﻌﺪﺍ ﻛﻪ ﻗﻮﻝ ﺩﺍﺩﻡ‬       ‫ﻭ ﺍﺯ ﺳﻮﻯ ﺩﻳﮕﺮ ﺑﻪ ﺩﻟﻴﻞ ﺑﺰﺭگ ﺷﺪﻥ‬
‫ﺧﺎﻧﻮﺍﺩﮔﻰ ﺑﻮﺩ ﻛﻪ ﺑﺎ ﻣﻦ ﺁﻥ ﻃﻮﺭ ﺭﻓﺘﺎﺭ‬      ‫ﺯﻧﺪﮔﻰ ﻣﻰﻛﺮﺩﻳﻢ‪ .‬ﻫﻤﺴﺮﻡ ﻫﺮ ﭼﻴﺰﻯ ﺭﺍ‬         ‫ﻣﻰﻛﻨﻰ‪ ،‬ﺣﻘﻮﻕ ﺑﺸﺮ ﻛﻪ ﻓﻘﻂ ﺑﺮﺍﻯ‬             ‫ﺑﺮﻭﻯ ﻭ ﺍﮔﺮ ﺑﺨﻮﺍﻫﻰ ﻣﻰﺗﻮﺍﻧﻴﻢ ﺑﺎ ﻫﻢ‬       ‫ﺩﻳﮕﻪ ﻓﻌﺎﻟﻴﺖ ﻧﻤﻰﻛﻨﻢ ﺍﺟﺎﺯﻩ ﺩﺍﺩ ﺑﻪ‬         ‫ﻭ ﺯﻧﺪﮔﻰ ﺩﺭ ﺟﺎﻣﻌﻪ ﻭ ﻛﺸﻮﺭ ﺟﺪﻳﺪ ﺑﺎ‬
‫ﻣﻰﻛﺮﺩ‪ .‬ﺍﻣﺎ ﺍﺯ ﻃﺮﻑ ﺩﻳﮕﺮ ﺩﺭ ﻗﻠﺒﺶ‬          ‫ﺑﻬﺎﻧﻪ ﻣﻰﻛﺮﺩ ﻭ ﻣﻰﺧﻮﺍﺳﺖ ﻣﺮﺍ ﻛﻨﺘﺮﻝ‬         ‫ﻣﺮﺩﺍﻥ ﻧﻴﺴﺖ‪ .‬ﺍﻭ ﻫﻤﻪ ﺣﺮﻑﻫﺎﻯ ﻣﺮﺍ‬           ‫ﺍﺭﺗﺒﺎﻁﻣﺎﻥ ﺭﺍ ﺑﺮﻗﺮﺍﺭ ﻛﻨﻴﻢ‪ ،‬ﺍﻣﺎ ﻳﻚ ﺷﺮﻁ‬   ‫ﻣﺪﺭﺳﻪ ﺑﺮﻭﻡ ﻭ ﻭﻗﺘﻰ ﻓﻬﻤﻴﺪ ﻛﻪ ﻫﻨﻮﺯ‬         ‫ﻓﺮﻫﻨﮓ ﻭ ﺍﺭﺯﺵﻫﺎﻯ ﻣﺘﻔﺎﻭﺗﻰ ﺁﺷﻨﺎ‬
‫ﻧﻤﻰﺧﻮﺍﺳﺖ ﺩﺧﺘﺮﺵ ﺭﺍ ﺗﻨﻬﺎ ﺑﮕﺬﺍﺭﺩ‬           ‫ﻛﻨﺪ‪ .‬ﺍﮔﺮ ﭘﻨﺞ ﺩﻗﻴﻘﻪ ﺩﻳﺮﺗﺮ ﺍﺯ ﻭﻗﺖ‬         ‫ﺗﺎﺋﻴﺪ ﻣﻰﻛﺮﺩ ﻭﻟﻰ ﺑﻌﺪ ﻣﻰﮔﻔﺖ‪ :‬ﻫﻤﻪ‬          ‫ﺩﺍﺭﻡ ﻭ ﺁﻥ ﺍﻳﻨﻜﻪ ﺷﻤﺎ )ﻣﻦ ﻭ ﺩﻭﺳﺖ‬         ‫ﺍﺭﺗﺒﺎﻁ ﺩﺍﺭﻡ‪ ،‬ﺑﺮﺍﻯ ﺑﺎﺭ ﺩﻭﻡ ﻣﺮﺍ ﺩﺭ ﺧﺎﻧﻪ‬   ‫ﻣﻰﺷﻮﻧﺪ ﻛﻪ ﺩﺭ ﺁﻥ ﺍﻫﻤﻴﺖ ”ﻓﺮﺩ“ ﻭ‬
‫ﻭ ﻧﻬﺎﻳﺘﺎ ﻫﻢ ﻋﺸﻖ ﭘﺪﺭﻯ ﺑﺮ ﺳﻨﺖﻫﺎﻯ‬          ‫ﻣﻌﻤﻮﻝ ﺍﺯ ﻣﺪﺭﺳﻪ ﺑﻪ ﺧﺎﻧﻪ ﺑﺮ ﻣﻰﮔﺸﺘﻢ‬        ‫ﺍﻳﻨﻬﺎ ﺩﺭﺳﺘﻪ‪ ،‬ﺍﻣﺎ ﻓﻘﻂ ﺗﺎ ﺩﻡ ﺩﺭ ﺧﺎﻧﻪ! ﺩﺭ‬                                         ‫ﺯﻧﺪﺍﻧﻰ ﻛﺮﺩ ﻭ ﮔﻔﺖ‪ :‬ﺗﺼﻤﻴﻢ ﮔﺮﻓﺘﻪﺍﻡ ﻛﻪ‬      ‫ﻧﻴﺎﺯﻫﺎ ﻭ ﺧﻮﺍﺳﺘﻪﻫﺎﻳﺶ ﺑﺮ ﭘﺎﺳﺦ ﺑﻪ‬
‫ﺩﺳﺖ ﻭ ﭘﺎ ﮔﻴﺮ ﻏﻠﺒﻪ ﻛﺮﺩ‪ .‬ﺍﻻﻥ‬              ‫ﺩﻋﻮﺍ ﺭﺍﻩ ﻣﻰﺍﻧﺪﺍﺧﺖ‪ .‬ﻳﻚ ﺭﻭﺯ ﺑﻪ ﺧﻮﺩﻡ‬       ‫ﺧﺎﻧﻮﺍﺩﻩ ﻭ ﺩﺭ ﭼﻬﺎﺭﭼﻮﺏ ﺧﺎﻧﻮﺍﺩﻩ ﻗﺎﻧﻮﻥ‬                                             ‫ﺗﻮ ﺭﺍ ﺑﻪ ﺷﻮﻫﺮ ﺑﺪﻫﻢ‪ ،‬ﺑﻪ ﭘﺴﺮﻋﻤﻪﺍﺕ‪ .‬ﺩﺭ‬
‫ﻣﻰﮔﻮﻳﺪ‪ :‬ﺑﺮﺍﻳﻢ ﻣﻬﻢ ﻧﻴﺴﺖ ﻛﻪ ﺩﻳﮕﺮﺍﻥ‬        ‫ﮔﻔﺘﻢ ﺩﻳﮕﻪ ﺍﺟﺎﺯﻩ ﻧﺪﺍﺭﻯ ﺑﻪ ﺧﺎﻃﺮ ﺑﭽﻪﻫﺎ‬                                                                                    ‫ﻭﺍﻗﻊ ﻗﺼﺪ ﭘﺪﺭﻡ ﺍﻳﻦ ﺑﻮﺩ ﻛﻪ ﺍﺯ ﻃﺮﻳﻖ ﺑﻪ‬           ‫ﺍﻧﺘﻈﺎﺭﺍﺕ ﺧﺎﻧﻮﺍﺩﻩ ﺍﻭﻟﻮﻳﺖ ﺩﺍﺭﺩ‪.‬‬
‫ﭼﻪ ﻣﻰﮔﻮﻳﻨﺪ‪ ،‬ﺗﻮ ﺩﺧﺘﺮ ﻣﻦ ﻫﺴﺘﻰ ﻭ‬           ‫ﺍﻳﻦ ﻭﺿﻌﻴﺖ ﺭﺍ ﺑﻴﺶ ﺍﺯ ﺍﻳﻦ ﺗﺤﻤﻞ‬            ‫ﺩﺭ ﻛﺸﺎﻛﺶ ﺑﻴﻦ ُﺳﻨﺖ ﻭ ﺧﺎﻧﻮﺍﺩﻩ ﻭ ﺧﻮﺍﺳﺘﻪﻫﺎ‬                                         ‫ﺍﺯﺩﻭﺍﺝ ﺩﺭﺁﻭﺭﺩﻥ ﻣﻦ‪ ،‬ﺟﻠﻮﻯ ﻓﻌﺎﻟﻴﺖﻫﺎﻯ‬       ‫ﺍﻳﻦ ﻛﺸﺎﻛﺶ ﺩﺭ ﺑﺴﻴﺎﺭﻯ ﺍﺯ ﺍﻳﻦ‬
‫ﭼﻪ ﺍﻫﻤﻴﺘﻰ ﺩﺍﺭﺩ ﻛﻪ ﻃﻼﻕ ﮔﺮﻓﺘﻪﺍﻯ‪.‬‬          ‫ﻛﻨﻰ‪ ،‬ﻭ ﺑﻪ ﻫﻤﺴﺮﻡ ﮔﻔﺘﻢ‪ :‬ﺗﻮ ﺧﻴﻠﻰ‬                       ‫ﻭ ﺁﺭﺯﻭﻫﺎﻯ ﻓﺮﺩﻯ‪:‬‬                                                                                            ‫ﺧﺎﻧﻮﺍﺩﻩﻫﺎ ﺑﺮ ﺗﻤﺎﻡ ﺯﻧﺪﮔﻰ ﺳﺎﻳﻪ‬
‫ﭼﻨﺪ ﻣﺎﻩ ﭘﻴﺶ ﺩﺭ ﺟﺸﻦ‬                      ‫ﺳﻌﻰ ﻣﻴﻜﻨﻰ ﭘﻴﺶ ﺩﻳﮕﺮﺍﻥ ﻫﻤﻪ ﭼﻴﺰ‬                                                                                                ‫ﺳﻴﺎﺳﻰﺍﻡ ﺑﺎ ﺁﻥ ﺳﺎﺯﻣﺎﻥ ﺭﺍ ﺑﮕﻴﺮﺩ‪.‬‬     ‫ﻣﻰﺍﻧﺪﺍﺯﺩ ﻭ ﺑﺴﺘﻪ ﺑﻪ ﺍﻳﻨﻜﻪ ﭼﻪ ﺭﺍﻩ ﻭ‬
‫ﻓﺎﺭﻍﺍﻟﺘﺤﺼﻴﻠﻰﺍﻡ ﺷﺮﻛﺖ ﻛﺮﺩﻩ‬                ‫ﺭﺍ ﻋﺎﺩﻯ ﺟﻠﻮﻩ ﺩﻫﻰ ﻭ ﺍﻳﻦ ﻃﻮﺭ ﻭﺍﻧﻤﻮﺩ‬       ‫ﺁﮔﺎﻫﻰ ﻫﻤﻪ ﭼﻴﺰ ﺍﺳﺖ‬                                                              ‫ﭘﺴﺮﻋﻤﻪﺍﻡ ﺩﻭ ﺳﺎﻝ ﺍﺯ ﻣﻦ ﺑﺰﺭگﺗﺮ‬            ‫ﺭﻭﺷﻰ ﺑﺮﺍﻯ ﺑﺮﺧﻮﺭﺩ ﺑﺎ ﺁﻥ ﺍﻧﺘﺨﺎﺏ‬
‫ﺑﻮﺩ ﻭ ﻣﻰﺗﻮﺍﻧﺴﺘﻢ ﺑﺒﻴﻨﻢ ﻛﻪ ﭼﻘﺪﺭ‬           ‫ﻛﻨﻰ ﻛﻪ ﺍﻧﮕﺎﺭ ﻳﻚ ﺧﺎﻧﻮﺍﺩﻩ ﺧﻮﺷﺒﺨﺖ‬                                                                                         ‫ﺑﻮﺩ ﻭ ﺩﺭ ﺗﺮﻛﻴﻪ ﺯﻧﺪﮔﻰ ﻣﻰﻛﺮﺩ ﻭ ﻣﻌﻨﻰ‬       ‫ﺷﻮﺩ‪ ،‬ﭘﻴﺎﻣﺪﻫﺎﻯ ﻣﺘﻔﺎﻭﺗﻰ ﺧﻮﺍﻫﺪ‬
‫ﺧﻮﺷﺤﺎﻝ ﺍﺳﺖ‪ .‬ﭼﻨﺪﻯ ﺑﻌﺪ ﺩﺭ ﻳﻚ‬              ‫ﻫﺴﺘﻴﻢ‪ ،‬ﻭﻟﻰ ﺩﻳﮕﻪ ﻣﻦ ﻧﻤﻴﺨﻮﺍﻡ ﺑﻪ ﺍﻳﻦ‬       ‫)ﺣﻨﻴﻒ ﺣﻴﺪﺭﻧﮋﺍﺩ(‬                                                                ‫ﺍﺯﺩﻭﺍﺝ ﺍﻳﻦ ﺑﻮﺩ ﻛﻪ ﻣﻦ ﺑﻪ ﺗﺮﻛﻴﻪ ﺭﻓﺘﻪ ﻭ‬    ‫ﺩﺍﺷﺖ‪ .‬ﮔﻔﺘﮕﻮﻯ ﺯﻳﺮ ﺑﺎ ”ﻙ“ ﺯﻥ‬
‫ﻣﻬﻤﺎﻧﻰ ﺧﺎﻧﻮﺍﺩﮔﻰ ﺑﺎ ﻏﺮﻭﺭ ﻣﺮﺍ ﺑﻐﻞ‬         ‫ﺑﺎﺯﻯ ﺍﺩﺍﻣﻪ ﺑﺪﻡ‪ .‬ﻣﺎ ﺩﺭ ﻭﺍﻗﻊ ﻳﻚ ﺯﻥ ﻭ‬                                                                                     ‫ﺩﺭ ﺁﻧﺠﺎ ﺑﺎﻳﺪ ﺑﺎ ﺍﻭ ﺯﻧﺪﮔﻰ ﻛﻨﻢ‪ .‬ﻣﻦ ﻫﻢ‬     ‫ﺟﻮﺍﻧﻰ ﺍﺯ ﺗﺮﻛﻴﻪ ﻳﻚ ﻧﻤﻮﻧﻪ ﺩﺭ ﺍﻳﻦ‬
‫ﻣﻰﻛﺮﺩ ﻭ ﺑﻠﻨﺪ ﺑﻠﻨﺪ ﻣﻰﮔﻔﺖ ﻛﻪ ﺑﻪ‬           ‫ﺷﻮﻫﺮ ﻧﻴﺴﺘﻴﻢ‪ ،‬ﺑﻠﻜﻪ ﺩﻭ ﺗﺎ ﻫﻢﺍﺗﺎﻗﻰ‬         ‫ﻓﺮﺵ‪ ،‬ﻃﺮﺡ ﺍﺯ ﻓﺎﻳﮓ ﺍﺣﻤﺪ‬                                                          ‫ﮔﻔﺘﻢ‪ :‬ﺍﺻﻼ ﻧﻤﻰﺧﻮﺍﻫﻢ ﺍﺯﺩﻭﺍﺝ ﻛﻨﻢ‪ .‬ﺗﺎﺯﻩ‬     ‫ﺍﺭﺗﺒﺎﻁ ﻣﻰﺑﺎﺷﺪ‪.‬ﺩﺭ ﺩﺍﺳﺘﺎﻥ ﺯﻧﺪﮔﻰ‬
‫ﻣﻦ ﺍﻓﺘﺨﺎﺭ ﻣﻰﻛﻨﺪ‪ .‬ﻳﻚ ﺑﺎﺭ ﻫﻢ ﺑﻪ‬           ‫ﻫﺴﺘﻴﻢ‪ .‬ﻭ ﮔﻔﺘﻢ ﻣﻰﺧﻮﺍﻫﻢ ﺟﺪﺍ ﺷﻮﻡ‪.‬‬                                                                                                                                 ‫”ﻙ“ ﻣﻰﺗﻮﺍﻥ ﺷﺒﺎﻫﺖﻫﺎﻯ ﺯﻳﺎﺩﻯ ﺑﺎ‬
‫ﻣﻦ ﮔﻔﺖ‪ :‬ﺍﺯ ﻧﻈﺮ ﻣﻦ ﺣﺎﻻ ﺗﻮ ﻳﻚ‬             ‫ﺍﻟﺒﺘﻪ ﺗﺎ ﺑﻪ ﺍﻳﻦ ﻧﻘﻄﻪ ﺭﺳﻴﺪﻡ ﻛﻪ ﺑﺎﻳﺪ ﺟﺪﺍ‬                 ‫ﺩﻳﮕﺮﻯ ﺣﺎﻛﻢ ﺍﺳﺖ‪.‬‬          ‫ﭘﺴﺮﻡ( ﺑﺎ ﻫﻢ ﺍﺯﺩﻭﺍﺝ ﻛﻨﻴﺪ‪ .‬ﺩﻭﺳﺖ ﭘﺴﺮﻡ‬        ‫ﭘﺴﺮﻋﻤﻪﺍﻡ ﺑﺮﺍﻯ ﻣﻦ ﻣﺜﻞ ﺑﺮﺍﺩﺭ ﺑﻮﺩ‪.‬‬      ‫ﺯﻧﺎﻥ ﻭ ﺩﺧﺘﺮﺍﻥ ﺍﻳﺮﺍﻧﻰ ﭘﻴﺪﺍ ﻛﺮﺩ‪ .‬ﺑﻪ‬
‫”ﺍﻧﻘﻼﺑﻰ“ ﻫﺴﺘﻰ‪ .‬ﻣﻮﻗﻌﻰ ﻛﻪ ‪ 17‬ﺳﺎﻟﻪ‬         ‫ﺑﺸﻢ ﺗﻘﺮﻳﺒﺎ ﻳﻚ ﺳﺎﻝ ﻃﻮﻝ ﻛﺸﻴﺪ‪ .‬ﺑﻬﺶ‬         ‫ﺩﺭ ﺁﻥ ﺷﺮﺍﻳﻂ ﺟﺮﺃﺕ ﻧﻤﻰﻛﺮﺩﻡ ﺍﺯ‬             ‫ﺑﻼﻓﺎﺻﻠﻪ ﻣﻮﺍﻓﻘﺖ ﻛﺮﺩ‪ .‬ﻣﻦ ﻭﻟﻰ ﺟﻮﺍﺏ‬                                                ‫ﮔﻔﺘﮕﻮﻳﻰ ﻛﻪ ﺑﺎﻭﻯ ﺩﺍﺷﺘﻢ ﺗﻮﺟﻪ ﻛﻨﻴﺪ‪.‬‬
‫ﺑﻮﺩﻯ ﻣﻰﺧﻮﺍﺳﺘﻰ ﺑﺎ ﻳﻚ ﺳﺎﺯﻣﺎﻥ‬              ‫ﮔﻔﺘﻢ‪ :‬ﻳﺎ ﺗﻮ ﺍﺯ ﺍﻳﻦ ﺧﺎﻧﻪ ﻣﻴﺮﻭﻯ ﻳﺎ ﭘﻠﻴﺲ‬   ‫ﺟﺪﺍﺋﻰ ﺣﺮﻑ ﺑﺰﻧﻢ ﻭ ﻣﻰﺗﺮﺳﻴﺪﻡ ﺍﮔﺮ‬           ‫ﻧﺪﺍﺩﻡ‪ .‬ﺩﻭﺳﺖ ﭘﺴﺮﻡ ﻛﻪ ﺟﻮﺍﺏ ﺩﺍﺩ ﻣﻦ‬        ‫‪‬ﭼﺮﺍ ﭘﺪﺭﺕ ﺑﺎ ﻓﻌﺎﻟﻴﺖﻫﺎﻯ ﺗﻮ‬
‫ﺍﻧﻘﻼﺑﻰ ﺍﻧﻘﻼﺏ ﺑﻜﻨﻰ‪ ،‬ﺍﻣﺎ ﻧﺘﻮﺍﻧﺴﺘﻰ‪.‬‬        ‫ﺧﺒﺮ ﻣﻰﻛﻨﻢ‪ .‬ﻭﻗﺘﻰ ﺗﺼﻤﻴﻤﻢ ﺭﺍ ﺑﻪ‬            ‫ﻫﻤﭽﻴﻦ ﺣﺮﻓﻰ ﺑﺰﻧﻢ ﻫﻤﺴﺮﻡ ﻳﺎ ﺩﻭﺳﺘﺎﻥ‬         ‫ﻫﻢ ﺑﻌﺪﺍ ﻧﻈﺮﺵ ﺭﺍ ﺗﺎﺋﻴﺪ ﻛﺮﺩﻡ‪ .‬ﺍﻣﺮﻭﺯ‬                            ‫ﻣﺨﺎﻟﻒ ﺑﻮﺩ؟‬        ‫‪‬ﺗﻮ ‪ 31‬ﺳﺎﻟﻪ ﻫﺴﺘﻰ‪ ،‬ﺩﻭ ﺗﺎ ﺑﭽﻪ‬
‫ﺍﻣﺎ ﺣﺎﻻ ﺗﻮ ﻭﺍﻗﻌﺎ ﻳﻚ ﺍﻧﻘﻼﺑﻰ ﻫﺴﺘﻰ‪.‬‬        ‫ﺧﺎﻧﻮﺍﺩﻩﺍﻡ ﮔﻔﺘﻢ‪ ،‬ﭘﺪﺭ ﻭ ﻣﺎﺩﺭﻡ ﺭﺍﺑﻄﻪﺷﺎﻥ‬    ‫ﺗﺸﻜﻴﻼﺗﻰﺍﺵ ﺑﭽﻪﻫﺎ ﺭﺍ ﺍﺯ ﻣﻦ ﺑﮕﻴﺮﻧﺪ‪.‬‬        ‫ﺗﺎﺯﻩ ﻣﻰﻓﻬﻤﻢ ﻛﻪ ﺁﻥ ﻣﻮﻗﻊ ﺑﺎﻳﺪ ﺟﻠﻮﻳﺶ‬                                              ‫ﺩﺍﺭﻯ‪ ،‬ﺍﻣﺴﺎﻝ ﻣﻮﻓﻖ ﺷﺪﻯ ﭘﺎﻳﺎﻥﻧﺎﻣﻪ‬
‫ﮔﻔﺖ ﺗﻮ ﺩﺭ ﻗﺪﻡ ﺍﻭﻝ ﺯﻧﺪﮔﻰ ﺧﻮﺩﺕ‬            ‫ﺭﺍ ﺑﺎ ﻣﻦ ﻗﻄﻊ ﻛﺮﺩﻧﺪ‪ ،‬ﺣﺘﻰ ﻋﻤﻮﻫﺎ ﻭ‬         ‫ﻛﺎﺭ ﻣﻦ ﺷﺪﻩ ﺑﻮﺩ ﺑﭽﻪﺩﺍﺭﻯ ﻭ ﭘﺨﺖ ﻭ ﭘﺰ‬       ‫ﺭﺍ ﻣﻰﮔﺮﻓﺘﻢ ﻭ ﺧﻮﺩﻡ ﺣﺮﻓﻢ ﺭﺍ ﻣﻰﺯﺩﻡ‪.‬‬       ‫‪-‬ﭘﺪﺭﻡ ﺗﺮﺱ ﺩﺍﺷﺖ‪ .‬ﺍﻻﻥ ﻛﻪ ﺧﻮﺩﻡ ﺩﻭ‬          ‫ﺧﻮﺩﺕ ﺭﺍ ﺩﺭ ﺭﺷﺘﻪ ﻣﺪﺩﻛﺎﺭﻯ‬
‫ﺭﺍ ﻧﺠﺎﺕ ﺩﺍﺩﻯ‪ .‬ﺧﻮﺩﺕ ﺭﺍ ﺍﺯ ﻗﻴﺪ ﻭ‬          ‫ﺑﻘﻴﻪ ﺧﺎﻧﻮﺍﺩﻩ ﻫﻢ ﺭﺍﺑﻄﻪﺷﺎﻥ ﺭﺍ ﺑﺎ ﻣﻦ‬                                               ‫ﺑﺎ ﺗﻤﺎﻡ ﻣﺒﺎﺭﺯﻩﺍﻯ ﻛﻪ ﻣﻦ ﺑﺮﺍﻯ ﺁﺯﺍﺩ ﺑﻮﺩﻥ‬  ‫ﺗﺎ ﺑﭽﻪ ﺩﺍﺭﻡ ﺍﻭ ﺭﺍ ﻣﻰﻓﻬﻤﻢ‪ .‬ﺁﻥ ﺳﺎﺯﻣﺎﻥ‬     ‫ﺍﺟﺘﻤﺎﻋﻰ ﻭ ﺍﻣﻮﺭ ﺗﺮﺑﻴﺘﻰ ﺑﻨﻮﻳﺴﻰ‬
‫ﺑﻨﺪﻫﺎﺋﻰ ﻛﻪ ﻣﻦ ﺑﺮﺍﻳﺖ ﺩﺭﺳﺖ ﻛﺮﺩﻩ‬           ‫ﻗﻄﻊ ﻛﺮﺩﻧﺪ‪ .‬ﺩﺭ ﺁﻥ ﺷﺮﺍﻳﻂ ﺳﺨﺖ ﺗﻨﻬﺎ‬                             ‫ﻭ ﺧﺪﻣﺘﻜﺎﺭﻯ‪.‬‬         ‫ﺧﻮﺩﻡ ﻛﺮﺩﻩ ﺑﻮﺩﻡ‪ ،‬ﺍﻳﻦ ﺑﺎﺭ ﺑﺎﺯ ﺩﻭ ﻣﺮﺩ‬     ‫ﺩﺭ ﺁﻥ ﺯﻣﺎﻥ ﺩﻧﺒﺎﻝ ﺟﺬﺏ ﻧﻴﺮﻭ ﺑﻮﺩ ﺗﺎ‬        ‫ﻭ ﺗﺤﺼﻴﻞﺍﺕ ﺭﺍ ﺑﻪ ﭘﺎﻳﺎﻥ ﺑﺮﺳﺎﻧﻰ‪.‬‬
‫ﺑﻮﺩﻡ ﺭﻫﺎ ﻛﺮﺩﻯ ﻭ ﺯﻧﺪﮔﻰﺍﺕ ﺭﺍ ﺁﻥ‬           ‫ﺑﻮﺩﻡ ﻭ ﻛﺴﻰ ﺍﺯ ﻣﻦ ﺣﻤﺎﻳﺖ ﻧﻤﻰﻛﺮﺩ‪.‬‬                                                  ‫ﺑﻮﺩﻧﺪ ﻛﻪ ﺑﺮﺍﻯ ﻣﻦ ﺗﺼﻤﻴﻢ ﻣﻰﮔﺮﻓﺘﻨﺪ‪،‬‬       ‫ﺟﻮﺍﻧﺎﻥ ﺭﺍ ﺑﺮﺍﻯ ﻋﻤﻠﻴﺎﺕ ﭼﺮﻳﻜﻰ ﺑﻪ‬          ‫ﺳﻴﺰﺩﻩ ﺳﺎﻟﻪ ﺑﻮﺩﻯ ﻛﻪ ﺍﺯ ﺭﻭﺳﺘﺎﺋﻰ‬
‫ﻃﻮﺭ ﭘﻴﺶ ﺑﺮﺩﻯ ﻛﻪ ﻣﻰﺧﻮﺍﺳﺘﻰ‪ .‬ﺍﻳﻦ‬           ‫ﻫﻤﺴﺮﻡ ﺧﺎﻧﻪ ﺭﺍ ﺗﺮﻙ ﻛﺮﺩ ﻭ ﺗﻬﺪﻳﺪ ﻛﺮﺩ‬       ‫‪‬ﻭﺿﻌﻴﺖ ﭼﻄﻮﺭ ﺍﺩﺍﻣﻪ ﭘﻴﺪﺍ ﻛﺮﺩ؟‬             ‫ﭘﺪﺭﻡ ﻛﻪ ﺷﺮﻁ ﻭ ﺷﺮﻭﻁ ﺗﻌﻴﻴﻦ ﻣﻰﻛﺮﺩ‬         ‫ﺗﺮﻛﻴﻪ ﺑﻔﺮﺳﺘﺪ‪ .‬ﭘﺪﺭﻡ ﻣﻰﺗﺮﺳﻴﺪ ﻛﻪ ﺁﺧﺮ‬       ‫ﺩﺭ ﻏﺮﺏ ﺗﺮﻛﻴﻪ ﺑﻪ ﺁﻟﻤﺎﻥ ﺁﻣﺪﻯ‪.‬‬
                                        ‫ﻛﻪ ﺑﭽﻪﻫﺎ ﺭﺍ ﺧﻮﺍﻫﺪ ﮔﺮﻓﺖ ﻭ ﺧﻮﺍﻫﺪ‬          ‫‪-‬ﺍﺯ ﺍﻳﻨﺠﺎ ﺩﻳﮕﻪ ﺩﻋﻮﺍﻫﺎﻯ ﻣﻦ ﻭ‬             ‫ﻭ ﺩﻭﺳﺖ ﭘﺴﺮﻡ ﻛﻪ ﺑﻠﻪ ﺭﺍ ﮔﻔﺖ‪ .‬ﻭ ﻣﻦ ﺑﻪ‬     ‫ﻭ ﻋﺎﻗﺒﺖ ﻣﻦ ﺍﻳﻦ ﺑﺎﺷﺪ ﻭ ﺩﺳﺘﮕﻴﺮ ﺷﻮﻡ‪.‬‬
              ‫ﻳﻌﻨﻰ ﺍﻧﻘﻼﺑﻰ ﺑﻮﺩﻥ‪.‬‬         ‫ﺑﺮﺩ‪ .‬ﻫﺮ ﺭﻭﺯ ﺗﺮﺱ ﺩﺍﺷﺘﻢ ﻭ ﻣﻰﺗﺮﺳﻴﺪﻡ‬        ‫ﺷﻮﻫﺮﻡ ﺷﺮﻭﻉ ﺷﺪ‪ .‬ﻫﻔﺖ ﺳﺎﻝ ﺍﺯ ﺯﻧﺪﮔﻰ‬         ‫ﻃﻮﺭ ﺧﻴﻠﻰ ﻣﻨﻔﻌﻞ ﺩﻧﺒﺎﻟﻪﺭﻭ ﻭﺿﻌﻴﺘﻰ‬         ‫ﺑﻪ ﻫﻤﻴﻦ ﺧﺎﻃﺮ ﭘﺪﺭﻡ ﻣﻰﺗﺮﺳﻴﺪ ﻛﻪ ﺍﺯ‬             ‫ﭼﻄﻮﺭ ﺷﺪ ﻛﻪ ﺑﻪ ﺁﻟﻤﺎﻥ ﺁﻣﺪﻯ؟‬
                                        ‫ﻛﻪ ﺍﻭ ﻳﻚ ﻃﻮﺭﻯ ﺳﺮ ﺭﺍﻩ ﺑﭽﻪﻫﺎ ﺳﺒﺰ‬          ‫ﻣﺸﺘﺮﻙ ﻣﺎ ﻣﻰﮔﺬﺷﺖ ﻭ ﻣﺎ ﺻﺎﺣﺐ ﺩﻭ‬                                                   ‫ﻃﺮﻑ ﺍﻳﻦ ﺳﺎﺯﻣﺎﻥ ﺑﻪ ﺗﺮﻛﻴﻪ ﻓﺮﺳﺘﺎﺩﻩ‬
‫‪‬ﺗﺎ ﻛﺠﺎ ﺯﻧﺪﮔﻰ ﺩﺭ ﺁﻟﻤﺎﻥ ﺩﺭ‬               ‫ﺷﻮﺩ ﻭ ﺑﭽﻪﻫﺎ ﺭﺍ ﺑﺪﺯﺩﺩ‪ .‬ﺩﺭ ﺗﺮﺱ ﺩﺍﺋﻢ‬       ‫ﺑﭽﻪ ﺑﻮﺩﻳﻢ‪ .‬ﺩﺭ ﺍﻳﻦ ﻣﺪﺕ ﺗﻨﻬﺎ ﭼﻴﺰﻯ‬                 ‫ﺷﺪﻡ ﻛﻪ ﺁﻧﻬﺎ ﺑﺮﺍﻳﻢ ﺭﻗﻢ ﺯﺩﻧﺪ‪.‬‬    ‫ﺷﺪﻩ ﻭ ﺩﺭ ﺁﻧﺠﺎ ﺗﻮﺳﻂ ﺭژﻳﻢ ﺩﺳﺘﮕﻴﺮ‬          ‫‪-‬ﺍﺯ ﻃﺮﻳﻖ ﻗﺎﻧﻮﻥ ﭘﻴﻮﺳﺘﻦ ﺍﻋﻀﺎﻯ‬
 ‫”ﺍﻳﻦ ﮔﻮﻧﻪ ﺷﺪﻥ“ ﺗﻮ ﻧﻘﺶ ﺩﺍﺷﺘﻪ؟‬           ‫ﺯﻧﺪﮔﻰ ﻣﻰﻛﺮﺩﻡ ﻭ ﺑﻪ ﻫﻤﻴﻦ ﺧﺎﻃﺮ‬             ‫ﻛﻪ ﺑﻪ ﻣﻦ ﻛﻤﻚ ﻣﻰﻛﺮﺩ ﻣﻄﺎﻟﻌﻪ‬                                                      ‫ﺷﺪﻩ ﻭ ﺑﻪ ﺯﻧﺪﺍﻥ ﻓﺮﺳﺘﺎﺩﻩ ﺷﻮﻡ‪ .‬ﺍﺯ ﻃﺮﻑ‬      ‫ﺧﺎﻧﻮﺍﺩﻩ‪ .‬ﺩﺭ ﺗﺮﻛﻴﻪ ﻭﻗﺘﻰ ‪ 9‬ﺳﺎﻟﻪ ﺑﻮﺩﻡ‪،‬‬
                                        ‫ﻳﻪ ﻣﺮﺗﺒﻪ ﺗﺼﻤﻴﻢ ﮔﺮﻓﺘﻢ ﺍﺯ ﺩﻭﺭﺗﻤﻮﻧﺪ‬        ‫ﺑﻮﺩ‪ .‬ﺍﻧﻮﺍﻉ ﻛﺘﺎﺏﻫﺎﻯ ﺭﻣﺎﻥ ﺳﻴﺎﺳﻰ ﻭ‬         ‫‪‬ﺍﻳﻦ ﺭﺍ ﺁﻥ ﻣﻮﻗﻊ ﻫﻢ ﺍﻳﻦ ﻃﻮﺭ‬             ‫ﺩﻳﮕﺮ ﻣﻰﺗﺮﺳﻴﺪ ﻛﻪ ﺩﺭ ﺩﺭﮔﻴﺮﻯﻫﺎ ﻭ‬           ‫ﭘﺪﺭﻡ ﺑﻪ ﺁﻟﻤﺎﻥ ﺁﻣﺪ‪ .‬ﺍﻳﻨﺠﺎ ﻛﺎﺭ ﻣﻰﻛﺮﺩ ﻭ‬
‫‪-‬ﺑﻪ ﻋﻨﻮﺍﻥ ﻳﻚ ﺯﻥ ﺟﻮﺍﻥ ﺗﻨﻬﺎ ﺑﺎ‬            ‫ﺍﺳﺒﺎﺏﻛﺸﻰ ﻛﻨﻢ ﻭ ﺑﻪ ﻳﻚ ﺷﻬﺮﻯ ﺑﺮﻭﻡ‬          ‫ﺍﺟﺘﻤﺎﻋﻰ‪ .‬ﺩﻭﺑﺎﺭﻩ ﺑﻪ ﺧﻮﺩﻡ ﺑﺮﮔﺸﺘﻢ ﻭ‬                             ‫ﻣﻰﻓﻬﻤﻴﺪﻯ؟‬         ‫ﺍﺧﺘﻼﻓﺎﺕ ﺩﺭﻭﻥ ﺗﺸﻜﻴﻼﺗﻰ ﺍﻳﻦ ﺳﺎﺯﻣﺎﻥ‬         ‫ﺑﻌﺪﺍ ﻣﻮﻓﻖ ﺷﺪ ﻛﻪ ﺍﻗﺎﻣﺖ ﺑﮕﻴﺮﺩ‪ .‬ﭼﻬﺎﺭ‬
‫ﺩﻭ ﺑﭽﻪ ﻛﻪ ﺍﺯ ﺷﻮﻫﺮﺵ ﺟﺪﺍ ﺷﺪﻩ‪،‬‬             ‫ﻛﻪ ﻫﻴﭻ ﻛﺲ ﻣﺮﺍ ﻧﻤﻰﺷﻨﺎﺳﺪ ﺗﺎ ﺍﺻﻼ‬           ‫ﺩﻳﮕﻪ ﻧﻤﻰﺧﻮﺍﺳﺘﻢ ﺑﻪ ﺍﻳﻦ ﺷﺮﺍﻳﻂ ﺗﻦ‬                                                 ‫ﻛﻪ ﺣﺎﺻﻞ ﺁﻥ ﻛﺸﺘﻪ ﺷﺪﻥ ﺗﻌﺪﺍﺩﻯ‪،‬‬             ‫ﺳﺎﻝ ﺍﻳﻨﺠﺎ ﺑﻮﺩ‪ ،‬ﻭﻗﺘﻰ ﻳﺎﺯﺩﻩ ﺳﺎﻟﻪ ﺑﻮﺩﻡ‪،‬‬
‫ﺑﺨﺼﻮﺹ ﺁﻥ ﺩﻭ ﺳﺎﻟﻰ ﻛﻪ ﻛﺎﻣﻼ ﺗﻨﻬﺎ‬           ‫ﻛﺴﻰ ﻣﺮﺍ ﭘﻴﺪﺍ ﻧﻜﻨﺪ ﻭ ﻫﻤﺴﺮﻡ ﺑﭽﻪﻫﺎ ﺭﺍ‬      ‫ﺑﺪﻫﻢ‪ .‬ﻳﻚ ﺭﻭﺯ ﺑﻪ ﺷﻮﻫﺮﻡ ﮔﻔﺘﻢ ﺗﺼﻤﻴﻢ‬        ‫‪-‬ﻧﻪ‪ ،‬ﺁﻥ ﻣﻮﻗﻊ ﺍﻳﻦ ﻃﻮﺭ ﻧﻤﻰﻓﻬﻤﻴﺪﻡ‪.‬‬                                                ‫ﻣﻰﺧﻮﺍﺳﺖ ﻛﻪ ﻣﺎ ﻫﻢ ﺑﻪ ﺁﻟﻤﺎﻥ ﺑﻴﺎﺋﻴﻢ‪.‬‬
‫ﻭ ﺑﺪﻭﻥ ﺍﺭﺗﺒﺎﻁ ﺑﺎ ﺧﺎﻧﻮﺍﺩﻩﺍﻡ ﺯﻧﺪﮔﻰ‬        ‫ﻧﺪﺯﺩﺩ‪ .‬ﺗﺼﻤﻴﻤﻢ ﺭﺍ ﮔﺮﻓﺘﻢ‪ .‬ﻇﺮﻑ ﭼﻨﺪ‬         ‫ﮔﺮﻓﺘﻢ ﻛﻪ ﺩﺭﺳﻢ ﺭﺍ ﺍﺩﺍﻣﻪ ﺑﺪﻫﻢ‪ .‬ﺍﺯ ﺍﻭ‬      ‫ﺁﻥ ﻣﻮﻗﻊ ﺗﻘﺮﻳﺒﺎ ‪ 17‬ﺳﺎﻟﻪ ﺑﻮﺩﻡ‪ .‬ﻓﻜﺮ‬            ‫ﺣﺘﻰ ﺩﺭ ﺁﻟﻤﺎﻥ ﺑﻮﺩ‪ ،‬ﻛﺸﺘﻪ ﺷﻮﻡ‪.‬‬        ‫ﻭ ﺑﺎﻻﺧﺮﻩ ﭼﻨﺪ ﺳﺎﻝ ﺑﻌﺪ ﺁﻣﺪﻳﻢ‪ .‬ﺍﮔﺮﭼﻪ‬
‫ﻛﺮﺩﻡ‪ ،‬ﻣﻬﻢﺗﺮﻳﻦ ﻣﺴﺌﻠﻪ ﺍﻳﻦ ﺑﻮﺩ ﻛﻪ‬          ‫ﺭﻭﺯ ﻣﻘﺪﻣﺎﺕ ﺟﺎﺑﺠﺎﺋﻰﺍﻡ ﺭﺍ ﺟﻮﺭ ﻛﺮﺩﻡ‪،‬‬       ‫ﻧﻈﺮ ﻧﺨﻮﺍﺳﺘﻢ‪ ،‬ﺑﻠﻜﻪ ﺑﻬﺶ ﺍﻃﻼﻉ ﺩﺍﺩﻡ‬         ‫ﻣﻰﻛﺮﺩﻡ ﻳﻚ ﺯﻥ ﺁﺯﺍﺩﻡ ﻭ ﻣﻰﺧﻮﺍﺳﺘﻢ‬
‫ﻣﻰﺩﺍﻧﺴﺘﻢ ﺍﮔﺮ ﭼﻪ ﺗﻨﻬﺎ ﻫﺴﺘﻢ‪ ،‬ﺍﻣﺎ‬          ‫ﻳﻚ ﻣﺎﺷﻴﻦ ﻧﻴﻤﻪ ﺳﻨﮕﻴﻦ ﻛﺮﺍﻳﻪ ﻛﺮﺩﻡ ﻭ‬        ‫ﻛﻪ ﭼﻪ ﺗﺼﻤﻴﻤﻰ ﮔﺮﻓﺘﻪﺍﻡ‪ .‬ﺍﻭﻝ ﺟﺪﻯ‬           ‫ﺩﺭ ﺯﻧﺪﮔﻰ ﺧﻮﺩﻡ ﺑﺮﺍﻯ ﺧﻮﺩﻡ ﺗﺼﻤﻴﻢ‬          ‫‪‬ﻭﺍﻛﻨﺶ ﺗﻮ ﺩﺭ ﻣﻘﺎﺑﻞ ﭘﺪﺭﺕ ﭼﻪ‬                            ‫ﺧﻮﺩﻡ ﻧﻤﻰﺧﻮﺍﺳﺘﻢ‪.‬‬
‫ﭘﺸﺘﻴﺒﺎﻧﻰ ﺩﻭﻟﺖ ﻭﺟﻮﺩ ﺩﺍﺭﺩ‪ .‬ﻣﻦ ﺩﺭﺱ‬         ‫ﺧﻮﺩﻡ ﻫﻤﻪ ﻭﺳﺎﻳﻠﻢ ﺭﺍ ﺑﺎﺭ ﺯﺩﻡ ﻭ ﺭﺍﻧﻨﺪﮔﻰ‬    ‫ﻧﮕﺮﻓﺖ‪ ،‬ﺑﻌﺪ ﮔﻔﺖ ﻧﻪ‪ .‬ﻣﻦ ﻣﻰﮔﻔﺘﻢ‬            ‫ﺑﮕﻴﺮﻡ‪ .‬ﻫﻤﻴﻦ ﻃﻮﺭﻯ ﺁﺭﻩ ﮔﻔﺘﻢ‪ .‬ﻫﻴﭻ‬                                      ‫ﺑﻮﺩ؟‬
‫ﻣﻰﺧﻮﺍﻧﺪﻡ ﻭ ﻛﻤﻚ ﻫﺰﻳﻨﻪ ﺗﺤﺼﻴﻠﻰ‬             ‫ﻛﺮﺩﻡ ﻭ ﺑﺎ ﺩﻭ ﺑﭽﻪ ﻫﺸﺖ ﻭ ﭘﻨﺞ ﺳﺎﻟﻪ‬                                                 ‫ﻛﺲ ﺍﺯ ﻣﻦ ﺳﻮﺍﻝ ﻧﻜﺮﺩ‪ .‬ﻧﻈﺮ ﻣﻦ ﻣﻬﻢ‬                                                 ‫‪‬ﺗﻮ ﺍﻻﻥ ﺗﺎﺑﻌﻴﺖ ﺁﻟﻤﺎﻧﻰ ﺩﺍﺭﻯ‪،‬‬
‫ﻣﻰﮔﺮﻓﺘﻢ ﻭ ﺑﭽﻪﻫﺎﻳﻢ ﻫﻢ ﻣﻰﺗﻮﺍﻧﺴﺘﻨﺪ‬         ‫‪ 400‬ﻛﻴﻠﻮﻣﺘﺮ ﺩﻭﺭﺗﺮ ﺑﻪ ﺍﻳﺎﻟﺖ ﺩﻳﮕﺮ ﻭ‬        ‫ﺁﺭﻩ‪ ،‬ﺍﻭ ﻣﻰﮔﻔﺖ ﻧﻪ‪ ،‬ﻣﻦ ﺁﺭﻩ‪ ،‬ﺍﻭ ﻧﻪ‬        ‫ﻧﺒﻮﺩ‪ .‬ﭘﺪﺭﻡ ﻭ ﺩﻭﺳﺘﻢ ﺗﺼﻤﻴﻢ ﮔﺮﻓﺘﻨﺪ‪.‬‬       ‫‪-‬ﺑﻪ ﺗﺸﻜﻴﻼﺗﻢ ﮔﻔﺘﻢ ﻛﻪ ﺩﻳﮕﺮ‬                ‫ﺗﺎ ﻛﺠﺎ ﺧﻮﺩﺕ ﺭﺍ ﺗُﺮﻙ ﻳﺎ ﺁﻟﻤﺎﻧﻰ‬
‫ﺑﻪ ﻣﺪﺭﺳﻪ ﻭ ﻛﻮﺩﻛﺴﺘﺎﻥ ﺑﺮﻭﻧﺪ‪ .‬ﺍﮔﺮ‬          ‫ﺷﻬﺮ ﻛﻮﭼﻜﻰ ﻭﺍﺭﺩ ﺷﺪﻡ ﻛﻪ ﻛﺴﻰ ﻣﺮﺍ‬           ‫ﺑﺎﻻﺧﺮﻩ ﺑﻬﺶ ﮔﻔﺘﻢ ﺍﮔﻪ ﻣﻮﺍﻓﻖ ﻧﻴﺴﺘﻰ‬         ‫ﺩﺭ ﺁﻥ ﺷﺮﺍﻳﻂ ﻣﺎﺕ ﻭ ﻣﺒﻬﻮﺕ ﺑﻮﺩﻡ ﻭ‬         ‫ﻧﻤﻰﺧﻮﺍﻫﻢ ﭘﻴﺶ ﭘﺪﺭﻡ ﺑﻤﺎﻧﻢ ﻭ‬
‫ﻛﻤﻚ ﺩﻭﻟﺘﻰ ﺩﺭ ﻛﺎﺭ ﻧﺒﻮﺩ‪ ،‬ﻣﻦ ﺑﺎﻳﺪ ﺑﻪ‬       ‫ﻧﻤﻰﺷﻨﺎﺧﺖ‪.‬ﺩﻭ ﺳﺎﻝ ﺩﺭ ﺁﻥ ﺷﻬﺮ ﻣﺎﻧﺪﻡ‪.‬‬        ‫ﺩﺭ ﺧﺮﻭﺟﻰ ﺁﻧﺠﺎﺳﺖ‪ ،‬ﺑﻔﺮﻣﺎﺋﻴﺪ! ﻭ ﺑﻬﺶ‬        ‫ﻧﻤﻰﺩﺍﻧﺴﺘﻢ ﻛﻪ ﭼﻪ ﻛﺎﺭ ﺑﺎﻳﺪ ﺑﻜﻨﻢ‪ .‬ﻛﻤﻰ‬     ‫ﺗﺼﻤﻴﻢ ﮔﺮﻓﺘﻪﺍﻡ ﻛﻪ ﺑﺎ ﺗﻤﺎﻡ ﻭﺟﻮﺩ ﺑﺮﺍﻯ‬                              ‫ﻣﻴﺪﺍﻧﻰ؟‬
‫ﺧﺎﻃﺮ ﮔﺬﺭﺍﻧﺪﻥ ﺯﻧﺪﮔﻰ ﺭﻭﺯﻣﺮﻩ ﻭ ﺳﻴﺮ‬         ‫ﺍﻳﻦ ﺩﻭ ﺳﺎﻝ ﺁﻥ ﻗﺪﺭ ﺷﺮﺍﻳﻂ ﺳﺨﺘﻰ‬            ‫ﮔﻔﺘﻢ ﺧﻴﺎﻟﺖ ﺭﻭ ﺭﺍﺣﺖ ﻛﻨﻢ ﺍﺯ ﻣﻦ ﺩﻭ‬         ‫ﺑﻌﺪ ﺑﺎ ﺩﻭﺳﺖ ﭘﺴﺮﻡ ﺍﺯﺩﻭﺍﺝ ﻛﺮﺩﻳﻢ ﻭ‬        ‫ﺗﺸﻜﻴﻼﺕ ﻓﻌﺎﻟﻴﺖ ﻛﻨﻢ‪ .‬ﺳﻪ ﺭﻭﺯ ﻧﺰﺩ‬           ‫‪-‬ﻭﺍﺿﺢ ﺍﺳﺖ ﻣﻦ ﻳﻚ ﺗُﺮﻛﻢ‪ .‬ﺑﺎ ﺩﻭ‬
‫ﻛﺮﺩﻥ ﺑﭽﻪﻫﺎﻳﻢ ﻣﻰﺭﻓﺘﻢ ﻛﺎﺭ ﻣﻰﻛﺮﺩﻡ‪.‬‬         ‫ﺭﺍ ﭘﺸﺖ ﺳﺮ ﮔﺬﺍﺷﺘﻢ ﻛﻪ ﺩﻳﮕﻪ ﺣﺘﻰ‬            ‫ﺗﺎ ﺑﭽﻪ ﺑﻴﺸﺘﺮ ﮔﻴﺮﺕ ﻧﻤﻰﺁﻳﺪ‪ .‬ﻣﻦ ﺯﻥ‬         ‫ﻳﻚ ﺳﺎﻝ ﺑﻌﺪ ﺯﻣﺎﻧﻰ ﻛﻪ ‪ 18‬ﺳﺎﻝ ﻭ ﻧﻴﻢ‬       ‫ﻳﻜﻰ ﺍﺯ ﺍﻋﻀﺎﻯ ﺗﺸﻜﻴﻼﺕﻣﺎﻥ ﺑﻮﺩﻡ‪.‬‬            ‫ﻓﺮﻫﻨﮓ ﻣﺘﻔﺎﻭﺕ ﺑﺰﺭگ ﺷﺪﻩﺍﻡ‪ .‬ﺩﺭ‬
‫ﺷﺎﻳﺪ ﺑﺎﻳﺪ ﻣﻰﺭﻓﺘﻢ ﻧﻈﺎﻓﺘﭽﻰ ﻣﻰ ﺷﺪﻡ‬         ‫ﻧﻤﻰﺧﻮﺍﻫﻢ ﻫﻴﭻ ﻭﻗﺖ ﺍﺯ ﻛﻨﺎﺭ ﺁﻥ ﺷﻬﺮ‬         ‫ﺧﺎﻧﻪﺩﺍﺭ ﻧﻴﺴﺘﻢ ﻭ ﺗﺼﻤﻴﻢ ﺩﺍﺭﻡ ﻛﻪ ﺩﺭﺳﻢ‬      ‫ﺑﻴﺸﺘﺮ ﻧﺪﺍﺷﺘﻢ ﺍﻭﻟﻴﻦ ﺑﭽﻪﺍﻡ ﺑﻪ ﺩﻧﻴﺎ ﺁﻣﺪ‪.‬‬  ‫ﺑﻌﺪﺍ ﭘﺪﺭﻡ ﻗﻮﻝ ﺩﺍﺩ ﻛﻪ ﺑﺎ ﻓﻌﺎﻟﻴﺖﻫﺎﻯ‬       ‫ﺑﺴﻴﺎﺭﻯ ﻣﻮﺍﺭﺩ ﺍﺭﻭﭘﺎﺋﻰﺍﻡ‪ .‬ﻋﻤﺪﻯ ﻧﺪﺍﺭﻡ‬
‫ﺗﺎ ﺑﺘﻮﺍﻧﻢ ﺷﻜﻢ ﺑﭽﻪﻫﺎﻳﻢ ﺭﺍ ﺳﻴﺮ ﻛﻨﻢ‪.‬‬       ‫ﺭﺩ ﺑﺸﻮﻡ‪ .‬ﻛﻠﻰ ﺧﺎﻃﺮﻩ ﺳﺨﺖ ﻭ ﻏﻢﺍﻧﮕﻴﺰ‪.‬‬       ‫ﺭﻭ ﺍﺩﺍﻣﻪ ﺑﺪﻡ‪ .‬ﺩﻟﻢ ﻣﻰﺧﻮﺍﻫﺪ ﻛﻪ ﺑﺎ ﻫﻢ‬                                             ‫ﻣﻦ ﺩﻳﮕﺮ ﻣﺨﺎﻟﻔﺖ ﻧﻜﻨﺪ ﻭ ﻣﻦ ﺑﻪ ﺧﺎﻧﻪ‬        ‫ﺑﮕﻮﻳﻢ ﺁﻟﻤﺎﻧﻰ‪ .‬ﺩﺭ ﺑﺴﻴﺎﺭﻯ ﺍﺯ ﺟﻨﺒﻪﻫﺎ‬
‫ﻛﻤﻚﻫﺎﻯ ﺩﻭﻟﺘﻰ ﻭ ﺣﻤﺎﻳﺖ ﻗﺎﻧﻮﻧﻰ‬             ‫ﻣﻰﺧﻮﺍﺳﺘﻢ ﺭﻭﻯ ﭘﺎﻯ ﺧﻮﺩﻡ ﺑﺎﻳﺴﺘﻢ‪.‬‬           ‫ﺑﺎﺷﻴﻢ ﻭ ﺑﺎ ﻫﻢ ﺯﻧﺪﮔﻰ ﻛﻨﻴﻢ ﻭﻟﻰ ﻓﻘﻂ‬        ‫‪‬ﻳﻌﻨﻰ ﺩﺭ ﺣﺎﻟﻰ ﻛﻪ ﻫﻨﻮﺯ ﻣﺪﺭﺳﻪ‬            ‫ﺑﺮﮔﺸﺘﻢ‪ .‬ﺑﻌﺪ ﺍﺯ ﺁﻥ ﭘﺪﺭﻡ ﺗﺼﻤﻴﻢ ﮔﺮﻓﺖ‬       ‫ﺑﺎ ﻓﺮﻫﻨﮓ ﺍﺭﻭﭘﺎﺋﻰ ﺯﻧﺪﮔﻰ ﻣﻰﻛﻨﻢ ﻭ‬
‫ﺍﺯ ﻧﻈﺮ ﻣﻦ ﻣﻬﻢﺗﺮﻳﻦ ﻧﻜﺎﺕ ﺑﻮﺩﻧﺪ‪ .‬ﺍﺯ‬        ‫ﻧﻤﻰﺧﻮﺍﺳﺘﻢ ﺑﻪ ﻛﺴﻰ ﻭﺍﺑﺴﺘﻪ ﺑﺎﺷﻢ‪.‬‬           ‫ﺑﻪ ﺧﺎﻃﺮ ﺑﭽﻪﻫﺎ‪ .‬ﮔﻔﺖ‪ :‬ﺍﮔﻪ ﺑﺮﻯ ﻣﺪﺭﺳﻪ‬       ‫ﺗﻤﺎﻡ ﻧﺸﺪﻩ ﺑﻮﺩ ﺍﺯﺩﻭﺍﺝ ﻛﺮﺩﻯ ﻭ ﺩﺭ ﺁﻥ‬      ‫ﻛﻪ ﺍﺯ ﺷﻬﺮ ﻫﺎﻣﺒﻮﺭگ ﻛﻪ ﺁﻥ ﻣﻮﻗﻊ ﺁﻧﺠﺎ‬       ‫ﺩﺭ ﺁﻥ ﺧﻮﺩ ﺭﺍ ﺭﺍﺣﺖﺗﺮ ﻫﻢ ﻣﻰﺑﻴﻨﻢ‪.‬‬
‫ﺁﻥ ﻃﺮﻑ ﻣﻦ ﺍﺯ ﺟﺎﻣﻌﻪ ﺗﺮﻙﻫﺎ ﻓﺎﺻﻠﻪ‬          ‫ﻧﻪ ﺑﻪ ﺷﻮﻫﺮ‪ ،‬ﻧﻪ ﺑﻪ ﭘﺪﺭ ﻭ ﻣﺎﺩﺭ ﻭ ﻧﻪ ﺑﻪ‬    ‫ﻛﻰ ﺑﭽﻪﻫﺎ ﺭﻭ ﻧﮕﻪ ﺩﺍﺭﻩ؟ ﮔﻔﺘﻢ ﺍﺯ ﭘﺪﺭ‬       ‫ﺷﺮﺍﻳﻂ ﺻﺎﺣﺐ ﺑﭽﻪ ﺷﺪﻯ‪ .‬ﺯﻧﺪﮔﻰ‬              ‫ﺯﻧﺪﮔﻰ ﻣﻰﻛﺮﺩﻳﻢ ﻭ ﺁﻥ ﺳﺎﺯﻣﺎﻥ ﺩﺭ‬            ‫ﻣﺜﻼ ﻗﺒﻞ ﺍﺯ ﺁﻧﻜﻪ ﺍﺯﺩﻭﺍﺝ ﻛﻨﻢ‪ ،‬ﺑﺎ ﭘﺴﺮﻯ‬
‫ﮔﺮﻓﺘﻪ ﺑﻮﺩﻡ‪ ،‬ﺁﻧﻬﺎ ﺑﻪ ﻳﻚ ﺯﻥ ﺍﺯ ﺷﻮﻫﺮ‬       ‫ﺩﻭﻟﺖ ﻳﺎ ﻫﺮ ﺟﺎﻯ ﺩﻳﮕﺮ‪ .‬ﺗﺼﻤﻴﻢ ﮔﺮﻓﺘﻢ‬        ‫ﻭ ﻣﺎﺩﺭﻡ ﻛﻤﻚ ﻣﻰﮔﻴﺮﻡ‪ .‬ﺑﺎ ﭘﺪﺭ ﻭ ﻣﺎﺩﺭﻡ‬                                             ‫ﺁﻧﺠﺎ ﺧﻴﻠﻰ ﻓﻌﺎﻝ ﺑﻮﺩ‪ ،‬ﺟﺎﺑﺠﺎ ﺷﺪﻩ ﻭ ﺑﻪ‬      ‫ﺩﻭﺳﺖ ﺑﻮﺩﻡ‪ .‬ﻗﺒﻞ ﺍﺯ ﺁﻧﻜﻪ ﺍﺯﺩﻭﺍﺝ‬
‫ﺟﺎ ﺷﺪﻩ ﻳﺎ ﻳﻚ ﺯﻥ ﻃﻼﻕ ﮔﺮﻓﺘﻪ ﺑﻪ‬            ‫ﺩﻳﭙﻠﻢ ﺑﮕﻴﺮﻡ ﻭ ﺑﻪ ﺩﺍﻧﺸﮕﺎﻩ ﺑﺮﻭﻡ‪ .‬ﺩﻭ ﺳﺎﻝ‬   ‫ﺗﻤﺎﺱ ﮔﺮﻓﺘﻢ‪ .‬ﺧﻴﻠﻰ ﺧﻮﺷﺤﺎﻝ ﺷﺪﻧﺪ‬                  ‫ﻣﺸﺘﺮﻛﺘﺎﻥ ﭼﻄﻮﺭ ﭘﻴﺶ ﺭﻓﺖ؟‬           ‫ﺩﻭﺭﺗﻤﻮﻧﺪ ﺑﺮﻭﻳﻢ‪ .‬ﻫﻤﻪ ﺍﻳﻦ ﺗﺼﻤﻴﻢﻫﺎ‬         ‫ﻛﻨﻴﻢ ﻣﺪﺗﻰ ﺑﺎ ﻫﻢ ﺑﻮﺩﻳﻢ‪ .‬ﺍﮔﺮ ﺩﺭ ﻳﻚ‬
‫ﭼﺸﻢ ﺧﻮﺑﻰ ﻧﮕﺎﻩ ﻧﻤﻰﻛﻨﻨﺪ‪ .‬ﺑﺎ ﻭﺟﻮﺩﻯ‬         ‫ﮔﺬﺷﺖ ﻭ ﺩﻳﭙﻠﻢﺍﻡ ﺭﺍ ﮔﺮﻓﺘﻢ‪ .‬ﺩﺭ ﺍﻳﻦ ﺩﻭ‬      ‫ﻛﻪ ﻣﻰﺧﻮﺍﻫﻢ ﺩﺭﺳﻢ ﺭﺍ ﺍﺩﺍﻣﻪ ﺩﻫﻢ ﻭ‬          ‫‪-‬ﻣﻰﺧﻮﺍﺳﺘﻢ ﺑﺎ ﻭﺟﻮﺩﻯ ﻛﻪ ﺍﺯﺩﻭﺍﺝ‬           ‫ﺧﻴﻠﻰ ﺳﺮﻳﻊ ﺍﻧﺠﺎﻡ ﺷﺪ ﻭ ﺩﺭ ﻋﺮﺽ ﭼﻨﺪ‬         ‫ﺟﺎﻣﻌﻪ ﺗﻤﺎﻣﺎ ﺗﺮﻙ ﺯﻧﺪﮔﻰ ﻣﻰﻛﺮﺩﻡ‬
‫ﻛﻪ ﺣﺮﻓﻰ ﻧﻤﻰﺯﻧﻨﺪ ﻭ ﻛﻼﻣﻰ ﺑﻪ ﻟﺐ‬            ‫ﺳﺎﻝ ﻓﻘﻂ ﺑﺎ ﻣﺎﺩﺭﻡ ﺗﻤﺎﺱ ﺗﻠﻔﻨﻰ ﺩﺍﺷﺘﻢ‪.‬‬      ‫ﮔﻔﺘﻨﺪ ﻛﻪ ﺭﻭﻯ ﺁﻧﻬﺎ ﻣﻰﺗﻮﺍﻧﻢ ﺣﺴﺎﺏ‬          ‫ﻛﺮﺩﻩﺍﻡ ﻭ ﺻﺎﺣﺐ ﺑﭽﻪ ﺷﺪﻩﺍﻡ ﺩﺭﺳﻢ ﺭﺍ‬        ‫ﻫﻔﺘﻪ ﻣﺎ ﺟﺎﺑﺠﺎ ﺷﺪﻳﻢ‪ .‬ﺍﻳﻨﻄﻮﺭﻯ ﭘﺪﺭﻡ‬        ‫ﻧﻤﻰﺗﻮﺍﻧﺴﺘﻢ ﺍﻳﻦ ﻃﻮﺭ ﺯﻧﺪﮔﻰ ﻛﻨﻢ‪.‬‬
‫ﻧﻤﻰﺁﻭﺭﻧﺪ‪ ،‬ﺍﻣﺎ ﺑﺎ ﺭﻓﺘﺎﺭ ﻭ ﻧﮕﺎﻩ ﺧﻮﺩ ﺧﻴﻠﻰ‬  ‫ﭘﺪﺭﻡ ﻧﻤﻰﺧﻮﺍﺳﺖ ﺑﺎ ﻣﻦ ﺣﺮﻑ ﺑﺰﻧﺪ‪ .‬ﺑﻌﺪ‬                                               ‫ﺍﺩﺍﻣﻪ ﺩﻫﻢ‪ ،‬ﻭﻟﻰ ﻫﻤﺴﺮﻡ ﻛﺎﻣﻼ ﻋﻮﺽ‬          ‫ﻣﻰﺧﻮﺍﺳﺖ ﺭﺍﺑﻄﻪ ﻣﺮﺍ ﺑﺎ ﺁﻥ ﺗﺸﻜﻴﻼﺕ‬          ‫ﺍﺯ ﻃﺮﻑ ﺩﻳﮕﺮ ﺩﺭ ﺑﺮﺧﻰ ﺟﻨﺒﻪﻫﺎ‪،‬‬
‫ﺣﺮﻑﻫﺎ ﻣﻰﺯﻧﻨﺪ‪ .‬ﻧﻤﻰﺗﻮﺍﻧﻢ ﺗﺼﻮﺭ ﻛﻨﻢ‬         ‫ﺍﺯ ﺩﻭ ﺳﺎﻝ‪ ،‬ﻫﻤﺴﺮﻡ ﻳﻚ ﻃﻮﺭﻯ ﺗﻠﻔﻦ‬                                       ‫ﻛﻨﻢ‪.‬‬        ‫ﺷﺪﻩ ﺑﻮﺩ‪ .‬ﺁﻥ ﻣﻮﻗﻊ ﺑﺮﺍﺩﺭ ﺑﺰﺭگ ﻫﻤﺴﺮﻡ‬                                              ‫ﺑﺨﺼﻮﺹ ﻣﺴﺎﺋﻞ ﺧﺎﻧﻮﺩﺍﮔﻰ‪ ،‬ﻓﺮﻫﻨﮓ‬
‫ﻛﻪ ﺍﮔﺮ ﺩﺭ ﺗﺮﻛﻴﻪ ﺑﻮﺩﻡ ﻭ ﻫﻤﻴﻦ ﻣﺸﻜﻞ‬        ‫ﻣﺮﺍ ﭘﻴﺪﺍ ﻛﺮﺩ ﻭ ﺑﺎ ﻣﻦ ﺗﻤﺎﺱ ﮔﺮﻓﺖ‪.‬‬         ‫ﺑﻌﺪ ﺍﺯ ﺁﻥ ﺑﻪ ﻣﺪﺭﺳﻪ ﺭﻓﺘﻢ ﻭ ﺩﻭﺭﻩ‬          ‫ﻛﻪ ﺧﻮﺩﺵ ﻣﺠﺮﺩ ﺑﻮﺩ ﺑﺎ ﻣﺎ ﻭ ﺩﺭ ﺧﺎﻧﻪ ﻣﺎ‬                            ‫ﻗﻄﻊ ﻛﻨﺪ‪.‬‬
‫ﺭﺍ ﺩﺭ ﺁﻧﺠﺎ ﭘﻴﺪﺍ ﻣﻰﻛﺮﺩﻡ‪ ،‬ﻣﻰﺗﻮﺍﻧﺴﺘﻢ‬       ‫ﺧﻴﻠﻰ ﺧﻮﺍﻫﺶ ﻛﺮﺩ ﻛﻪ ﺍﺟﺎﺯﻩ ﺑﺪﻫﻢ‬            ‫ﻣﺘﻮﺳﻄﻪ ﺗﺎ ﻛﻼﺱ ﺩﻫﻢ ﺭﺍ ﺗﻤﺎﻡ ﻛﺮﺩﻡ ﻭ‬        ‫ﺯﻧﺪﮔﻰ ﻣﻰﻛﺮﺩ‪ .‬ﻭﻗﺘﻰ ﺑﻪ ﻫﻤﺴﺮﻡ ﮔﻔﺘﻢ‬        ‫ﭼﻨﺪ ﻭﻗﺖ ﺑﻌﺪ ﻫﻢ ﺩﺭ ﻳﻚ ﻣﻬﻤﺎﻧﻰ‬              ‫ﻭ ﺳﻨﺖﻫﺎﻯ ﺗﺮﻛﻰ ﺭﺍ ﺣﻤﻞ ﻣﻰﻛﻨﻢ‪.‬‬
                                        ‫ﺑﭽﻪﻫﺎ ﺭﺍ ﺑﺒﻴﻨﺪ ﻭ ﮔﻔﺖ ﻗﻮﻝ ﻣﻰﺩﻫﺪ ﻛﻪ‬       ‫ﺑﻌﺪ ﻳﻚ ﺩﻭﺭﻩ ﺁﻣﻮﺯﺷﻰ ﺑﻪ ﻋﻨﻮﺍﻥ ﻣﺮﺑﻰ‬        ‫ﻛﻪ ﻣﻰﺧﻮﺍﻫﻢ ﺩﺭﺳﻢ ﺭﺍ ﺍﺩﺍﻣﻪ ﺑﺪﻫﻢ‪ ،‬ﺍﻳﻦ‬     ‫ﺧﺎﻧﻮﺍﺩﮔﻰ ﻋﻤﻪﺍﻡ ﻣﺮﺍ ﺑﺮﺍﻯ ﭘﺴﺮﺵ‬
   ‫ﺍﻳﻦ ﻃﻮﺭ ﺭﻭﻯ ﭘﺎﻯ ﺧﻮﺩﻡ ﺑﺎﻳﺴﺘﻢ‪.‬‬         ‫ﻫﻴﭻ ﺍﻗﺪﺍﻣﻰ ﺑﺮﺍﻯ ﮔﺮﻓﺘﻦ ﺑﭽﻪﻫﺎ ﻧﻜﻨﺪ‪.‬‬       ‫ﻛﻮﺩﻙ ﮔﺮﻓﺘﻢ‪ .‬ﺍﻳﻦ ﻭﺿﻊ ﺩﻭ ﺳﺎﻝ ﻃﻮﻝ‬          ‫ﺑﺮﺍﺩﺭ ﺷﻮﻫﺮﻡ ﺑﻮﺩ ﻛﻪ ﺑﻪ ﻣﻦ ﺟﻮﺍﺏ ﺩﺍﺩ ﻭ‬    ‫ﺧﻮﺍﺳﺘﮕﺎﺭﻯ ﻛﺮﺩ‪ .‬ﭘﺪﺭﻡ ﮔﻔﺖ‪ :‬ﺑﺎﻳﺪ ﺍﺯ‬        ‫‪‬ﻭﻗﺘﻰ ﻛﻪ ﺑﻪ ﺩﻧﻴﺎ ﺁﻣﺪﻯ ﭘﺪﺭﺕ‬
                                        ‫ﺑﺎﻭﺭﺵ ﻛﺮﺩﻡ ﻭ ﺑﻌﺪ ﺍﺯ ﺩﻭﺳﺎﻝ ﺗﺒﻌﻴﺪ‬         ‫ﻛﺸﻴﺪ ﻭ ﺩﺭ ﺍﻳﻦ ﻣﺪﺕ ﻫﺮ ﺭﻭﺯ ﻣﺎﺩﺭﻡ‬          ‫ﮔﻔﺖ‪ :‬ﻓﺮﺍﻣﻮﺵ ﻛﻦ‪ ،‬ﺗﻮ ﺍﺯﺩﻭﺍﺝ ﻛﺮﺩﻩﺍﻯ‪،‬‬      ‫ﺩﺧﺘﺮﻡ ﺑﭙﺮﺳﻢ ﻭ ﻗﺮﺍﺭ ﺷﺪ ﻫﻔﺘﻪ ﺑﻌﺪ‬          ‫ﺩﺭ ﺯﻧﺪﺍﻥ ﺑﻮﺩ‪ ،‬ﻛﻰ ﺍﻭﻟﻴﻦ ﺑﺎﺭ ﭘﺪﺭﺕ‬
                  ‫‪‬ﻣﺜﻼ ﭼﻰ؟‬                                                                                              ‫ﺗﻮ ﻣﺎﺩﺭﻯ ﻭ ﺩﺭ ﺧﺎﻧﻪ ﻣﻰﻣﺎﻧﻰ‪ .‬ﺑﻪ ﻫﻤﺴﺮﻡ‬    ‫ﺑﻴﺎﻳﻨﺪ‪ .‬ﻣﻦ ﺷﻮﻛﻪ ﺷﺪﻩ ﺑﻮﺩﻡ‪ .‬ﻓﻜﺮ‬
‫‪-‬ﻣﺜﻼ ﺩﺭ ﻣﻬﻤﺎﻧﻰﻫﺎ‪ ،‬ﺯﻥﻫﺎﻯ‬                    ‫ﺧﻮﺩﺧﻮﺍﺳﺘﻪ‪ ،‬ﺑﻪ ﺩﻭﺭﺗﻤﻮﻧﺪ ﺑﺮﮔﺸﺘﻢ‪.‬‬                   ‫ﺑﭽﻪﻫﺎ ﺭﺍ ﻧﮕﻪ ﻣﻰﺩﺍﺷﺖ‪.‬‬        ‫ﻧﮕﺎﻩ ﻛﺮﺩﻡ‪ ،‬ﺳﺎﻛﺖ ﺑﻮﺩ ﻭ ﺣﺮﻓﻰ ﻧﻤﻰﺯﺩ‪.‬‬      ‫ﻣﻰﻛﺮﺩﻡ ﺍﻳﻨﻬﺎ ﺟﺰﺋﻰ ﺍﺯ ﻳﻚ ﺑﺮﻧﺎﻣﻪ ﭘﺪﺭﻡ‬                            ‫ﺭﺍ ﺩﻳﺪﻯ؟‬
‫ﺷﻮﻫﺮﺩﺍﺭ ﺭﺍ ﺗﻮ ﺭﺍ ﻳﻚ ﺭﻗﻴﺐ ﻣﻰﺑﻴﻨﻨﺪ ﻭ‬                                                                                      ‫ﺑﺪﻭﻥ ﺍﻳﻨﻜﻪ ﺑﺤﺚ ﻛﻨﻢ ﺑﻪ ﺍﻳﻦ ﻭﺿﻊ‬          ‫ﺍﺳﺖ ﻛﻪ ﻣﻰﺧﻮﺍﻫﺪ ﻣﺮﺍ ﺑﺘﺮﺳﺎﻧﺪ ﺗﺎ ﺩﻳﮕﺮ‬      ‫‪-‬ﺩﺭﺳﺘﻪ‪ .‬ﻣﻮﻗﻊ ﺗﻮﻟﺪ ﻣﻦ‪ ،‬ﭘﺪﺭﻡ ﺩﺭ‬
‫ﻓﻜﺮ ﻣﻰﻛﻨﻨﺪ ﺗﻮ ﻣﻰﺧﻮﺍﻫﻰ ﺷﻮﻫﺮﺷﺎﻥ‬           ‫‪‬ﺗﺼﻤﻴﻢﺍﺕ ﭼﻪ ﺑﻮﺩ‪ ،‬ﻣﻰﺧﻮﺍﺳﺘﻰ‬               ‫‪‬ﺁﻳﺎ ﻫﻤﺴﺮﺕ ﺩﺭ ﻧﮕﻬﺪﺍﺭﻯ ﺑﭽﻪ‬                                                      ‫ﻓﻌﺎﻟﻴﺖﻧﻜﻨﻢ‪.‬ﺑﺎﻭﺭﻡﻧﻤﻰﺷﺪ‪.‬ﺩﻳﮕﺮﺑﺎﭘﺪﺭﻡ‬        ‫ﺯﻧﺪﺍﻥ ﺑﻮﺩ‪ .‬ﺁﻥ ﻣﻮﻗﻊ‪ ،‬ﺍﻭﺍﺧﺮ ﺩﻫﻪ ‪ 70‬ﻭ‬
‫ﺭﺍ ﺍﺯ ﺭﺍﻩ ﺑﻪ ﺩﺭ ﻛﻨﻰ ﻭ ﺍﺯ ﺩﺳﺖ ﺁﻧﻬﺎ ﺩﺭ‬                 ‫ﺑﻌﺪ ﺍﺯ ﺁﻥ ﭼﻜﺎﺭ ﻛﻨﻰ؟‬                       ‫ﻫﺎ ﻫﻴﭻ ﻛﻤﻜﻰ ﻛﺮﺩ؟‬                                  ‫ﺗﻦ ﺩﺍﺩﻡ‪.‬‬      ‫ﺻﺤﺒﺖ ﻧﻜﺮﺩﻡ‪ .‬ﻭﻟﻰ ﺑﻪ ﻣﺎﺩﺭﻡ ﮔﻔﺘﻢ ﻣﻦ‬        ‫ﺍﻭﺍﺋﻞ ﺩﻫﻪ ‪ 80‬ﻭ ﺑﻌﺪ ﺍﺯ ﻛﻮﺩﺗﺎ ﺩﺭ ﺗﺮﻛﻴﻪ‪،‬‬
‫ﺑﻴﺎﻭﺭﻯ‪ .‬ﻳﺎ ﭘﺪﺭ ﻭ ﻣﺎﺩﺭﻫﺎﺋﻰ ﻛﻪ ﺩﺧﺘﺮ‬                                                                                                                              ‫ﺍﻫﻞ ﺍﺯﺩﻭﺍﺝ ﻧﻴﺴﺘﻢ‪ ،‬ﺣﺘﻰ ﺍﮔﺮ ﻣﺠﺒﻮﺭ ﺑﻪ‬      ‫ﺧﻴﻠﻰ ﺍﺯ ﻣﺨﺎﻟﻔﺎﻥ ﭼﭗ ﺩﺳﺘﮕﻴﺮ ﺷﺪﻩ‬
‫ﺟﻮﺍﻥ ﺩﺍﺭﻧﺪ‪ ،‬ﻣﻰﺗﺮﺳﻨﺪ ﻛﻪ ﺩﺧﺘﺮﺷﺎﻥ‬          ‫‪-‬ﺗﺼﻤﻴﻢ ﮔﺮﻓﺘﻪ ﺑﻮﺩﻡ ﺣﺎﻻ ﻛﻪ‬                ‫‪-‬ﻛﻤﻚ؟ ﺍﺻﻼ‪ .‬ﻣﻰﮔﻔﺘﻢ ﺍﻳﻨﻬﺎ‬                 ‫‪‬ﮔﻔﺘﻰ ﺗﻮ ﻭ ﻫﻤﺴﺮﺕ ﻫﺮ‬                    ‫ﺧﻮﺩﻛﺸﻰ ﺷﻮﻡ‪ ،‬ﺗﻦ ﺑﻪ ﺍﺯﺩﻭﺍﺝ ﻧﻤﻰﺩﻫﻢ‪.‬‬        ‫ﻭ ﺑﻪ ﺯﻧﺪﺍﻥ ﺍﻓﺘﺎﺩﻧﺪ‪ .‬ﭘﺪﺭ ﻣﻦ ﻳﻚ ﻓﻌﺎﻝ‬
‫ﺑﺎ ﺗﻮ ﺗﻤﺎﺱ ﺑﮕﻴﺮﺩ‪ ،‬ﭼﻮﻥ ﻓﻜﺮ ﻣﻰﻛﻨﻨﺪ‬        ‫ﺩﻳﭙﻠﻢﺍﻡ ﺭﺍ ﻫﻢ ﮔﺮﻓﺘﻢ ﺑﻪ ﺩﺍﻧﺸﮕﺎﻩ ﺑﺮﻭﻡ‪.‬‬    ‫ﺑﭽﻪﻫﺎﻯ ﻣﺸﺘﺮﻙ ﻣﺎ ﻫﺴﺘﻨﺪ ﻭ ﺗﻮ ﻫﻢ‬           ‫ﻛﺪﺍﻡ ﺩﺭ ﮔﺮﻭﻩﻫﺎﻯ ﭼﭗ ﻣﺘﻔﺎﻭﺗﻰ‬             ‫ﺍﺯ ﻃﺮﻑ ﺩﻳﮕﺮ ﺑﻰ ﻛﺎﺭ ﻧﻨﺸﺴﺘﻢ‪ .‬ﺩﺭ‬           ‫ﺳﻴﺎﺳﻰ ﺑﻮﺩ ﻭ ﻋﻼﻭﻩ ﺑﺮ ﺁﻥ ﺑﻪ ﺩﻟﻴﻞ‬
‫ﭼﻨﻴﻦ ﺯﻧﻰ ﻳﻚ ﺍﻟﮕﻮ ﻭ ﻧﻤﻮﻧﻪ ”ﺑﺪ“‬           ‫ﻧﻤﻰﺧﻮﺍﺳﺘﻢ ﺩﺭ ﺩﻭﺭﺗﻤﻮﻧﺪ ﻭ ﺩﺭ ﺷﻬﺮﻯ‬         ‫ﺑﺎﻳﺪ ﻛﻤﻚ ﻛﻨﻰ‪ .‬ﺗﻮ ﻫﻢ ﻛﻪ ﺑﻴﻜﺎﺭﻯ‪،‬‬          ‫ﻓﻌﺎﻟﻴﺖ ﻣﻰﻛﺮﺩﻳﺪ‪ .‬ﺍﻳﻦ ﻣﻮﺿﻊ ﻭ‬             ‫ﺩﻭﺭﺗﻤﻮﻧﺪ ﻭ ﺑﺪﻭﻥ ﺁﻧﻜﻪ ﭘﺪﺭﻡ ﺑﻔﻬﻤﺪ‪ ،‬ﺑﺎ‬     ‫ﺁﻧﻜﻪ ﺧﺎﻧﻮﺍﺩﻩ ﻭ ﺭﻭﺳﺘﺎﻯ ﻣﺎ ﭘﻴﺮﻭ ﺁﺋﻴﻦ‬
‫ﺑﺮﺍﻯ ﺩﺧﺘﺮﺷﺎﻥ ﺍﺳﺖ‪ .‬ﻫﻤﻪ ﺍﻳﻨﻬﺎ ﺭﺍ‬          ‫ﺑﺎﺷﻢ ﻛﻪ ﺧﺎﻧﻮﺍﺩﻩ ﻭ ﻓﺎﻣﻴﻞ ﻫﻤﺴﺮﻡ‬           ‫ﭘﺲ ﭼﺮﺍ ﺑﭽﻪﻫﺎ ﺭﺍ ﻧﮕﻪ ﻧﻤﻰﺩﺍﺭﻯ؟ ﺍﺯ ﺳﺮ‬                                             ‫ﺩﻓﺘﺮ ﺁﻥ ﺳﺎﺯﻣﺎﻥ ﺩﺭ ﺷﻬﺮ ﻛﻠﻦ ﺍﺭﺗﺒﺎﻃﻢ‬       ‫ﻋﻠﻮﻯ ﻫﺴﺘﻨﺪ ﺑﻴﺸﺘﺮ ﻫﻢ ﺯﻳﺮ ﻓﺸﺎﺭ‬
‫ﻣﻰﺷﻮﺩ ﺍﺯ ﻧﮕﺎﻩ ﺁﺩﻡﻫﺎﺋﻰ ﻛﻪ ﺗﺎ ﺩﻳﺮﻭﺯ‬       ‫ﺁﻧﺠﺎ ﻫﺴﺘﻨﺪ ﻭ ﻫﻤﻪ ﻣﺮﺍ ﻣﻰﺷﻨﺎﺳﻨﺪ‪.‬‬                                                                                         ‫ﺭﺍ ﺩﻭﺑﺎﺭﻩ ﺑﺮﻗﺮﺍﺭ ﻛﺮﺩﻡ‪ .‬ﺩﺭ ﻫﻤﺎﻥ ﺯﻣﺎﻥ ﺑﺎ‬  ‫ﺑﻮﺩﻳﻢ‪ .‬ﻭﻗﺘﻰ ﺑﺮﺍﻯ ﺍﻭﻟﻴﻦ ﺑﺎﺭ ﭘﺪﺭﻡ ﺭﺍ‬
‫ﺑﺎ ﺗﻮ ﺩﻭﺳﺖ ﺑﻮﺩﻧﺪ ﻭ ﺑﺎ ﻫﻢ ﺭﻓﺖ ﻭ‬          ‫ﺗﺼﻤﻴﻢ ﮔﺮﻓﺘﻢ ﺑﻪ ﺑﻮﺧﻮﻡ ﺑﺮﻭﻡ ﻛﻪ‬                                                                                           ‫ﻳﻚ ﭘﺴﺮ ﺟﻮﺍﻥ ﻛﻪ ﭼﻨﺪ ﺳﺎﻝ ﺍﺯ ﺧﻮﺩﻡ‬
‫ﺁﻣﺪ ﺧﺎﻧﻮﺍﺩﮔﻰ ﺩﺍﺷﺘﻴﺪ ﺩﻳﺪ ﻭ ﻣﻦ ﺍﻳﻦ‬        ‫ﻧﺰﺩﻳﻚ ﺩﻭﺭﺗﻤﻮﻧﺪ ﺍﺳﺖ ﺗﺎ ﺍﻳﻦ ﻃﻮﺭ ﻫﻢ‬                                                                                       ‫ﺑﺰﺭگﺗﺮ ﺑﻮﺩ ﻭ ﺍﻭ ﻫﻢ ﺑﺎ ﻳﻚ ﺳﺎﺯﻣﺎﻥ‬                ‫ﺩﻳﺪﻡ ﭼﻬﺎﺭ ﻳﺎ ﭘﻨﺞ ﺳﺎﻟﻪ ﺑﻮﺩﻡ‪.‬‬
‫ﻧﮕﺎﻩﻫﺎ ﺭﺍ ﺗﺠﺮﺑﻪ ﻛﺮﺩﻡ ﻭ ﻧﻤﻰﺧﻮﺍﺳﺘﻢ‬        ‫ﺍﺯ ﺩﻳﮕﺮﺍﻥ ﺑﻪ ﺍﻧﺪﺍﺯﻩ ﻛﺎﻓﻰ ﻓﺎﺻﻠﻪ ﺑﮕﻴﺮﻡ‬                                                                                   ‫ﺩﺳﺖ ﭼﭙﻰ ﺩﻳﮕﺮ ﻓﻌﺎﻟﻴﺖ ﻣﻰﻛﺮﺩﻡ ﺁﺷﻨﺎ‬
‫ﺯﻳﺮ ﻓﺸﺎﺭ ﺁﻧﻬﺎ ﺑﻤﺎﻧﻢ‪ .‬ﺣﺘﻰ ﭘﺪﺭﻡ ﻫﻢ‬        ‫ﻭ ﻫﻢ ﻣﻰﺗﻮﺍﻧﺴﺘﻢ ﻫﻤﺎﻥ ﺟﺎ ﺩﺍﻧﺸﮕﺎﻩ ﺭﺍ‬                                                                                      ‫ﺑﻮﺩﻡ‪ .‬ﺁﻥ ﻣﻮﻗﻊ ﺩﻭ ﺩﻭﺳﺖ ﺳﺎﺩﻩ ﺑﻮﺩﻳﻢ‬        ‫‪‬ﺩﺧﺘﺮ ﺑﭽﻪﺍﻯ ﻛﻪ ﺩﺭ ﺭﻭﺳﺘﺎﺋﻰ‬
‫ﺑﺎ ﺗﻤﺎﻡ ﻋﺸﻘﻰ ﻛﻪ ﺑﻪ ﻣﻦ ﺩﺍﺷﺖ‬                                                                                                                                     ‫ﻛﻪ ﺧﻴﻠﻰ ﺑﻪ ﻫﻢ ﺍﺣﺘﺮﺍﻡ ﻣﻰﮔﺬﺍﺷﺘﻴﻢ ﻭ‬        ‫ﺩﺭ ﺗﺮﻛﻴﻪ ﺑﻪ ﺩﻧﻴﺎ ﺁﻣﺪﻩ‪ ،‬ﺗﺎ‪ 13‬ﺳﺎﻟﮕﻰ‬
‫ﻣﻰﮔﻔﺖ‪ :‬ﭼﻄﻮﺭ ﻣﻰﺧﻮﺍﻫﻰ ﺑﺎ ﺩﻭ ﺗﺎ‬                                  ‫ﺍﺩﺍﻣﻪ ﺑﺪﻫﻢ‪.‬‬                                                                                      ‫ﺑﺎ ﻫﻢ ﺧﻴﻠﻰ ﺑﺤﺚ ﻣﻰﻛﺮﺩﻳﻢ‪ .‬ﻣﺎﺟﺮﺍﻯ‬          ‫ﺁﻧﺠﺎ ﺑﺰﺭگ ﺷﺪﻩ‪ ،‬ﺩﺭ ﭼﻮﭘﺎﻧﻰ ﻭ‬
‫ﺑﭽﻪ ﺗﻨﻬﺎ ﻭ ﺑﺪﻭﻥ ﺷﻮﻫﺮﺕ ﺯﻧﺪﮔﻰ‬                                                                                                                                    ‫ﻋﺮﻭﺳﻰ ﻭ ﺧﻮﺍﺳﺘﮕﺎﺭﻯ ﺭﺍ ﺑﺮﺍﻳﺶ ﺗﻌﺮﻳﻒ‬        ‫ﺩﺍﻣﺪﺍﺭﻯ ﺑﻪ ﺧﺎﻧﻮﺍﺩﻩ ﻛﻤﻚ ﻣﻰﻛﺮﺩﻩ‪،‬‬
‫ﻛﻨﻰ‪ ،‬ﺩﺭ ﻓﺮﻫﻨﮓ ﻣﺎ ﺍﻳﻦ ﻃﻮﺭ ﻧﻤﻰﺷﻮﺩ‬         ‫‪‬ﺑﺮﺧﻮﺭﺩ ﺧﺎﻧﻮﺍﺩﻩﺍﺕ ﺑﺎ ﺗﻮ ﭼﻄﻮﺭ‬                                                                                           ‫ﻛﺮﺩﻡ‪ .‬ﻭﻗﺘﻰ ﺍﻭ ﺍﻳﻦ ﺣﺮﻑﻫﺎ ﺭﺍ ﺷﻨﻴﺪ‬         ‫ﻳﻚ ﺩﻓﻌﻪ ﺑﻪ ﺁﻟﻤﺎﻥ ﻣﻰﺁﻳﺪ ﻭ ﺍﻳﻨﺠﺎ‬
                                                                     ‫ﺑﻮﺩ؟‬                                                                                      ‫ﺑﻪ ﻣﻦ ﮔﻔﺖ ﻛﻪ ﺍﺯ ﺳﺎﻝﻫﺎ ﻗﺒﻞ ﺑﻪ ﻣﻦ‬         ‫ﺑﻪ ﺩﺍﻧﺸﮕﺎﻩ ﻣﻰﺭﻭﺩ ﻭ ﻣﺪﺭﻛﺶ ﺭﺍ‬
              ‫ﻭ ﺁﻥ ﺭﺍ ﻗﺒﻮﻝ ﻧﺪﺍﺭﻧﺪ‪.‬‬                                                                                                                             ‫ﻋﻼﻗﻪ ﺩﺍﺷﺘﻪ‪ ،‬ﻭﻟﻰ ﭼﻮﻥ ﻓﻜﺮ ﻣﻰﻛﺮﺩﻩ‬          ‫ﻣﻰﮔﻴﺮﺩ‪ .‬ﺭﺳﻴﺪﻥ ﺑﻪ ﺍﻳﻦ ﻧﻘﻄﻪ‬
                                        ‫‪-‬ﺑﻌﺪ ﺍﺯ ﺷﺐﻫﺎ ﻭ ﺭﻭﺯﻫﺎ ﺑﺤﺚ ﻭ ﺟﺪﻝ‬                                                                                         ‫ﻛﻪ ﻧﺎﻣﺰﺩ ﺩﺍﺭﻡ ﻧﺨﻮﺍﺳﺘﻪ ﺍﺣﺴﺎﺱﺍﺵ ﺭﺍ‬
‫‪‬ﻭﻗﺘﻰ ﺑﻪ ﻋﻘﺐ ﻧﮕﺎﻩ ﻣﻰﻛﻨﻰ ﺍﺯ‬              ‫ﻭ ﺩﻋﻮﺍ ﻭ ﺍﺳﺘﺪﻻﻝ‪ ،‬ﭘﺪﺭﻡ ﻣﺮﺍ ﺁﻥ ﻃﻮﺭ‬                                                                                       ‫ﺑﻪ ﻣﻦ ﻧﺸﺎﻥ ﺩﻫﺪ ﻭ ﮔﻔﺖ ﺑﺮﺍﻯ ﺍﻳﻨﻜﻪ ﺍﺯ‬                           ‫ﺳﺨﺖ ﺑﻮﺩ؟‬
       ‫ﭼﻴﺰﻯ ﺍﻓﺴﻮﺱ ﻧﻤﻰﺧﻮﺭﻯ؟‬              ‫ﻛﻪ ﻫﺴﺘﻢ ﭘﺬﻳﺮﻓﺖ‪ .‬ﮔﻔﺖ‪ :‬ﻣﻬﻢ ﻧﻴﺴﺖ‬                                                                                          ‫ﺯﻳﺮ ﺍﻳﻦ ﻓﺸﺎﺭ ﺑﻴﺮﻭﻥ ﺑﻴﺎﺋﻰ ﻣﻦ ﻣﻰﺁﻳﻢ‬       ‫‪-‬ﺩﺍﺳﺘﺎﻥ ﺯﻧﺪﮔﻰ ﻣﻦ ﻓﺮﺍﺯ ﻭ‬
                                        ‫ﻛﻪ ﺗﻮ ﭼﻪ ﺗﺼﻤﻴﻤﻰ ﺑﺮﺍﻯ ﺯﻧﺪﮔﻰﺍﺕ‬                                                                                           ‫ﭘﻴﺶ ﺧﺎﻧﻮﺍﺩﻩﺍﺕ ﻭ ﺍﺯ ﺗﻮ ﺧﻮﺍﺳﺘﮕﺎﺭﻯ‬
‫‪-‬ﻧﻪ! ﺁﻧﭽﻪ ﺍﺗﻔﺎﻕ ﺍﻓﺘﺎﺩ‪ ،‬ﺟﺰﺋﻰ ﺍﺯ‬          ‫ﻣﻰﮔﻴﺮﻯ‪ ،‬ﻭﻟﻰ ﻫﺮﭼﻪ ﺑﺎﺷﺪ ﻣﻰﺗﻮﺍﻧﻰ‬                                                                                                                                            ‫ﻧﺸﻴﺐﻫﺎﻯ ﺯﻳﺎﺩﻯ ﺩﺍﺷﺘﻪ‪.‬‬
‫ﺯﻧﺪﮔﻰ ﻣﻦ ﺑﻮﺩﻩ ﻭ ﻫﺴﺖ‪ .‬ﺁﺩﻡ ﺑﺎﻳﺪ‬           ‫ﺭﻭﻯ ﻣﻦ ﺣﺴﺎﺏ ﻛﻨﻰ‪ .‬ﻣﻦ ﺍﺯ ﺗﻮ ﺣﻤﺎﻳﺖ‬                                                                                                                 ‫ﻣﻰﻛﻨﻢ‪.‬‬
‫ﺁﺭﺯﻭ ﻭ ﺧﻮﺍﺳﺘﻪ ﻭ ﻣﻄﺎﻟﺒﺎﺗﺶ ﺭﺍ ﺩﻧﺒﺎﻝ‬       ‫ﻣﻰﻛﻨﻢ‪ .‬ﺣﺘﻰ ﺍﮔﺮ ﺗﺼﻤﻴﻢﺍﺕ ﺍﺷﺘﺒﺎﻩ‬                                                                                                                                   ‫‪‬ﺍﻳﻦ ﻓﺮﺍﺯ ﻭ ﻧﺸﻴﺐ ﻫﺎ ﭼﻪ ﺑﻮﺩ؟‬
‫ﻛﻨﺪ‪ .‬ﻛﺘﺎﺏﻫﺎﺋﻰ ﻛﻪ ﻣﻰﺧﻮﺍﻧﺪﻡ ﺑﻪ ﻣﻦ‬                                                                                                                                   ‫‪‬ﺁﻳﺎ ﺑﺎ ﭘﺪﺭﺕ ﺻﺤﺒﺖ ﻛﺮﺩﻳﺪ؟‬             ‫‪-‬ﻣﻮﻗﻌﻰ ﻛﻪ ‪ 16‬ﺳﺎﻟﻪ ﺑﻮﺩﻡ‪ ،‬ﺑﺎ ﻳﻚ‬
‫ﻛﻤﻚ ﻛﺮﺩﻧﺪ ﺗﺎ ﺧﻮﺍﺳﺘﻪﻫﺎ ﻭ ﺁﺭﺯﻭﻫﺎﻯ‬             ‫ﺑﺎﺷﺪ ﺑﺎﺯ ﻫﻢ ﭘُﺸﺖﺍﺕ ﺧﻮﺍﻫﻢ ﺑﻮﺩ‪.‬‬                                                                                      ‫‪-‬ﻧﻪ‪ ،‬ﻫﺮ ﺩﻭ ﻣﻰﺩﺍﻧﺴﺘﻴﻢ ﻛﻪ ﺭﺍﻩ ﺣﻞ‬          ‫ﺳﺎﺯﻣﺎﻥ ﺩﺳﺖ ﭼﭙﻰ ﺗﺮﻛﻴﻪ ﺍﺭﺗﺒﺎﻁ‬
‫ﺧﻮﺩﻡ ﺭﺍ ﺑﺸﻨﺎﺳﻢ‪ .‬ﻛﻤﻚ ﻛﺮﺩﻧﺪ ﺗﺎ ﺁﮔﺎﻩ‬                                                                                                                              ‫ﻣﺎ ﻳﻚ ﻓﻜﺮ ﺑﭽﮕﺎﻧﻪ ﺍﺳﺖ ﻭ ﭘﺪﺭﻡ ﺍﺻﻼ‬         ‫ﺩﺍﺷﺘﻢ‪ .‬ﺍﻳﻦ ﺳﺎﺯﻣﺎﻥ ﻳﻚ ﺳﺎﺯﻣﺎﻥ‬
‫ﺷﻮﻡ‪ .‬ﺷﺎﻳﺪ ﺑﺘﻮﺍﻥ ﻣﻨﺒﻊ ﺍﻧﺮژﻯ ﻣﻦ ﺭﺍ ﺍﻳﻦ‬    ‫ﺍﻻﻥ ﻛﻪ ﺳﻪ ﺳﺎﻝ ﺍﺯ ﺁﻥ ﻣﻮﻗﻊ ﻣﻰﮔﺬﺭﺩ‬                                                                                        ‫ﭼﻨﻴﻦ ﭼﻴﺰﻯ ﺭﺍ ﻧﻤﻰﭘﺬﻳﺮﺩ‪ .‬ﺑﻌﺪﺍ ﺑﻪ‬          ‫ﺭﺍﺩﻳﻜﺎﻝ ﻭ ﻣﻌﺘﻘﺪ ﺑﻪ ﺟﻨﮓ ﭼﺮﻳﻜﻰ‬
‫ﻃﻮﺭ ﺧﻼﺻﻪ ﻛﺮﺩ‪ :‬ﺁﮔﺎﻫﻰ‪ +‬ﺁﺭﺯﻭ ﻭ ﺍﻳﺪﻩ‬        ‫ﻭﺍﻗﻌﺎ ﺑﻪ ﺣﺮﻓﺶ ﻭﻓﺎﺩﺍﺭ ﻣﺎﻧﺪ ﻭ ﺩﺭ ﻫﻤﻪ‬                                                                                     ‫ﺗﻮﺻﻴﻪ ﺩﻭﺳﺖ ﭘﺴﺮﻡ ﺑﻪ ﭘﺪﺭﻡ ﺗﻠﻔﻦ‬            ‫ﻋﻠﻴﻪ ﺭژﻳﻢ ﺗﺮﻛﻴﻪ ﺑﻮﺩ ﻭ ﺩﺭ ﺁﻟﻤﺎﻥ‬
‫ﺍﻝ‪ +‬ﺧﻮﺍﺳﺘﻪﻫﺎﻯ ﻣﺸﺨﺺ ﻭ ﻣﻄﺎﻟﺒﺎﺕ‬            ‫ﺷﺮﺍﻳﻂ ﭘﺸﺘﻴﺒﺎﻧﻢ ﺍﺳﺖ‪ .‬ﺩﺭ ﺯﻧﺪﮔﻰﺍﻡ‬                                                                                                                                 ‫ﻫﻢ ﺭﺳﻤﺎ ﻳﻚ ﺳﺎﺯﻣﺎﻥ ﻣﻤﻨﻮﻋﻪ ﺑﻮﺩ‪.‬‬
‫ﺍﻳﻦ ﺯﻣﻴﻨﻰ‪ +‬ﺟﺮﺃﺕ‪ .‬ﺟﺮﺃﺕ ﺍﻳﺴﺘﺎﺩﻥ‬           ‫ﺩﺧﺎﻟﺖ ﻧﻤﻰﻛﻨﺪ ﻭ ﺑﻪ ﺗﺼﻤﻴﻤﺎﺗﻢ ﺍﺣﺘﺮﺍﻡ‬                                                                                       ‫ﻛﺮﺩﻩ ﻭ ﺑﻪ ﺁﻧﻬﺎ ﺗﺼﻤﻴﻤﻢ ﺭﺍ ﺧﺒﺮ ﺩﺍﺩﻡ‪.‬‬     ‫ﻭﻟﻰ ﺁﻧﻬﺎ ﻓﻌﺎﻝ ﺑﻮﺩﻧﺪ ﻭ ﻣﻦ ﻫﻢ ﺑﺎ ﺁﻧﻬﺎ‬
‫ﻭ ﻧﻪ ﮔﻔﺘﻦ ﻭ ﺟﺮﺃﺕ ﺩﻧﺒﺎﻝ ﻛﺮﺩﻥ ﺁﻥ‬          ‫ﻣﻰﮔﺬﺍﺭﺩ‪ .‬ﺑﻌﻀﻰ ﻭﻗﺖﻫﺎ ﻧﻈﺮﺵ ﺭﺍ‬                                                                                            ‫ﺗﺎ ﺳﻪ ﻣﺎﻩ ﺑﺎ ﺁﻧﻬﺎ ﺗﻤﺎﺳﻰ ﻧﮕﺮﻓﺘﻢ‬          ‫ﺍﺭﺗﺒﺎﻁ ﺩﺍﺷﺘﻢ‪ .‬ﻭﻗﺘﻰ ﭘﺪﺭﻡ ﺍﻳﻦ ﻣﻮﺿﻮﻉ‬
‫ﺁﺭﺯﻭﻫﺎ ﻭ ﺍﻳﻨﻜﻪ ﺗﺴﻠﻴﻢ ﻧﺸﻮﻡ‪ .‬ﺧﻼﺻﻪ‬         ‫ﻣﻰﮔﻮﻳﺪ ﻭ ﺑﻌﻀﻰ ﻭﻗﺖﻫﺎ ﻫﻢ ﺣﺘﻰ‬                                                                                             ‫ﻭ ﺁﻧﻬﺎ ﻫﻢ ﻧﻤﻰﺩﺍﻧﺴﺘﻨﺪ ﻛﻪ ﻣﻦ ﻛﺠﺎ‬          ‫ﺭﺍ ﻓﻬﻤﻴﺪ ﺑﻪ ﺷﺪﺕ ﺑﺎ ﺁﻥ ﻣﺨﺎﻟﻔﺖ‬
‫ﻛﻨﻢ‪ :‬ﺁﮔﺎﻫﻰ ﭘﺎﻳﻪ ﻫﻤﻪ ﭼﻴﺰ ﺍﺳﺖ‪.‬‬            ‫ﺍﺯ ﻣﻦ ﺩﺭ ﻣﻮﺭﺩ ﻣﺴﺎﺋﻞ ﺧﺎﻧﻮﺍﺩﻩ ﻧﻈﺮ‬                                                                                        ‫ﻫﺴﺘﻢ‪ .‬ﭼﻨﺪ ﻭﻗﺖ ﺑﻌﺪ ﭘﺪﺭﻡ‪ ،‬ﻣﻦ ﻭ‬            ‫ﻛﺮﺩ‪ .‬ﺍﺻﻼ ﺭﻓﺘﺎﺭﺵ ﺑﺎ ﻣﻦ ﻛﺎﻣﻼ ﻋﻮﺽ‬
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                                                               ‫ﻣﻰﺧﻮﺍﻫﺪ‪.‬‬                                                                                        ‫ﮔﻔﺖ‪ :‬ﻣﻮﺿﻮﻉ ﺍﺯﺩﻭﺍﺝ ﺑﺎ ﭘﺴﺮ ﻋﻤﻪﺍﺕ‬          ‫ﻭ ﻧﻤﻰﺩﺍﻧﺴﺘﻢ ﭼﺮﺍ ﺍﻳﻦ ﻃﻮﺭ ﺷﺪﻩ‪.‬‬
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